Why is it okay to tell a parent they gave birth to a child in the wrong body? Please explain how did this happen and why do our feelings not matter at all?
This is truly an evil disease. Our son turns 39 this week...he has two young boys and a wife that has encouraged him to become a "she". He is happy to be with us as long as we agree that he is now a woman. Since we cannot agree to something so damaging to not only him but also his two sons, we no longer see each other. We still communicate in texts and emails and phone calls, but the damage has been done. It is devastating to our entire family and he cannot see the harm that has been done. Life goes on, but the joy has been taken from us.
I am so sorry! My beautiful strawberry blonde, blue eyed daughter has been pretending to be a man since 2017. Cut off her breasts, cut out her uterus. Had her then 6 year old daughter, whom she nursed for four years, start pretending her mother was a second father. When she spent equal time with her real dad. It is a world wide contagion. My daughter was molested at age 8 by her paternal grandfather. Her father did not protect her after our divorce. I cry with you for your beautiful redheaded daughter. This contagion is a crime against humanity and every professional that has enabled it (after short consults before hustling these kids and traumatized adults into surgical and pharmaceutical hell) should be prosecuted. Will it happen? I am not holding my breath, even though I am an attorney.
Fourteen years ago my husband and I had never even heard of the terms gender ideology or gender dysphoria. Fourteen years ago—while in college--our highly intelligent, beautiful, loving 23-yr-old daughter told us she was born in the wrong body, she was transitioning, and we had no say in the matter. We tried--gently, lovingly--to suggest that hormones and surgeries were dangerous, not the answer. We would help her find other, less harmful ways to heal.
“Unsafe!... Toxic!... Abusive!... Transphobe!... I have no room in my life for you!”
Who was this angry, hateful, maniac in my daughter’s skin? Where did my child go? Is she still in there, somewhere? Will she ever escape the chains of gender-affirming “care”? Will she die way too young from the terrible toll on her body?—all because of psychiatric lies and medical horrors? We may never know. Estranged now for 14 years, we can only love her, reach her, through our prayers…and hold fast to hope.
Same, almost 3 years with very little contact with my daughter. God bless you and I pray for a better future and relationship with your daughter. Thank you for sharing your story.
Genspect.org is an excellent resource & support, in addition to PITT.
May you find your way through the anguish brought on by this ideology and may your daughter come to understand more about how she is being exploited and lied to.
A beautiful woman is a priceless treasure. God is the one who imparts beauty to flesh and blood. To destroy that gift from heaven, is too evil to bear.
Your daughter is lucky to have you. I wish you all the strength and hope you can muster for this horrendous fight against an extremely powerful cult led by ego-maniacal billionaire men, some with a sick sexual fetish and others who are extreme women-haters, all wanting to normalise their fetish and get access to children's bodies and brains, and to do that, they must first break down the loving family, especially the mother-child bond that protect the children from cult capture. Social media became the ultimate propaganda tool for spreading anti-mother messaging along with child 'trans' identification. But the truth of its evil motives, methods and harms to young people especially is coming out increasingly. Hope is in the air. I hope your daughter is saved.
Makes me think of my own daughter who was trapped in this evil for 4 years—when she cut her hair after the trans announcement, I sent the four long blonde ponytails to ‘ Locks for Love’ for wigs. I needed something good to come from the darkness. She seems to be desisting but I am still anxious about the hair and its meaning. When we FaceTime, the hair and the eyes are the first things I lock into. Sending you hope.
My son grew his hair from the age of 4 until 16. It got so long he could sit on it.
When he decided at 16 that it was too much trouble to take care of, he had it cut off, and our barber sent it to Locks for Love. I've always been grateful that his beautiful hair continued to do good in this world after he was done with it.
So very sorry, how devastating. I am reminded of myself as a young woman, I too had long wavy red hair and would never believe the compliments, I thought I was cursed with ugliness. I eventually grew out of it and with therapy and spiritual studies, grew to love who I am. I could have been a victim of this delusion that preys on developing youth going through a natural process. It’s hard at times to grasp the depth of this evil cult.
Were all praying for you and that your daughter will grow out of this to see her natural birthright and beauty as a true divine gift
We were also except I knew he was struggling with a severe mood disorder...he was isolating and very OCD... would not listen to anything I suggested... will soon be 3 years for us
No parent should have to live with this pain. I just pray my son comes back . He’s 27 now. He loved his family. His fiance along with his obsession with online gaming, I believe, pushed him into this delusion. I know his fiance left him for another trans M to F friend of theirs.
I pray every morning for God to intervene in all our children's lives to heal them... give them new hearts and minds before it's too late... there were never any risk factors in our home...both of them are heavy into gaming...he is a software engineer and used to work for a big gaming company in California
My son is a software Engineer as well. He grew up surrounded by love. Involved in our church. When I went through my difficult times with an illness or the death of my parents he always said I’m praying for you Momma. He gave the best hugs.
I just wish God would intervene soon because this hurts. Although I’m doing okay overall some days are really hard.
I'm so really sorry. I know exactly what every single word you wrote means, feels and how devastating it is. My heart goes out to you and my praying for you and your beloved daughter.
Why is it okay to tell a parent they gave birth to a child in the wrong body? Please explain how did this happen and why do our feelings not matter at all?
This is truly an evil disease. Our son turns 39 this week...he has two young boys and a wife that has encouraged him to become a "she". He is happy to be with us as long as we agree that he is now a woman. Since we cannot agree to something so damaging to not only him but also his two sons, we no longer see each other. We still communicate in texts and emails and phone calls, but the damage has been done. It is devastating to our entire family and he cannot see the harm that has been done. Life goes on, but the joy has been taken from us.
I’m so very sorry 🙏🙏🙏
Devastated with you.
Our son was so handsome and perfect, just the way he was.
I am so sorry! My beautiful strawberry blonde, blue eyed daughter has been pretending to be a man since 2017. Cut off her breasts, cut out her uterus. Had her then 6 year old daughter, whom she nursed for four years, start pretending her mother was a second father. When she spent equal time with her real dad. It is a world wide contagion. My daughter was molested at age 8 by her paternal grandfather. Her father did not protect her after our divorce. I cry with you for your beautiful redheaded daughter. This contagion is a crime against humanity and every professional that has enabled it (after short consults before hustling these kids and traumatized adults into surgical and pharmaceutical hell) should be prosecuted. Will it happen? I am not holding my breath, even though I am an attorney.
I understand and I am so very sorry!
We never saw it coming.
Fourteen years ago my husband and I had never even heard of the terms gender ideology or gender dysphoria. Fourteen years ago—while in college--our highly intelligent, beautiful, loving 23-yr-old daughter told us she was born in the wrong body, she was transitioning, and we had no say in the matter. We tried--gently, lovingly--to suggest that hormones and surgeries were dangerous, not the answer. We would help her find other, less harmful ways to heal.
“Unsafe!... Toxic!... Abusive!... Transphobe!... I have no room in my life for you!”
Who was this angry, hateful, maniac in my daughter’s skin? Where did my child go? Is she still in there, somewhere? Will she ever escape the chains of gender-affirming “care”? Will she die way too young from the terrible toll on her body?—all because of psychiatric lies and medical horrors? We may never know. Estranged now for 14 years, we can only love her, reach her, through our prayers…and hold fast to hope.
Same, almost 3 years with very little contact with my daughter. God bless you and I pray for a better future and relationship with your daughter. Thank you for sharing your story.
Dear Mom, I am so sorry.
Genspect.org is an excellent resource & support, in addition to PITT.
May you find your way through the anguish brought on by this ideology and may your daughter come to understand more about how she is being exploited and lied to.
Heartbreaking.
A beautiful woman is a priceless treasure. God is the one who imparts beauty to flesh and blood. To destroy that gift from heaven, is too evil to bear.
Your daughter is lucky to have you. I wish you all the strength and hope you can muster for this horrendous fight against an extremely powerful cult led by ego-maniacal billionaire men, some with a sick sexual fetish and others who are extreme women-haters, all wanting to normalise their fetish and get access to children's bodies and brains, and to do that, they must first break down the loving family, especially the mother-child bond that protect the children from cult capture. Social media became the ultimate propaganda tool for spreading anti-mother messaging along with child 'trans' identification. But the truth of its evil motives, methods and harms to young people especially is coming out increasingly. Hope is in the air. I hope your daughter is saved.
I’m so sorry. I know how heartbreaking this is, to watch the beautiful child you helped create completely spiral into the cult.
My heart goes out to you. 💜
Makes me think of my own daughter who was trapped in this evil for 4 years—when she cut her hair after the trans announcement, I sent the four long blonde ponytails to ‘ Locks for Love’ for wigs. I needed something good to come from the darkness. She seems to be desisting but I am still anxious about the hair and its meaning. When we FaceTime, the hair and the eyes are the first things I lock into. Sending you hope.
My son grew his hair from the age of 4 until 16. It got so long he could sit on it.
When he decided at 16 that it was too much trouble to take care of, he had it cut off, and our barber sent it to Locks for Love. I've always been grateful that his beautiful hair continued to do good in this world after he was done with it.
So very sorry, how devastating. I am reminded of myself as a young woman, I too had long wavy red hair and would never believe the compliments, I thought I was cursed with ugliness. I eventually grew out of it and with therapy and spiritual studies, grew to love who I am. I could have been a victim of this delusion that preys on developing youth going through a natural process. It’s hard at times to grasp the depth of this evil cult.
Were all praying for you and that your daughter will grow out of this to see her natural birthright and beauty as a true divine gift
💔🙏our adult son is very ill and has cut us off... this is evil beyond understanding what has been done to our precious children
So very sorry! My son did the same while engaged to his very woke fiance. It’s been 2 1/2 years since I have heard from him. I was totally blindsided.
We were also except I knew he was struggling with a severe mood disorder...he was isolating and very OCD... would not listen to anything I suggested... will soon be 3 years for us
No parent should have to live with this pain. I just pray my son comes back . He’s 27 now. He loved his family. His fiance along with his obsession with online gaming, I believe, pushed him into this delusion. I know his fiance left him for another trans M to F friend of theirs.
I pray that your son finds his way back home too.
I pray every morning for God to intervene in all our children's lives to heal them... give them new hearts and minds before it's too late... there were never any risk factors in our home...both of them are heavy into gaming...he is a software engineer and used to work for a big gaming company in California
My son is a software Engineer as well. He grew up surrounded by love. Involved in our church. When I went through my difficult times with an illness or the death of my parents he always said I’m praying for you Momma. He gave the best hugs.
I just wish God would intervene soon because this hurts. Although I’m doing okay overall some days are really hard.
I hold onto the Rope of Hope...Walt Heyers story is a big encouragement for me...
I'm so really sorry. I know exactly what every single word you wrote means, feels and how devastating it is. My heart goes out to you and my praying for you and your beloved daughter.