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Maybe he can call himself/consider himself pan sexual instead of plain old hetero? That way he can still be part of the cool queer club. Of course, he's just a plain old hetero like 90% of us, but he's not obligating himself to actually date any trans people.

This whole things is unbelievably annoying!!! Great job saving your son from the cult- I wish you continued strength and luck helping him to a good path. Sending much love your way!

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I think this interlude is part of your son's true self, an exploration. He tried it out, he outgrew it. IF there wasn't the horrible push to medicalize and judge people who question pathways and attack parents, if it was just trying on a (girl) stereotype, it would be a kid thing to do. The mistake is thinking this means he needed to medicalize and have surgery. He didn't do that. But thinking you will feel a certain way the rest of your life? That's what young people feel. Maybe he can realize this and not look down on himself, just realize that with what he knows now, he only had part of the picture. He tried it, it didn't fit him long term. And now he has his life to build.

I am glad he saw through the lies that drugs and surgery are what you need to be accepted by yourself and by others. Anyone who only likes him because of that....?

I hope he finds friends who like him, rather than him toying with taking drugs, soon! Ie, real friends!

I think young people are sometimes scared they aren't up to the task of growing up. It's a scary time to take up the role of an adult. The help they are finding sometimes isn't help.

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