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Btw- hi I’m a bisexual woman who’s working with and for adults who believe this BS. As a female and ally to sex based justice - how can I help? I’m an artist and I work for a wonderful designer But she’s (they /he) is in the gender cult 🤯~ look I’ve been working for her for 🫣5+ years and it only now she’s adapting this none sense.

My long term project is to record real conversations and publish them a few years later to genuinely expose the T agenda cuz to be honest LGB is about rights and the T- woof that’s just a kink and actual science and studies are astoundingly long ( I’m a GNC bisexual WOC)

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Good luck and prayers to your nephew.

Speaking of words, I have a question about pronouns. I don't personally use preferred pronouns when they obviously conflict with reality, but I was on a college tour with my son, and saw nametags with pronouns on them on the dorm doors. Several said "She/They".

Does that mean the person wants to be called either She/her or They/them, or are you supposed to use She in the nominative and They in the objective, such as "She said she would be happy if you gave they a good grade"?

In any case, as I said, I don't play by those rules, I was just honestly wondering.

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Funny, I also had to research to learn all the language. But now a year later, I’ve forgotten most of it.

Because NO ONE speaks like this in real life. Now I don’t care.

I mean if your kid get hooked on some drug, should we parents immerse ourself in the drug culture to figure it out?

No. I must live on and hope my offspring figures out their own life. Just like a druggy.

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The uncomfortable vocabulary is a perfect example of "Social Constructionism". Trannyism is going to get worse and we will see the effects right in front of us in plain sight with all the mutilated bodies and dysfunction. It will take all of us to push back on this nonsense, if not we are doomed. It is utterly heartbreaking and all of us will be affected in someway. This is what happens when Civil Rights are all a society cares about rather than personal responsibility. Now they have a civil right at any age to cut off bits here and add pieces there, it is terrible and can get a lot worse. God help us all! Stand for Truth, Beauty and what is good. If you love what is good and True, you must hate evil. Start today.

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This is why I wrote my book. I saw a need for a primer to introduce to the newcomer all the obfuscating vocabulary, biology denying concepts, the medical malfeasance behind the euphemisms of trans medicine, how the gay community got cuckolded and the medical and therapy professions got captured, how queer theory is going to tear apart the social contract of agreed-upon-reality, plus the movement of energizing coalition building that will resist this onslaught. It's an easy read born of my 40 years as a lesbian, in the San Francisco Bay Area, watching the gay community evolve into a bullying, political powerhouse fueled by trans money.

It just came out. At 200 pages it's a quick read. My first reader said it was a page turner; she wasn't a TERF before, but now she gets it. Her wife, a veteran TERF said this about it. "There is no gender book like this. You take us by the hand and gently lead us through the fog. Your compassion comes through, so your credibility increases." Another TERF friend said, "You have always been a good writer. But this seems next level sophisticated. How you put your words together, how you advance your argument. It is so coherent."

I added all the humor I could muster, in this psychic warfare, to make it as entertaining and insightful as I could. My heart goes out to all of you parents. I hope this helps. You can order it here. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C8QBJXCK?ref_=pe_3052080_397514860

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I had to look up non-binary when my kid declared she was non-binary. I had heard it before but never bothered to look into what it meant. I thought I knew but I was wrong.

I was surprised to learn that almost anyone can claim to be non-binary. Even myself. Of course my kid thinks she is a special kind of non-binary and I'm not really non-binary, I'm just a regular man. A "Toxic male" at that. I say to her, "Don't make assumptions about me!" If I say I'm non-binary then you have to accept that." :) Gallows humor.

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Even though I am permanently banned on Twitter, I am overjoyed to learn that Elon Musk has now decreed that “cis” and “cisgender” are banned on Twitter. No more fake biological categories. Back to reality! The pronoun worm is turning!

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Your sister is so lucky to have you educate yourself on what is happening. It speaks volumes, I have just one family member who ‘gets it’. It is such a stress reliever to know you have someone on your side. You are a good person

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My exact experience in 2017. Except I also had to ad yaoi, hentai, “orchi”(vomit). I doted on this boy from the day he was born. Because I gently questioned him & had trouble using his chosen name-he cut me off completely & sent a toxic malignant email telling me to f*** off and die. He’s turned into a narcissistic, entitled, bullying, abusive man/boy. Won’t work, and takes no steps towards normal independence, even though he says living there is “literally killing him”. My heart is broken. Maybe someday he’ll come back.

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It is so shocking to me that todays society would dream up such evil to put our kids through!! Please God, help people to realize that is is unacceptable!!

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Socially speaking, contraception is the ultimate puberty blocker. It is the ultimate prevention of growing up into adult human responsibilities.

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Some fitting words I read recently, “To be like us is to be isolated, to be thought bigoted, to be written off…to be made vulnerable. It’s like watching a meteorite fly toward you and knowing you cannot and will not move.”

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A niece in my extended family pretends to be a boy. She's eighteen now, so I suppose she's now pretending to be a man. I don't know how far the pharmaceutical and/or surgical horrors have gone, or if they have been employed at all. She talks in a fake attempt at a masculine voice, but it could just be an affectation, rather than testosterone. I'm not closely involved; I just observe from the sidelines. The creepiest thing about it is her affirming, encouraging parents, who refer to her by the phony male name and "he", and introduce her to strangers as "our son". There doesn't seem to be any conflict or doubt in their minds. They cheerfully embrace the whole show, as if it gives them status among their progressive social peers. To me, it's abuse. She should have been raised by someone else. But as I said, I just watch from afar, curious how it will all turn out.

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I’m so disheartened to see the popularity growth of transgendered youth. It’s everywhere now! HONY now two days in a row featured stories about Transgender youth. immediately the masses applaud & call them brave for living in their “truth”. heaven forbid there’s a comment that isn’t supportive. people are ready to pounce!! I get why people are so afraid to speak out against it. I dare not comment how I really feel.

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Compassion, yes. Understanding, Yes. Affirmation, No.

Article on the social delusion aspect of this thing… https://thetransatlantic.substack.com/p/ideology-and-anxiety-what-can-we

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Language engineering precedes social engineering. We must reject all these ridiculous terms that are just euphemisms meant to hide the horror behind them. I have even stopped using the word "community" in association with trans (or any LGBTQ+ sub group). A community is a group of people who organize themselves for the betterment of all; a community promotes human flourishing. LGBTQ+ activists, especially trans activists, do not promote human flourishing. They promote chaos. They have no right to call themselves a community. They are a political group seeking power. We must stop acceding to their made-up words and phrases, which are only meant to confuse us and control our thinking.

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