My son (transitioning to daughter but with no new name or outward signs as yet) said he does not believe in Christmas any longer and doesn't want to do anything. Then he got upset because we cancelled our Christmas get together with his grandfather -- for many reasons -- nothing to do with him. It's back and forth . . . and he wants my s…
My son (transitioning to daughter but with no new name or outward signs as yet) said he does not believe in Christmas any longer and doesn't want to do anything. Then he got upset because we cancelled our Christmas get together with his grandfather -- for many reasons -- nothing to do with him. It's back and forth . . . and he wants my sympathy and support. I've know for 28 days . . . just not there yet. Don't know if I ever will be.
My son (transitioning to daughter but with no new name or outward signs as yet) said he does not believe in Christmas any longer and doesn't want to do anything. Then he got upset because we cancelled our Christmas get together with his grandfather -- for many reasons -- nothing to do with him. It's back and forth . . . and he wants my sympathy and support. I've know for 28 days . . . just not there yet. Don't know if I ever will be.
My stand is to offer protection and love and try to understand his reasoning. I can not support any of it. My motherly instincts won't let me.
Still so raw. Give yourself grace. It’s a long slog. I’m sorry you’re going through it at all but you’re not alone.