Sadly, today identity is tearing us apart. This word identity means I will do whatever in the hell I want to do, and no one can stop me. Those of us with children who have claimed an opposite sex identity are confronted with an endless array of topics, political and spiritual whether we like it or no…
Sadly, today identity is tearing us apart. This word identity means I will do whatever in the hell I want to do, and no one can stop me. Those of us with children who have claimed an opposite sex identity are confronted with an endless array of topics, political and spiritual whether we like it or not. Mature people know that everything we do is a sacrifice to our future selves. What we do today affects us later. We all know a Trans identity is not some alternative mode of being, pretending that you are the opposite sex from your very own existence, is not going to workout over the long term for anyone well. Our sex at birth is more basic than anything, more basic than up or down, than light and dark, it is the most basic marker as a human, being male or female. Trans is a great sacrifice being made by our children today. What are they sacrificing? Here are a few - Stability, long term relationships, long term romantic partners, long term occupations, skills being learned and honed to lead to a stable existence, becoming the best version of oneself, and more. Our trans children will not mature and grow socially.
Trans is a somewhat new hedonistic mode of being our children are pursuing for whatever reason; they are violating the age-old relationships between men and women that have existed for eons. They are refusing to grow up to become the sort of person that can stand responsibility for themselves, for their love interests, for children, for work relationships, for future family, for everything. What happens when our children are 40, 50, 60 years old, are isolated, alone, and possibly us parents and lots of family are gone as well. Of what good will our trans children be to society and others around them, seriously. Who will want them around, what sort of people will be able to be in their presence and live side by side with them in any meaningful flowering way. Our children will become bitter and dangerous. Mine sure is, she has wished death upon us and become violent. The path our children have chosen is not something that can be replicated En masse so that success will blossom for any type of society, and we all know that. Maybe there will be fleeting moments of happiness, but they won’t last, happiness never really does, it’s not meant to.
We all know the best predictor of success is IQ and second to that is conscientiousness. Conscientious people are willing to forego immediate gratification to make better sacrifices for their future selves. They let go of what they want right now to stabilize things in the long run including other people around them. This is also the definition of maturity. Our children have sacrificed their bodies and minds for striving by hook or by crook some never never land utopia, where everyone around them will have to go along with an absolute lie. Where children are unprotected from their gender confusing presence. Where women will never feel safe in a bathroom, changing room or locker room.
Our children have been taking cross sex hormones, untested as to potential long-term effects on their bodies, or untold (unreported) of them anyway. Our children have willingly, wantonly, undergone cross sex surgeries removing perfectly good healthy body parts and attempting to create cross sex anatomies that we all know is completely futile mutilation and worse. Our children through social media live in a fantasy land full of mostly anonymous porn fueled men encouraging their every step to do more destruction to their bodies for their pleasure. A world where sick psychopathic doctors and all the “experts” live encouraging them onward. Our children cling to glitter families who profess their love of them and encourage them to continue living on this Trans “identity”. Our children live in a land completely void of maturity in any real sense that our eon’s of humankind have largely flourished in.
Some Trans identified people have families that have encouraged them onward, one more surgery, it's always going to be one more surgery isn’t it. Sacrifice everything you could become for one more surgery, that’s the sacrifice being made by our Trans children, one more surgery. They may stop or opt out of these surgeries but there lies “the candy man”, there lies the perpetual allure, one more surgery.
How to escape it, well stopping the hormones and stopping the thoughts of surgery, or no more surgeries are one thing which will not be easy and will have side effects. The real fight will be two-fold, first with yourself that everything you have done or thought, that every sacrifice you made to better yourself has done the absolute opposite, and that you did it willingly to your self (this is the worst), is going to be one big mine field. Secondly, coming to grips with the untold number of people who have taken advantage of you and encouraged your corruption and deceit along the way, all the experts, everyone (right – everyone said affirm), but a few parents and a few desisters, this is really going to take a long time to heal from. This is what I mean when I said the exits are booby trapped, it is going to take herculean efforts to get our trans children back on track, and no one else is going to do it except a few parents like us.
This is why as parents of trans children no matter how hard it is, we must keep the door open, just a crack so they know we will help them, we will be there for them and God willing because I do believe in His purposes that good can come out of this, it has happened before, we all know it has, we have all seen people recover from terrible circumstances. Our children are on this hero’s journey right now, when they come to, and realize reality we will be the only ones there to help them and become their true hero selves. No one ever said it was going to be easy, people are amazingly strong and resilient – we have all seen it before, it will happen again here. Be patient, hold fast, be lovers of truth, take care of yourself, your trans child is going to need you, no one else will be there for them, you must be! God speed - AD
The Trans exists are all boobytrapped.
Sadly, today identity is tearing us apart. This word identity means I will do whatever in the hell I want to do, and no one can stop me. Those of us with children who have claimed an opposite sex identity are confronted with an endless array of topics, political and spiritual whether we like it or not. Mature people know that everything we do is a sacrifice to our future selves. What we do today affects us later. We all know a Trans identity is not some alternative mode of being, pretending that you are the opposite sex from your very own existence, is not going to workout over the long term for anyone well. Our sex at birth is more basic than anything, more basic than up or down, than light and dark, it is the most basic marker as a human, being male or female. Trans is a great sacrifice being made by our children today. What are they sacrificing? Here are a few - Stability, long term relationships, long term romantic partners, long term occupations, skills being learned and honed to lead to a stable existence, becoming the best version of oneself, and more. Our trans children will not mature and grow socially.
Trans is a somewhat new hedonistic mode of being our children are pursuing for whatever reason; they are violating the age-old relationships between men and women that have existed for eons. They are refusing to grow up to become the sort of person that can stand responsibility for themselves, for their love interests, for children, for work relationships, for future family, for everything. What happens when our children are 40, 50, 60 years old, are isolated, alone, and possibly us parents and lots of family are gone as well. Of what good will our trans children be to society and others around them, seriously. Who will want them around, what sort of people will be able to be in their presence and live side by side with them in any meaningful flowering way. Our children will become bitter and dangerous. Mine sure is, she has wished death upon us and become violent. The path our children have chosen is not something that can be replicated En masse so that success will blossom for any type of society, and we all know that. Maybe there will be fleeting moments of happiness, but they won’t last, happiness never really does, it’s not meant to.
We all know the best predictor of success is IQ and second to that is conscientiousness. Conscientious people are willing to forego immediate gratification to make better sacrifices for their future selves. They let go of what they want right now to stabilize things in the long run including other people around them. This is also the definition of maturity. Our children have sacrificed their bodies and minds for striving by hook or by crook some never never land utopia, where everyone around them will have to go along with an absolute lie. Where children are unprotected from their gender confusing presence. Where women will never feel safe in a bathroom, changing room or locker room.
Our children have been taking cross sex hormones, untested as to potential long-term effects on their bodies, or untold (unreported) of them anyway. Our children have willingly, wantonly, undergone cross sex surgeries removing perfectly good healthy body parts and attempting to create cross sex anatomies that we all know is completely futile mutilation and worse. Our children through social media live in a fantasy land full of mostly anonymous porn fueled men encouraging their every step to do more destruction to their bodies for their pleasure. A world where sick psychopathic doctors and all the “experts” live encouraging them onward. Our children cling to glitter families who profess their love of them and encourage them to continue living on this Trans “identity”. Our children live in a land completely void of maturity in any real sense that our eon’s of humankind have largely flourished in.
Some Trans identified people have families that have encouraged them onward, one more surgery, it's always going to be one more surgery isn’t it. Sacrifice everything you could become for one more surgery, that’s the sacrifice being made by our Trans children, one more surgery. They may stop or opt out of these surgeries but there lies “the candy man”, there lies the perpetual allure, one more surgery.
How to escape it, well stopping the hormones and stopping the thoughts of surgery, or no more surgeries are one thing which will not be easy and will have side effects. The real fight will be two-fold, first with yourself that everything you have done or thought, that every sacrifice you made to better yourself has done the absolute opposite, and that you did it willingly to your self (this is the worst), is going to be one big mine field. Secondly, coming to grips with the untold number of people who have taken advantage of you and encouraged your corruption and deceit along the way, all the experts, everyone (right – everyone said affirm), but a few parents and a few desisters, this is really going to take a long time to heal from. This is what I mean when I said the exits are booby trapped, it is going to take herculean efforts to get our trans children back on track, and no one else is going to do it except a few parents like us.
This is why as parents of trans children no matter how hard it is, we must keep the door open, just a crack so they know we will help them, we will be there for them and God willing because I do believe in His purposes that good can come out of this, it has happened before, we all know it has, we have all seen people recover from terrible circumstances. Our children are on this hero’s journey right now, when they come to, and realize reality we will be the only ones there to help them and become their true hero selves. No one ever said it was going to be easy, people are amazingly strong and resilient – we have all seen it before, it will happen again here. Be patient, hold fast, be lovers of truth, take care of yourself, your trans child is going to need you, no one else will be there for them, you must be! God speed - AD
Terrific response ! This should be printed and handed out to all who want/need it .