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Bob Frank's avatar

> How sad, they couldn't love/accept their son as is.

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> If by "not accepting" our child, you mean not accepting that the most radical lifelong "treatment" possible should be the first course of action, then you would be correct.

The notion that "someone who loves you will accept you as you are" is toxic nonsense. Love you as you are, care for you, yes. Accept you as-is? Never. That defines a fanboy, not a friend and certainly not a parent. Someone who truly loves you will encourage you to grow, to improve and be better, not just stagnate "as you are." A parent or teacher who simply lets a child remain as they are is guilty of child abuse.

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EyesOpen's avatar

I like this new angle of analyzing comments to essays/posts. Thank you for this contribution. In most cases it is obvious that the commentor is not a parent and has dehumanized parents. Where in history has dehumanization occurred before? Parents have lost their rights in almost every US state. First you take away their rights, then you arrest them...

Once you dehumanize parents, you can justify doing anything to them, hence the one comment which said parents should be shot.

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