120 Comments
User's avatar
Al's avatar

I am appalled at the principals response.... absolutely appalled 😡🤬😡

Expand full comment
Dr Amelia's avatar

Great letter, HORRIBLE response.

Expand full comment
Gregory's avatar

Excellent letter. I'd like to consider the possibility that this University President is evil. S/he has effectively rejected everything you say in your letter... including your attempt to curry favour or acceptance as being part of the tribe by mentioning racial justice and covid. Don't waste your time! As a left-liberal of 30+ years I say, never suck up to these people. Strive for the truth on all issues. So going back to evil - can you unknowingly be evil as a result of actions taken in good faith? I'm no theologian but I'd have thought if the crime is bad enough - supporting the castration of young people as a person in a position to do something about it for example - does intention to do bad or to do good by one's support of such actions matter much? Quite likely this person is thinking more about the mob coming for them than doing well or ill by people... perhaps that's the worst position!

Expand full comment
Someone's avatar

Bari is my hero

Expand full comment
Gerda Ho's avatar

The answer by xx University ‘ s president (“Dear University President ) “ to the the distressed parents in regard to their daughter was a real slap in the face! : “ I am sure he (he?) is doing well”. He ? When the university was an accomplice in her mistreatment? How infuriating! Too bad we don’t know what university or its so-called president who needs to be fires for abuse to the student!

If I were the parents I would sue the university!

Expand full comment
Ki's avatar

It’s not easy to share your private emotions.

The development of the last few years confirms their point of view as parents.

You went through a major crisis. I am really happy, that a lot in your daughters life changed into a good direction.

Your letter is a great idea, even if the rector of the university plays down this huge problem.

I cross my fingers for you and your daughters future .

Everything will make your relationship tighter and stronger too.

Please do not end the public education about the trans industry and the associated misanthropic manipulations - it has to be stopped as soon as possible.

The perpetrators in medicine, universities, administrations must be slowed down forever.

So much reminds me on the Corona vaccination complex, there are so many parallels.

I try to sensitize the people around me in Germany for this development.

A big hug from eastern germany - you went through hell.

But there is always hope.

Expand full comment
PDF's avatar

Thank you for sharing your story. I’m glad your daughter is back home with you and showing signs of being free of gender ideology. A terrible injustice has been done to our vulnerable children by the institutions in whom we should have been able to place our trust.

Expand full comment
S. A. Dad's avatar

Nicely done. It sets the stage for a lawsuit later. They are on notice. If they ignore it and harm results, that is negligence.

Expand full comment
Dee's avatar

Excellent letter! Also, happy that your daughter has taken no further steps. Prayers

Expand full comment
Terf vibes's avatar

Outrageous response (male pronoun for your daughter) to your well-worded and entirely fair letter. But at least, as you say, the university is now formerly informed of your concerns and the reality of their health-care services refusing to provide appropriate mental health treatment for a mental health problem cannot be denied.

Expand full comment
Nancy in NC's avatar

I'm so sorry I won't be around 20-30 years from now when the airwaves (or whatever technology is in use) are filled with ads from lawyers about class action suits against a plethora of different institutions and individuals. Of course, no amount of money will compensate for lives and families damaged beyond repair. Honestly, the guillotine would be poetic justice.

Expand full comment
Someone's avatar

Senate Bill 199 would create civil liability for a doctor who “performs a gender transition procedure on a minor … if the minor is injured, including without limitation any physical, psychological, emotional, or physiological injury, by the gender transition procedure, related treatment, or the after effects.” We should also support this sort of legislation:

https://www.arkleg.state.ar.us/Bills/Detail?id=SB199&ddBienniumSession=2023%2F2023R

Expand full comment
Gerda Ho's avatar

Yes, 18 states have passed legislation banning the so-called gender “ affirming care” , which is such a soothing name fro gender mutilation and child abuse .All states should an it! I think we should go for a federal law making this illegal..

Expand full comment
Elaine mahon's avatar

This seems to have more of a hold in American schools but I expect it will get here soon. At present there does not seem to be quite as much pressure on the girls, my daughter has a girl in her class that says she is a boy but it seems quite low key. One thing bothers me as it seems that autistic girls seem to be affected more than neuro typical ones. But there has never been a situation like this before, I wonder whether it is influenced by the groups they join on social media. Some of them put a lot of pressure on girls who are already struggling with their confidence and view of themselves. At the very least the longer that we can keep them without medication the better and hope that maybe proper counselling would help them it’s such a difficult time for everyone.

Expand full comment
Person's avatar

It bothers me that autistic girls are more vulnerable to whatever social pressure is pushing girls into sterilisation by “gender change”. Logically this is a form of eugenics. Strange how few people are noticing this.

Expand full comment
LovingMother's avatar

"my daughter has a girl in her class that says she is a boy but it seems quite low key"

Low Key or not, other girls will get the idea from that girl and trans, I expect - if there is anyone under any distress at all.

Expand full comment
Mothers Grim's avatar

The letter I wrote years ago to our daughter's indoctrination center (aka university) went not just to the president but far and wide to the deans, the health center workers and others. Not one person had the guts to offer the callous response you received. A few years later another daughter at another university was asked during freshman indoctrination (aka freshman orientation), while sitting in a circle of just introduced freshman led by an upperclassman influencer, to declare her pronouns. Her response: "What the hell do I look like." The timing was different then and perhaps she would be reprimanded today. Then covid came. The onslaught of indoctrination makes these schools unworthy of attendance. So many students harmed... I spoke to lawyers at ADF about my suddenly trans -id'ed daughter on a college campus years ago. At the time she was 18. There was no recourse but if any unique angle can be brought in a class action, I say bring it on. It has been a slippery slope from middle aged porn addled males declaring they are females, to the lesbians they fed 'T,' and then on to college campuses to capture more and more. The unis teach this voodoo in med schools, the students become believers whether they are trans or not and onward they press. Now it is a fast place attack on children. Pretty soon it will be a medical womb error and they will attempt to tinker with the human race in vitro or in those sci-fi baby growing vessels.

Expand full comment
Gerda Ho's avatar

That’s where it’s going, unless we are aware and make all this illegal! There has to be a concerted effort to stop this criminal takeover !

Expand full comment
LovingMother's avatar

Before that I think we will see these "lactating" men get live uterine transplants from "girls who don't need or want them" because they "are boys".

https://nationalpost.com/health/womb-transplants-transgender-women

and

"Children’s Hospital Gender Program Navigator Touts Uterine Transplants for Trans Men from 'Live Donors'"

https://townhall.com/tipsheet/madelineleesman/2023/01/16/childrens-hospital-talks-about-uterus-transplants-n2618349

"The speaker, Alicyn Simpson, who is transgender, is a “community navigator” for a youth gender program at the University of Pittsburgh Children’s Hospital,"

I think it is time for class action lawsuits, but I am no lawyer and don't know what the angle would be on gaslighting kids and promoting the cult of gender - other than separation of church and state. Would these same people have you sit in a circle and make you declare some tenant of a mainstream religion? As for the atrocities being performed on young people in the name of the mythic "gender" - I think we have Nuremberg doctors trial for an example.

Expand full comment
Gerda Ho's avatar

Yes, how do you start a class action suit against all this ?

Expand full comment
LovingMother's avatar

I don't know. I think it will take someone like Harmeet Dhillon, https://www.dhillonlaw.com/

I am not trained in law.

Expand full comment
Mothers Grim's avatar

You are spot on. Dr. Miroslav Djordjevic was brought on board the Mount Sinai Center for Transgender Medicine and Surgery to pioneer such endeavors. From the article below:

"Miroslav Djordjevic, MD, PhD, an internationally renowned surgeon and a leading authority on surgery for transgender individuals, is developing a procedure to match two patients undergoing transgender surgery—one male-to-female, the other female-to-male—and transfer the genitalia between these live donors in a one-stage procedure instead of discarding them as is done now."

https://reports.mountsinai.org/article/urol2021-03-a-pioneering-approach-to-sex-reassignment-surgery

Expand full comment
Gerda Ho's avatar

OMG! Doctor Frankenstein is alive and well and working at Mt Sinai! And he even looks like Frankenstein!

Expand full comment
LovingMother's avatar

"“We are striving to find a way to use all genital organs that are planned for removal in transition surgery to improve the lives of others who request this surgery and enable them to lead a normal life.”

-Miroslav Djordjevic, MD, PhD"

Like, lets just tell confused people that after being Frankensteined they will begin to live a normal life.

Expand full comment
LovingMother's avatar

Total Frankenstein stuff. I think surgeons like this practiced on cadavers - maybe in Europe - I think funded by Pritzkers and the like - years ago.

Expand full comment
Gerda Ho's avatar

I can’t believe all this trans human stuff is actually happening!

Expand full comment
LovingMother's avatar

And, that most people can't be bothered about it. In a dytopian science fiction society the skies would be dark and everyone would be distraught about it.

Expand full comment
LovingMother's avatar

Trans the girls/young women. Harvest their parts. It is compassionate.

We're on Nuremberg. I'm reading Dr. Miriam Grossman's great book "Lost in Trans Nation".

In 1930s Germany there was a lot of public trust in doctors and nurses. Many things were presented as coming from "compassion".

Expand full comment
Lunafalls's avatar

Someone on here recently suggested the response, "I have no special requests" when asked for pronouns. I think that's a good solution.

Expand full comment
Richard Craven's avatar

My preferred response would be vitriolic abuse.

Expand full comment
Mothers Grim's avatar

"Please call me what I am," would make more sense.

Expand full comment
Gerda Ho's avatar

I wouldn’t be so polite!

Expand full comment
PRStein's avatar

Unfortunately I have read that some schools require a declaration of pronouns and if you will not give it then "they" is attributed to you, essentially making you appear as though you are "non-binary."

Expand full comment
Richard Craven's avatar

The best response may be to declare exceptionally facetious pronouns, e.g:-

https://amoebadick.blogspot.com/2021/10/my-pronouns.html

Expand full comment
Cary Cotterman's avatar

"What the hell do I look like?"

That's the kind of kid I'd want to have. I'm happy to hear there are still some of them out there.

Expand full comment
Richard Craven's avatar

It certainly is an excellent response, but an even better one would have been "fk your pronouns, groomer".

Expand full comment
Cary Cotterman's avatar

Agree, but that would probably have got her kicked out.

Expand full comment
Ollie Parks's avatar

"The President's response was along the lines of 'I'm sure the University Health Care Service is serving him well.' "

I would be surprised if the President himself composed the message. That's not to say he wouldn't have endorsed it, but I suspect the flippant and passive-aggressive text was the handiwork of a member of the President's staff. If anything, a trans "ally" who's close to power but not directly accountable is more likely to engage in the usual bullying and intimidation that characterize the trans movement's response to criticism.

Expand full comment
Cary Cotterman's avatar

It sounds like it could be a computer generated response. At any rate, it's callous as hell--saying "him" is a not-so-subtle dig.

Expand full comment
Gerda Ho's avatar

It’s a deliberate insult to injured parents!

Expand full comment
The Holly-stick's avatar

Moreover, I suspect the Pres has never laid eyes on it.

Expand full comment
charlotte johnson's avatar

Thank you. Keep SHOUTING! I am with you and we will not ever give up until the full truth is exposed and understood by all!

Yes.....Lawsuits and Pressure is the answer!!

Expand full comment