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I'm sorry for your experience. It should never have happened, particularly because your profile is one of the least appropriate for transition. Indeed it is the most inappropriate for males. You were a nonhomosexual adult male. No history of crossdressing. You considered having sex with men but only as a consequence of transition. You were depressed and you had body dysmorphia- these are not gender dysphoria even though they can occur comorbidly. There was no justification for you to be encouraged to transition.

Only the most extreme homosexuals should 'transition' - it's more like completion for them - and surgery, in all cases, should never be considered until the subject has spent at least 2 years living full time in the target gender. (If you can't do that pre-op, what makes you think you could do it post-op?) Others please be warned.

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