Despite prolonged effort, my husband and I were not able to help our young adult son find his way out of the trans cult. He believes the lie that he is a she and always has been, that wrong sex hormones are magic pills, and that this absurdity paves the path to his well-being. It’s like my son tied himself to a train track, euphoric about the trans train that harms him. It feels like my mouth is sealed by duct tape, which I resist peeling off to implore my son again with reasons to desist. Even the most cogent guidance could prompt my son to tie more ropes around his deteriorating body on the trans train track. I do not tell him how unconvincing he looks as a faux woman, as this could be a catalyst for mutilating surgery. Also, estrangement could be more likely.
I have a daughter that is caught in the trans cult and I have been reading all these stories. My heart break for my daughter and everyone out in the world who is suffering the same pain I feel every minute of the day. I pray for all of us.
However, I find myself wondering why all of us are not screaming from the rooftops. Why are these groomer’s voices louder then ours? These are our babies. Surely there is more of us then there are of them.
I have searched through social media, websites, etc., I can’t find anyone fighting back to save our kids and future gender cult members. Teaching new young parents of the pitfalls of the internet. Where is the Deprograming techniques or clinics or camps. And where are the therapists and doctors “shall do no harm”? Where are the lawsuits?
We are allowing them to keep us silent,me included!
I feel like I have to do something before it’s too late for my daughter. Is there anyone out there that can help me save her? Get her back home or in a safe place? Who can deprogram her? I can’t even find a therapist that doesn’t shame me for not affirming her. Sick, right?
If anyone know how I can get her away from the “glitter family” and a truthful therapist please let me know.
We’ve been awake. We have also been silenced by even family who are irritated with us. They wave us away as crazy or feel sorry for us. To them, we are trans as well. They can’t be bothered with our problems. Whether its blatant censorship or the wave of a hand, we are pets to them, the kind you keep in a cage.
Beautifully put -- I identified with almost every one of your thoughts, even though our child is a female who thinks life will be wonderful once she medicalises. Thinking about the whole trans phenomenon that has such a grip on society, I'm still not sure we've got to the bottom of it. What is driving it at its base? Profits for doctors, hospitals, and pharma, sure. But by itself that wouldn't be enough. Somehow this cult-like thing has extended its tentacles into public and private schools, universities, legislatures, public administrations, and now even the White House. It's like a science fiction horror movie. Is it just because people are very very keen to be "compassionate" and "progressive"? Like, they feel that we were wrong in how we treated gay people and now we can't make the same mistake with trans? I could sort of understand that if I thought trans people were a naturally occurring segment of any population, but that is not the case. It is a mental / emotional illness that attacks primarily liberal households. And it is something that our culture is actively CREATING and ENCOURAGING.
I just wanted to scream to you that you are not alone, I am on your side. My son is 23, my daughter is 16, both fucked in the head with this trans contagion. Thank you, thank you for sharing your story, for allowing me to feel a glimpse of hope, that I am not crazy.
I hope that you won't mind a little prying. How long did it take each to go from believing in the cult's dogma to believing that they have the wrong bodies? Also, do they believe that humans have souls? I find it a little difficult to accept that the creed could be successful without this assumption, perhaps left unstated but lurking about nonetheless.
Oh dear God, this is my husband and me and our son, who has convinced himself he is a woman. He is believing lies and I am powerless to convince him otherwise.
When a paleontologist digs up your bones after you die, you will be identified as male or female based on your remains. You won’t be able to lie about your gender to anyone. Your bones and teeth will tell the truth. The End
As so many others have written here, "this is our story", I also can say the same.
My duct tape has been on for some time, now for the sake of peace and keeping the family together. I have 3 in my household under the trans spell - a husband who would rather go with the flow than stand the chance of losing our children, and we have 2 daughters, also under the spell. The youngest in the throes of social transitioning, thanks to the grooming by her older sister. The oldest, is already one year on T and is about to take the next step - mutilating surgery just 2 days from now.
The closer we hurtle to that day, the tighter the duct tape becomes around my heart and emotions. It is with such agony that I fight within myself, I want to scream out loud, but dare not for fear of tearing my family apart, and pushing my daughter away completely.
We do normal day to day things, as if a mastectomy is no worse than a visit to the dentist. But inwardly I scream, but the duct tape keeps it within.
Thank you, thank you for giving words to what I feel. We have a daughter not a son but that is the only difference. I swing back and forth between acceptance that we will disagree and anger and frustration about the institutions that support this madness. We did slow her down after taking hormones and heading for surgery by taking her off our insurance. She has a college health center and is applying for Covered CA. She complained about the hassle and paperwork for Medi-Cal. Adult life and paying full fair makes life's realities more insistent. She got a job which she will need as she refuses to return home. We are doing family therapy but I miss her. My cards go unremarked upon but I will continue to send them as I would if she was not angry with us. I love her and that will never change. I expect a extra within around 23-24. We will be here with open arms.
Your writing is moving and the way you talked about the trans train and the duct tape - so powerful! You wrote "putting dangerous hormones into the one healthy body you will ever have" is the best truth I have read to date. That is exactly what is happening "the one healthy body you will ever have" is being destroyed on purpose by educated and trained people in authority who have no real care about the dangerous long-term effects or how our children will ruin "the one healthy body they will ever have." We have all tried to help our children avoid being snared by the trans-cult, but once the trans grip takes a hold of our loved ones, they pull away from us with such a fierceness that they sever the life line of love we have for them. It breaks my heart. I hope your son finds his way back to you sooner rather than later and that he will stop harming his "one healthy body." I hope that my nephew finds his way back to his loving parents as well, and that he does not harm "his one healthy body" while he is somewhere out in this great big world trying to find his way.
WOW, how well you articulated this and I resonate so well! This absolutely could be me writing this, only about my precious daughter who is about the same age... oh Lord bring open eyes to see! Please expose all lies and bring out all TRUTH!!!! Please save our children!
Definitely not invisible. Very visible everywhere, and very convincing. We are the ones who are not seen or heard. If we have different thoughts or questions, we are attacked and silenced. No diversity or questioning is allowed.
I have a daughter that is caught in the trans cult and I have been reading all these stories. My heart break for my daughter and everyone out in the world who is suffering the same pain I feel every minute of the day. I pray for all of us.
However, I find myself wondering why all of us are not screaming from the rooftops. Why are these groomer’s voices louder then ours? These are our babies. Surely there is more of us then there are of them.
I have searched through social media, websites, etc., I can’t find anyone fighting back to save our kids and future gender cult members. Teaching new young parents of the pitfalls of the internet. Where is the Deprograming techniques or clinics or camps. And where are the therapists and doctors “shall do no harm”? Where are the lawsuits?
We are allowing them to keep us silent,me included!
I feel like I have to do something before it’s too late for my daughter. Is there anyone out there that can help me save her? Get her back home or in a safe place? Who can deprogram her? I can’t even find a therapist that doesn’t shame me for not affirming her. Sick, right?
If anyone know how I can get her away from the “glitter family” and a truthful therapist please let me know.
I’m a desperate mom!!!
Exactly!
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We’ve been awake. We have also been silenced by even family who are irritated with us. They wave us away as crazy or feel sorry for us. To them, we are trans as well. They can’t be bothered with our problems. Whether its blatant censorship or the wave of a hand, we are pets to them, the kind you keep in a cage.
I'm so sorry for all your family is going through.
A profound experience reading your stirring account of your life. How did this happen to us?!
Beautifully put -- I identified with almost every one of your thoughts, even though our child is a female who thinks life will be wonderful once she medicalises. Thinking about the whole trans phenomenon that has such a grip on society, I'm still not sure we've got to the bottom of it. What is driving it at its base? Profits for doctors, hospitals, and pharma, sure. But by itself that wouldn't be enough. Somehow this cult-like thing has extended its tentacles into public and private schools, universities, legislatures, public administrations, and now even the White House. It's like a science fiction horror movie. Is it just because people are very very keen to be "compassionate" and "progressive"? Like, they feel that we were wrong in how we treated gay people and now we can't make the same mistake with trans? I could sort of understand that if I thought trans people were a naturally occurring segment of any population, but that is not the case. It is a mental / emotional illness that attacks primarily liberal households. And it is something that our culture is actively CREATING and ENCOURAGING.
I just wanted to scream to you that you are not alone, I am on your side. My son is 23, my daughter is 16, both fucked in the head with this trans contagion. Thank you, thank you for sharing your story, for allowing me to feel a glimpse of hope, that I am not crazy.
I hope that you won't mind a little prying. How long did it take each to go from believing in the cult's dogma to believing that they have the wrong bodies? Also, do they believe that humans have souls? I find it a little difficult to accept that the creed could be successful without this assumption, perhaps left unstated but lurking about nonetheless.
Oh dear God, this is my husband and me and our son, who has convinced himself he is a woman. He is believing lies and I am powerless to convince him otherwise.
Devastated for you
A heartbreaking read.
When a paleontologist digs up your bones after you die, you will be identified as male or female based on your remains. You won’t be able to lie about your gender to anyone. Your bones and teeth will tell the truth. The End
As so many others have written here, "this is our story", I also can say the same.
My duct tape has been on for some time, now for the sake of peace and keeping the family together. I have 3 in my household under the trans spell - a husband who would rather go with the flow than stand the chance of losing our children, and we have 2 daughters, also under the spell. The youngest in the throes of social transitioning, thanks to the grooming by her older sister. The oldest, is already one year on T and is about to take the next step - mutilating surgery just 2 days from now.
The closer we hurtle to that day, the tighter the duct tape becomes around my heart and emotions. It is with such agony that I fight within myself, I want to scream out loud, but dare not for fear of tearing my family apart, and pushing my daughter away completely.
We do normal day to day things, as if a mastectomy is no worse than a visit to the dentist. But inwardly I scream, but the duct tape keeps it within.
So sorry you and your family are going through this. Wishing you strength.
I am so very sorry.
I'm so sorry. You must feel like you are living in a nightmare.
I’m so sorry for your pain. It’s truly a nightmare.
Thank you, thank you for giving words to what I feel. We have a daughter not a son but that is the only difference. I swing back and forth between acceptance that we will disagree and anger and frustration about the institutions that support this madness. We did slow her down after taking hormones and heading for surgery by taking her off our insurance. She has a college health center and is applying for Covered CA. She complained about the hassle and paperwork for Medi-Cal. Adult life and paying full fair makes life's realities more insistent. She got a job which she will need as she refuses to return home. We are doing family therapy but I miss her. My cards go unremarked upon but I will continue to send them as I would if she was not angry with us. I love her and that will never change. I expect a extra within around 23-24. We will be here with open arms.
Your writing is moving and the way you talked about the trans train and the duct tape - so powerful! You wrote "putting dangerous hormones into the one healthy body you will ever have" is the best truth I have read to date. That is exactly what is happening "the one healthy body you will ever have" is being destroyed on purpose by educated and trained people in authority who have no real care about the dangerous long-term effects or how our children will ruin "the one healthy body they will ever have." We have all tried to help our children avoid being snared by the trans-cult, but once the trans grip takes a hold of our loved ones, they pull away from us with such a fierceness that they sever the life line of love we have for them. It breaks my heart. I hope your son finds his way back to you sooner rather than later and that he will stop harming his "one healthy body." I hope that my nephew finds his way back to his loving parents as well, and that he does not harm "his one healthy body" while he is somewhere out in this great big world trying to find his way.
WOW, how well you articulated this and I resonate so well! This absolutely could be me writing this, only about my precious daughter who is about the same age... oh Lord bring open eyes to see! Please expose all lies and bring out all TRUTH!!!! Please save our children!
Yes Unfortunately Our children are the new P.O.W.'s and M.I.A.'s
In this War. Grace, Grace!
Definitely not invisible. Very visible everywhere, and very convincing. We are the ones who are not seen or heard. If we have different thoughts or questions, we are attacked and silenced. No diversity or questioning is allowed.
It is so much darker than most can imagine.