“Gender Affirming” Doctors Lie
I am encouraged that more and more people are talking about the lies put out by the “gender affirming” medical community. The lie that “trans” kids have a higher rate of suicide; that puberty blockers and cross-sex hormones are safe and reversible; that “feeling” like a woman means you are a woman. I would describe the whole of the WPATH standards of care as a complex and elaborate lie. But there is one lie that I haven’t heard many people talk about. Doctors are lying when they say their treatments can make a man pass as a woman.
My son is 6’ 4” tall with broad shoulders and a basso profundo voice. How can his doctors say, or even imply, that they can make him look like a woman? He told me that being so large, he “needed” genital surgery to “be a woman.” How will this help? Hopefully, he will be fully clothed when he meets people, and even if he isn’t, that won’t change his overall appearance.
Are these doctors implying that these surgeries check the box and magically make you the opposite sex? Such a lie is as bad and greedy as implying they will make the person actually look female.
It is different for women. Testosterone is powerful, and a full beard obscures a person’s facial features. Still, if doctors are telling a short woman with small hands and feet that she will pass as a man, they are lying. They are also potentially encouraging this woman to put herself in dangerous situations if she tries to go into male space as a man.
There may be another deception hurting our children. AI filters may be the reason some famous trans influencers appear to be the opposite sex.
I can’t believe my intelligent son truly believes these lies. When he can no longer lie to himself, he will have to tell everyone in his life that he is a man. Except me, the one who loved him too much to lie to him.


That last sentence made my heart ache.
Truth!