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EyesOpen's avatar

I did not send out a Christmas news update/card with pictures for the first time since 1988. Last year, I just sent one with pictures and news of me, but I didn't feel like doing that this year. The ripple effect of one child's actions are vast.

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This is our second year as PITT parents. Second Christmas letter. A tradition we have held for over 30 years. We do the whole photo spread. Letter, etc. 120 people. Because of our business, it is a combined personal/business endeavor. Last year we skirted the whole issue by sending a photo card of our new grandchild born on 12/24. This year we were able to just do photos of the two of us from a trip we took over the summer. We still did the narrative but only included 1 line about each of our 3 kids. The youngest- the trans identified son- we just said "Patrick started a new job at xxx, as xxx, a good raise! Is it a lie? By omission? by not using his preferred female name? I don't know, I don't care. They are our friends, relatives, and business associates. Hopefully one day it won't be a thing anymore

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