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Soffie’s mom's avatar

I’d ask all of those questions. Regardless of her answers, you’ll have her thinking about taking someone else’s feelings into consideration.

I can’t help but feel this cult causes such fixation on one’s appearance that it also causes its victims to become completely & utterly selfish, without even realizing it. They become so engulfed in the concept of changing & searching for “their better self “ they don’t realize how much worse & self absorbed they’ve become. We need to focus on pointing that out to them.

I’ve watched my daughter go from a truly giving, caring person to this fixated, determined , mess. She has no clue as to how much her “change for the better “ has destroyed the wonderful woman she once was.

I pray relentlessly for her to wake up and realize what she’s throwing away.

I truly wish & pray for the best for you and your daughter.❤️🙏🕊️

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Mama Ain't Playin''s avatar

Yes--ask away. You'd ask any similar questions of her w/r/t her dating partner without the trans being in the picture. So why not ask her how she's thinking/feeling about this relationship?

I have a friend whose daughter is trans-ID'd as a gay male. She's been dating the same guy since high school. I'd love to know if he thinks of himself as a gay man. Do they think about starting a family one day? Etc. We have to stop being afraid to ask some basic questions and stop acting like it's a human rights violation to be curious about how they're thinking.

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George Q Tyrebyter's avatar

It's complete narcissism.

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