Yes--ask away. You'd ask any similar questions of her w/r/t her dating partner without the trans being in the picture. So why not ask her how she's thinking/feeling about this relationship?
I have a friend whose daughter is trans-ID'd as a gay male. She's been dating the same guy since high school. I'd love to know if he thinks of himself…
Yes--ask away. You'd ask any similar questions of her w/r/t her dating partner without the trans being in the picture. So why not ask her how she's thinking/feeling about this relationship?
I have a friend whose daughter is trans-ID'd as a gay male. She's been dating the same guy since high school. I'd love to know if he thinks of himself as a gay man. Do they think about starting a family one day? Etc. We have to stop being afraid to ask some basic questions and stop acting like it's a human rights violation to be curious about how they're thinking.
Yes--ask away. You'd ask any similar questions of her w/r/t her dating partner without the trans being in the picture. So why not ask her how she's thinking/feeling about this relationship?
I have a friend whose daughter is trans-ID'd as a gay male. She's been dating the same guy since high school. I'd love to know if he thinks of himself as a gay man. Do they think about starting a family one day? Etc. We have to stop being afraid to ask some basic questions and stop acting like it's a human rights violation to be curious about how they're thinking.