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BowWow's avatar

It's hard to determine cause and effect with these kids and these games. Many boys who came to decide they were trans had played Minecraft. These boys are typically bright, good at math, and not popular. In elementary school, our son tried to play sports, and he desperately wanted the star athletes to like him, but he wasn't athletic, popular kids could sense a neediness in him and pushed him away, and he didn't want to have anything to do with other unpopular kids. We tried scouts, art classes, and summer day camps, but he didn't make connections to other kids. As a result, he spent a lot of time alone and was given too much computer access too young (his dad and I were never on the same page about this). It was a vicious circle: the less time he spent with other kids in real life, the more we let him find a social outlet online so he wouldn't be utterly miserable. He found multiplayer Minecraft servers and we felt relief when we would hear him laughing with other players. It all sounded innocent. We had no idea what was out there. Some kids, influenced by social media, were doing idiotic things like eating Tide pods, but we thought our son was safe because of his high IQ. I've heard that Roblox, Magic - the Game, and fanfic are also gateways to trans, probably because they also attract lonely kids. If we had only know then what we know now.

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Much though I loathe games and gaming, I see no justification for Minecraft having a rôle in your son’s capture by the Cult of They-Them. He could have met another cult member just chatting on some messenger.

And I wouldn’t blame you for allowing this to happen. Demanding to track his activities in a cyber-Lego game would have just alienated him.

His entrapment was the result of the very existence of the cult. The fact that you’re not invited to his “wedding” is telling; the cult encourages separation from nonmembers, even if they’re “affirming” of gender ideology.

I’m sorry for your loss and hope your son outgrows this before doing anything irreversible.

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