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René Estes's avatar

What colors would our flag be? What is the color of motherhood?

Because no one would be here without us.... mothers.

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René Estes's avatar

What would that flag look like?

I think we need to organize and parade around to make our voices heard.

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Momma Bear's avatar

I have shared this Declaration on my Notes in Substack.

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Amanda Fast's avatar

This false ideology and deception from Satan has been incubating since the beginning of time. God created the heavens and the earth. We either worship and follow Him or ourselves. The Word is being fulfilled. Praying our prodigals turn back to the Lord soon in repentance. He is merciful to set all sinners free who repent and have faith in Him. It is his desire that all would be saved to eternal life by the sacrifice His son, Jesus made for us on the cross. We do not know the day or hour He will return for those who have faith in Him and we do not know the length of our days. 🙏🏻💒

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Mom22's avatar

The irony. Last night watching commentary about starting to charge parents for the crimes of their children. Honestly I can’t blame any young people who don’t want to have kids. You’re damned if you do & damned if you don’t. All the responsibility with no rights. What a joke.

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Emily Ann's avatar

Three cheers for this post!

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Adri Mans's avatar

Well said! We have been replaced by the state. In all Communist countries is the same, yes I know we are not a communist country yet, but there are underneath ideologies very alive without doubts. In a totalitarian country or dictatorship families are discourage and babies belong to the State. It depends in what State do you live those parents rights can be non-existent but we have to fight back. Sadly in a society that to kill a human being is legal it is very hard to have a moral ground to ask for "another" rights as parents, no parent should have the wish to get rid of their babies, it is anti-natural. And because everything is connected the results are to all to see.

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N Golden's avatar

!!!!

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Natalia's avatar

I like what you did there 😊

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Discrete Music's avatar

Losing someone is hard. But you have to face it

You’ve lost them.

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Discrete Music's avatar

More helpful than “affirmation.”

Is this one of those discussions where only one outlook is permitted?

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Chris's avatar

What a callous comment! Are you suggesting that we simply "get over" losing a child or multiple children? Obviously, you haven't lost one to this heinous death cult! Your suggestion is not helpful.

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Eleganta's avatar

Adults drop out of cults all the time.

Never give up hope.

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Discrete Music's avatar

Most cults don’t cut off body parts.

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LovingMother's avatar

P.S. Details from the for profit Queer doc cult:

From now until sometime in early 2023, we’ll be writing about gender affirming procedures. We’re starting with bottom surgeries and will end with office visit procedures such as fillers and botox. To kick off the series, we’re going with one of the newer bottom surgery options available for gender diverse, expansive, and fabulous people: nulloplasty. You may have heard it referred to as nullification, nullectomy, or nullo. (Note: we previously used “nullectomy” as our main term for nullo, but have been advised that this term is contradictory and problematic.)

Content advisory: we will be using anatomical terms and discussing surgical procedures in this article and this series. External sites that we link to may contain graphic images.

What is Nulloplasty?

Nulloplasty is the removal of internal and external genital structures to create a smooth appearance from the abdomen to the groin. Glans (penile or clitoral) and nerve tissue can be “buried” in the mons to retain a focused nerve center for sensation while maintaining a smooth appearance, can remain present as an “outie,” or can be removed.

For someone starting with a penis and testicles, nulloplasty can include:

penectomy (removal of the penis)

orchiectomy (removal of the scrotum)

scrotomectomy (removal of the testicles)

urethral shortening

For someone starting with a clitoris, vulva, vagina, and uterus (if not already removed,) nulloplasty can include:

hysterectomy with or without oophorectomy

vaginectomy (if a vaginectomy is chosen, a hysterectomy is required)

vulvectomy (partial or radical)

clitorectomy

urethral modification

These sets of surgeries can be customized for your goals. Some people choose to maintain a labial fold and crease, or to have no crease.

Image of a partial mannekin with a smooth groin. The mannequin is waist to upper thigh and has an narrow waist and belly button. The form was originally white in color, but the image has a lavender filter. | QueerDoc nullectomy nullification nullo

Image of a partial mannequinin with a smooth groin. The mannequin is waist to upper thigh and has an square waist to hip ratio and a visible belly button. The form was originally white in color, but the image has a green filter. | QueerDoc nullectomy nullification nullo

When: Expected prep and recovery for nullo

Prep for nullectomy should be similar to other bottom surgeries Hair removal requirements will depend on your goals for final appearance and the procedures chosen.

Recovery timelines depend on the procedures involved. A reasonable expectation is to plan for a 6 to 8 weeks. If hysterectomy and vaginectomy are part of your process, your recovery time will likely be longer than for a penectomy and orchiectomy, as more internal structures are moved and changed. Your surgeon can provide clarification of what you should expect and plan for in recovery. A general timeline would be up to a few days in the hospital, up to fours weeks of limited activity, and lifting restrictions and restrictions on strenuous activity and any activity that puts pressure on the groin (such as bicycling,) for a few months.

Who: Surgeons who offer nullo

These are the United States surgeons or surgical practices that we believe offer nulloplasty/nullification. This list is for informational purposes and is not intended to be a recommendation or referral.

MozaicCare, San Francisco, CA

Align Surgical Associates, San Francisco, CA

Crane Center, San Francisco, CA and Austin, TX

Davis Plastic Surgery, Palo Alto, CA

Reconstructive Surgical Arts, Columbus, OH

Marin Health, Greenbrae, CA

Dr. Shane Morrison, UW Medicine, Seattle, WA

OHSU, Oregon

Dr. Dany Hanna, The Hanna Gender Center, TX

Keelee MacPhee, MD, Durham, NC

Ohio Health

Dr. Ramenini, Washington D. C.

Do you know of other surgeons who offer nulloplasty?

Email us at facilitatorunicorn@queerdoc.com!

How: Common surgeon and insurance requirements to access

Like other bottom surgeries, you will likely need letters from your hormone provider, mental health providers, and your surgeon for insurance coverage. Insurance and your surgeon may also require that you have been on hormones for a specified length of time and/or have lived in a gender role consistent with your gender identity for a specified length of time. It may be more difficult to obtain nullification surgery than other gender affirming bottom surgeries due to the relative newness of the procedures.

Why: Some things to think about when choosing nullification

Do you want to maintain orgasmic capacity?

The position of your urethral opening will likely change – this may change how you pee.

Hormone supplementation

If your plan includes removal of testicles or both ovaries, and you are not already taking hormones, discuss your options for hormone therapy with your care team, as your body needs some sex steroid hormones for many bodily functions and bone health.

If having a biological child is important to you, discuss fertility preservation options with your doctor.

Tip: our previous blog in this series discusses more general information about preparing for bottom surgery.

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https://queerdoc.com/nullectomy-nullification/

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LovingMother's avatar

Heaven's Gate did. They were really big on castration but I don't think they used doctors who profited financially. They just went right for it I think?

NXIVM was into branding female members in private areas.

Where NXIVM was centered around one sociopath, "transgender" brings a boatload out of the woodwork.

Check out these medical professionals operating today:

"Your Smooth Bottom Line: Nulloplasty/Nullification/Nullectomy"

https://queerdoc.com/nullectomy-nullification/

Just think: this is endorsed by all American medical and psychological groups :-0

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Joy North's avatar

Yes! We need to begin to let our voices known to the world, to claim back our rights, and to seek asylum against oppression!

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Grandma Eileen's avatar

I am here to support ALL parents! We have a voice, and we need to be heard! I love the flag idea, too.

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Sandy's avatar

So true!! I love the flag idea that someone above suggested

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Victoria's avatar

I do not think it is hyperbole to say a persecuted class at this juncture in history .

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Lisa Bellot MD's avatar

Agree

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Silently Screaming's avatar

Maybe we need a flag.

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Susan Z's avatar

Our flag should have a plain greyish background with a large broken heart.

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GenderRealistMom's avatar

I'd rather have something bad ass , that conveys strength. Perhaps a flag with "T" symbol (not transgender or testosterone, but T for truth, the formal symbol in logic).

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LovingMother's avatar

What about a flag with black and white and red. That would be stronger than the silly baby blue, pink and white. Maybe black and white stripes in the background and an "artful cursive" "T" like the one shown here: https://www.artfulcursive.com/cursive-alphabet/ in red?

“Taking back the truth about "trans"” could be written on a white stripe?

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LovingMother's avatar

I liked the first idea but I might like this one even more. Taking back the "T" resonates with me.

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Silently Screaming's avatar

“Taking back the truth” is a great tag line for us. It is empowering, which is the antidote for the hopelessness and helplessness that I feel so often, especially since my daughter was in college when she started on this path. I am happy that there is action being taken to stop hurting minors, but our sons and daughters who are young “ adults” are slipping through the cracks. We need to fight for everyone who was sucked into this terrible LIE.

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LovingMother's avatar

Like everyone in college understands life.

What would you think of a flag with black and white stripes in the background and a red "artful cursive" "T" like the one shown here: https://www.artfulcursive.com/cursive-alphabet/ ?

“Taking back the truth about "trans"” could be written on a white stripe?

Something like that?

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Susan Z's avatar

My son is 24. Has been in this for almost 9 years. But he's an adult now, so its like no one has sympathy for his bad decisions. Except us, who love them. You are correct, they are forgotten. "Adults can do whatever they want to their bodies" That is BS.

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LovingMother's avatar

Agreed.

My daughter is a young adult and "went medical" pretty recently. The mind was taken as a minor.

I think that would be a great flag and a great tag line. We need to take back all language. T is for taking back the truth - and the fact that "Transgender" begins with that letter is a big deal.

Do you want to design it? Maybe a good font with a curly T of some kind since it is such a simple flag? I could look at fonts a little later.

What colors?

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Susan Z's avatar

That's good too. Guess I'm kind of low today.

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LovingMother's avatar

What would you think of a flag with black and white stripes in the background and a red "artful cursive" "T" like the one shown here: https://www.artfulcursive.com/cursive-alphabet/ ?

“Taking back the truth about "trans"” could be written on a white stripe?

Some riff on this?

"Adults can do whatever they want to their bodies" is total BS. Doctors won't just amputate your hand so that you can identify as handicapped - or at least not yet in the US.

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Faith Kuzma's avatar

I like the heart, a sacred heart,

parental love pierced by transgression/ injustice

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GenderRealistMom's avatar

hugs

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EyesOpen's avatar

Exactly

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