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Beeswax's avatar

At the risk of sounding like a fool, and knowing that there is no magic bandaid for the devastation you and your husband and daughter are feeling, please allow me to say, FWIW, that your son still does not have a mature, adult brain. It is at least five years away. Many people detransition in their mid to late 20s, because most of the time, adopting a trans identity is not the solution to what ails them that they thought it would be.

In the meantime, I have no advice; I wish I did. I am heartbroken and furious on your behalf.

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slow it down's avatar

My goodness, this is so poignant. I was out at a concert with my daughter last night (who is a self-declared trans boy), and I noticed several of these young men -- tall, long hair, thick necks, big bodies, and crop tops with the breast nubs of a 12 year old, in proud display. I could not help staring, with some level of disgust. There is just too much performance in this.

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