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CA mom's avatar

I feel your pain. My heart breaks for you. Never give up hope.

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Christa's avatar

As a fellow mom knowing the pain you feel every day I so want to send you that tea because you ARE the 'berry best.' Your love for your child is obvious. The little girl who ordered the tea knew that then & knows that today. That is why she so virulently denied you because it showed what was - and still is - in her heart. When her defenses are down, she knows her 'sparkle family' isn't real and that you are. Hold on to hope and that beautiful sign that she's still in there. I wonder if we parents with aching arms could somehow talk with desisters who have left the transcult? I'd love to parent another young person until our son comes home. Sending you warm hugs and a big cup of tea.

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Anon's avatar

Heartbreaking ❤️‍🩹

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Al's avatar

Heartbreaking 💔💔💔

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Not so young anymore.'s avatar

Trans cult pure evil destroying the most basic human bonds

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Adri Mans's avatar

You are not alone!! Take refuge in God, He is not a guy in the sky, He is with each of us who open the door to Him and Jesus will help you to carry this Cross. I promise!

Transgenderism is demonic because comes from the rebel angels who hate God and everything He creates including us. They want our destruction that is why we have all this culture of death, euthanasia, abortion, sterilization, castration, etc. Transgenderism is not an isolate thing is part of a bigger problem, a spiritual problem, humans had forgot how to fight back because they dismissed the belief in Satan as a "thing of the past and of primitive and superstitious people" as we are all now so sophisticated and civilized and better??? Look around!

Are we better or we are asleep that we cannot recognize any longer bad from good?? We allow experimentation on children with drugs and surgeries!! Satanism is a legal religion in America!!! You have covenants of witches all over and through entertainment the dissemination of spells and demonic practices are everywhere!! We have a plague of paganism, human sacrifices to Baal!

Society rejects religion but people are more deep into "spirituality new age and lies" more than ever before. We need to come back to the real deal, to the Creator's order and yes we socially construct our life around that order male/female biology. When we respect the natural world that was given to us and we understand the way it works everything goes smooth but when we want to change what is natural things go berserk.

And for the parents that have children please teach them about profound things and transcendence and how life is sacred as we are. Don't expose your children to modern entertainment but old stories where the innocence of children are preserved and cherished. If the others think you are not "cool" it doesn't matter, your children are what matters, maybe you can set an example and encourage other parents to be more protective and watchful.

I was raised with Winnie the Pooh and Aesop Fables. I was a lucky child I was made strong because I was taught to recognize Good from Evil, my parents didn't scare me but they worn me that there is evil in the world and we must avoid it. It looks now that we don't teach our children how the world works, nothing had changed really, what had changed is the perception and the ways we handle things. We want to protect our children of the dangers of being playing outside and we lock them inside the house in charge of smart phones, tablets and computers when that is more unsafe than to be playing in the streets and learning how to use their freedom with responsibility. It wasn't so long ago, the 80 and 90's most of children were in the parks and streets experiencing life, real life with its challenges, it was ok to suffer or be upset or get hurt when running or riding bikes, to cry or to yell, to fight, to sing or to imagine things, to be. We can't protect them always, we never could, our parents neither but they prepared us for real life, to be strong and self sufficient without high expectations but be happy with what we have and specially happy with what we are and more important how much God loves us just as we are.

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Harold Masters's avatar

What a horrible, evil cult trans ideology is.

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Ukrainian Mom's avatar

isn't it?

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Lisa's avatar

Heartbreaking. I’m so sorry. I’m praying for the day my son comes back. Sometimes I’m convinced it will happen and other times think I’m fooling myself. But you know what, that little girl who ordered that tea loved her mom. That love can never be taken from you. I believe she still loves you but has just buried it. Prayers for you and all of us who look at these mementos and hope for the day our children return to themselves and to us.

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Ukrainian Mom's avatar

thank you Lisa!...

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PDF's avatar

Heartbreaking. I’m so sorry for your pain.

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Ukrainian Mom's avatar

thank you very much

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Una-Jane Winfield's avatar

I am so, so, so sorry for you and your pain which turns you inside out.

We need experts to tell parents and societyt how to combat this evil. There have been other "civilization-rejecting cults" before. My gut tells me and has always told me that we must resist, insist on the truth being heard, cry out from the rooftops until Government hears and acts. Actually the US Gov is doing a pretty good job now. Where is your daughter? Can anyone find her? Big hugs for 2026 and good luck.

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Ukrainian Mom's avatar

thank you!... I do not know...they set her against us.. she calls us by our last names and bioparents

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Anon's avatar

😮

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Emily Ann's avatar

This is simply heartbreaking. But I'm also enraged for you and your family. I used to work in the juvenile abuse and neglect system. I saw horrible cases of parental abuse and neglect. The stories would send shivers down your spine. That the trans movement co-opted a system that was designed for kids who were being starved or abandoned by their parents and using it to take mentally unwell children away from loving and competent parents is beyond my comprehension, and yet this is what happens. I am praying for you, and praying that the truth will soon prevail and all of our prodigal sons and daughters come back to us, recognizing that our actions were the ONLY loving ones they've experienced in many years.

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Ukrainian Mom's avatar

thank you for the kind words Emily

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Mom22's avatar

DITTO ((HUGS))

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Christine Jones's avatar

Those ghoulish “supporters” owe you and your daughter so much. I pray you and your family will one day be restored and made whole.

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Ukrainian Mom's avatar

thank you, it hurts..

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Christine Jones's avatar

I can’t even imagine how much it must hurt you, because I’m feeling pain from so far away.

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Ukrainian Mom's avatar

no nights sleep, no food taste.... thank you Christine...

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Christine Jones's avatar

❤️❤️❤️

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Cathy Gardino's avatar

So raw... Abundantly clear that you will never stop hoping and that is what they have zero control over. Your Faith is what will heal you... Your Faith will carry you and give you strength to continue to hope and continue to remain, forever available to your child. Keep doing that. Be Blessed.

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Ukrainian Mom's avatar

thanks...

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Melissa R.'s avatar

I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter.

The narrative you described, influencers, porn, TikTok, should be in MSM.

What if this essay was an Op-Ed in NYT?

Most people who haven't had a trans disaster hit their families don't understand the influences.

And if families go along or celebrate, then the parents that don't become the transphobic problem.

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Ukrainian Mom's avatar

I tried and am trying hard to knock on every door abd not too...did a rew podcasts with Buck Angel reaching back... but thats not enough.... need Elon to notice us and get them exposed and investigated

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Veritas Praevalebit's avatar

It took me months to go into my son's room. It's still hard 3 years later. I am really so very sorry and I know that deep pain. It's primal.

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Ukrainian Mom's avatar

thank you...the home is on sale...we were forced outbof state..

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