And, what is a poor girl to think at a time when she is separating out from parents - and teachers are respected? I think the problem starts with peers but the adults in the room are not adults.
And, what is a poor girl to think at a time when she is separating out from parents - and teachers are respected? I think the problem starts with peers but the adults in the room are not adults.
It's a problem. It's not a surprise that the kids believe whatever their entire peer group, media, schools, doctors, mental health community is telling them...versus what a parent might be saying.
Right. And, it comes at the age when girls are differentiating from the mother. Before this she was soooooo close to me and even shared my mannerisms. People would remark on it. Then the bomb drops.
Yes, part of the problem is this is often happening at an age where it's appropriate for kids to start separating from their parents and becoming more of their own person -- so it's unfortunate that this becomes the way they've often found to do it.
And, what is a poor girl to think at a time when she is separating out from parents - and teachers are respected? I think the problem starts with peers but the adults in the room are not adults.
It's a problem. It's not a surprise that the kids believe whatever their entire peer group, media, schools, doctors, mental health community is telling them...versus what a parent might be saying.
Right. And, it comes at the age when girls are differentiating from the mother. Before this she was soooooo close to me and even shared my mannerisms. People would remark on it. Then the bomb drops.
Yes, part of the problem is this is often happening at an age where it's appropriate for kids to start separating from their parents and becoming more of their own person -- so it's unfortunate that this becomes the way they've often found to do it.
Exactly. It's like a natural process is hijacked.