I lost my daughter to a cult. And I may never get her back. I have a son…don’t want one more— so many issues to unpack. My heart still sinks each moment when she slides back into to choosing lies. Oh, guide our daughter home again, free from the pain of her disguise. Renew her mind.
Those of you who lost your children need the world to hear your love story. The love that was shattered by people who call us hateful, mean and bad parents. The love they broke, shattered and destroyed by their words. The world needs to know. 💔 I think many of them have no idea what they are doing.
I'm sorry, but dreaming of your daughter wearing high heels that hobble us and damage our feet and backs, and wearing humiliating, exposing skirts, and having her nails painted, and all the rest of what I call "toxic femininity" is exactly what drives girls to not want to be female.
I'm all female but nothing about that is female, yet it's pushed on us constantly, by family, the media, peers, etc. My mother sure pushed it on me, but I also did not want to join the boys who made our lives hell with harassing and attacking us.
If you want to rescue your daughter, please consider that wishing such things on her is part of the problem. Seriously. Support her to look and act as "male" as real females often are (while just wanting what is denied to us and given only to males) and you might be able to reach her.
This is a problem for so many girls who, as I did, hate the fake femininity, but now they are told they are male. No, they are all female, but choosing comfortable, safe shoes, clothing, etc. is not remotely "masculine," but sensible and healthy.
In my case, my daughter has never been even remotely masculine. So, I just want her to come back to who she was. I’m a guy compared to how feminine she always was.
They will come back home without hate left anymore for their face and form. Our sons and daughters will come back to our open arms some sooner than others but they will find their way back home because there's no love greater than parents love. 🙏
I wish this was true. And I hope some come home and get this fairytale ending. The reality is, many don’t. They sell freedom as virtue. And they return decay for the payment. My family thought we had gotten our loved one back. And he took his life shortly after coming home. This isn’t a rarity. This is happening more than people know. I appreciate your positivity and hope. And I have it too, despite our tragic loss. Our lives will never ever possibly ever be the same. And what happened to my family, unfortunately doesn’t fit this narrative. We can’t brain wash people, give them drugs, change their body chemistry, make them isolated and further outcasted when they return home, and believe they will be unscathed. Not every human is capable of that resilience, and really, that’s not surprising. What is happening is so much deeper than just coming home again. The changes are not physical or even psychological, they ruin; they decay. They destroy. And they take. 💔
What we can do is educate others. Break down the illusions. The ethical boundaries that are being crossed- we expose them. And try to save as many as we can. But with that, there needs to be better support systems for those who return. And for their families. To help navigate the grief of who they were. Who they still are. Even if they too, will not be the same. Navigating in isolation, which is what’s happening, is impossible. I try to not be bitter and remember that there are still lives to be saved. And we have to do what we can to make sure they have a fighting chance of surviving the aftermath of what was done to them.
I have to cling to hope, to faith I don't have a choice. I can't even imagine all the pain and anger you are going through and I am so sorry 😞 My son is 20yo he started taking blockers and estrogen at the beginning of this year. And we are scared and worried and mad, sad,desperate. I cry every day believe me, since we found out we don't sleep peacefully anymore. You know all of it. I do my part in the voting ballot, that's how our voices are heard, that's the only way we can say "ENOUGH, ENOUGH OF THIS MADNESS, WE PARENTS HAVE HAD ENOUGH" Some people don't want to talk about politics but this is a political issue and if we don't use our vote to kill the gender ideology through our votes, then more innocent people that fall into this cult will be killed. 🫂
So timely for me. I've begun to mourn for the family of 4 we once were. I find myself being grateful for 15 wonderful, fun years as a family of 4. I weep for the years of happiness my daughter has lost in the ideology and continue to hold on to my faith that things will work out. It's all I've got.....
My son was grown, married and had our only grandchild when he decided this was the answer for the mental disorder he is experiencing...I thought it so shocking when he told his only brother that my your son asked him, using his feminine name...I have a question to ask, Did you kill my brother?!!!
My trans son replied....No this is only a mask! What the heck! The medical community still mutilated him....
I am so sorry to hear about your pain, Linda. How hard this is for you, and your family. The betrayal from the systems that are meant to “keep us safe.” Far from the truth. Mutilating in the correct word. And so is mental health condition. And they absolutely shouldn’t be in the same sentence.
Oh they are going to be drug down alright...and sooner than we think...hang in there. As my son said in his song/video he called "Burn in Hell Jezebel"...."the anger has boiled to the top". Vengeance is the Lord's....and we are about to see it manifest....hang in their and prayers to all going through this. It is just surreal....everything right now...
I’m so sorry; please don’t lose hope because I’m not. My daughter is entrenched in this social contagion and cult but I painfully hope and pray everyday for her desistance. Her dad and I refuse to accept that she’s lost to us. We believe in the higher power and that God does not make mistakes.
I’m praying for all of us, loving parents and for our lost children; that they will find their way back sooner or later🙏❤️
You have to hope, you have to pray or just spend some time each day thinking about the good times. I did this for 16 years, but my trans husband and then ex-husband never had doubts.... until the very end when his prostate swelled up with a vengence. In the last year of his life he began to have doubts, but it was too late after castration and 16 years of taking estrogen with all the metabolic disorders that brings. He committed suicide by falling out of a third floor window. I knew for some time that it would end this way. The trans delusion is utterly destructive. It is evil.
Thank you for sharing your experience. There is almost no acknowledgement of what happens ten to twenty years down the road from transition. People need to know this information, to refute the lies that so called doctors and counsellors and teachers are spreading like a plague. Let the truth give us strength and courage to stand against the onslaught. With hope in the Lord. The evil we can fight we must fight, and the Lord will fight evil that is beyond us to fight ourselves. He hears our cry.
Those of you who lost your children need the world to hear your love story. The love that was shattered by people who call us hateful, mean and bad parents. The love they broke, shattered and destroyed by their words. The world needs to know. 💔 I think many of them have no idea what they are doing.
I have lost my daughter too. I miss her terribly. She is only 16 but started this ideology four years ago. I pray for all who are hurting.
I'm sorry, but dreaming of your daughter wearing high heels that hobble us and damage our feet and backs, and wearing humiliating, exposing skirts, and having her nails painted, and all the rest of what I call "toxic femininity" is exactly what drives girls to not want to be female.
I'm all female but nothing about that is female, yet it's pushed on us constantly, by family, the media, peers, etc. My mother sure pushed it on me, but I also did not want to join the boys who made our lives hell with harassing and attacking us.
If you want to rescue your daughter, please consider that wishing such things on her is part of the problem. Seriously. Support her to look and act as "male" as real females often are (while just wanting what is denied to us and given only to males) and you might be able to reach her.
This is a problem for so many girls who, as I did, hate the fake femininity, but now they are told they are male. No, they are all female, but choosing comfortable, safe shoes, clothing, etc. is not remotely "masculine," but sensible and healthy.
In my case, my daughter has never been even remotely masculine. So, I just want her to come back to who she was. I’m a guy compared to how feminine she always was.
Amen.
I wish healing for you and your daughter both. ❤️
My heart so aches with yours… I have a granddaughter who this reminds me of. May we all find a place of peace while we wait…
"So, damn the broken, wicked ones
who lead our kids astray like sheep.
And may the millstones ‘round their necks
drag them down in the deepest seas."
Beautifully put.
They will come back home without hate left anymore for their face and form. Our sons and daughters will come back to our open arms some sooner than others but they will find their way back home because there's no love greater than parents love. 🙏
I wish this was true. And I hope some come home and get this fairytale ending. The reality is, many don’t. They sell freedom as virtue. And they return decay for the payment. My family thought we had gotten our loved one back. And he took his life shortly after coming home. This isn’t a rarity. This is happening more than people know. I appreciate your positivity and hope. And I have it too, despite our tragic loss. Our lives will never ever possibly ever be the same. And what happened to my family, unfortunately doesn’t fit this narrative. We can’t brain wash people, give them drugs, change their body chemistry, make them isolated and further outcasted when they return home, and believe they will be unscathed. Not every human is capable of that resilience, and really, that’s not surprising. What is happening is so much deeper than just coming home again. The changes are not physical or even psychological, they ruin; they decay. They destroy. And they take. 💔
What we can do is educate others. Break down the illusions. The ethical boundaries that are being crossed- we expose them. And try to save as many as we can. But with that, there needs to be better support systems for those who return. And for their families. To help navigate the grief of who they were. Who they still are. Even if they too, will not be the same. Navigating in isolation, which is what’s happening, is impossible. I try to not be bitter and remember that there are still lives to be saved. And we have to do what we can to make sure they have a fighting chance of surviving the aftermath of what was done to them.
I have to cling to hope, to faith I don't have a choice. I can't even imagine all the pain and anger you are going through and I am so sorry 😞 My son is 20yo he started taking blockers and estrogen at the beginning of this year. And we are scared and worried and mad, sad,desperate. I cry every day believe me, since we found out we don't sleep peacefully anymore. You know all of it. I do my part in the voting ballot, that's how our voices are heard, that's the only way we can say "ENOUGH, ENOUGH OF THIS MADNESS, WE PARENTS HAVE HAD ENOUGH" Some people don't want to talk about politics but this is a political issue and if we don't use our vote to kill the gender ideology through our votes, then more innocent people that fall into this cult will be killed. 🫂
So timely for me. I've begun to mourn for the family of 4 we once were. I find myself being grateful for 15 wonderful, fun years as a family of 4. I weep for the years of happiness my daughter has lost in the ideology and continue to hold on to my faith that things will work out. It's all I've got.....
Amen; my faith sustains me.
My son was grown, married and had our only grandchild when he decided this was the answer for the mental disorder he is experiencing...I thought it so shocking when he told his only brother that my your son asked him, using his feminine name...I have a question to ask, Did you kill my brother?!!!
My trans son replied....No this is only a mask! What the heck! The medical community still mutilated him....
The evil being done is beyond understanding...
I am so sorry to hear about your pain, Linda. How hard this is for you, and your family. The betrayal from the systems that are meant to “keep us safe.” Far from the truth. Mutilating in the correct word. And so is mental health condition. And they absolutely shouldn’t be in the same sentence.
Thank you... we are not alone!
And knows she is loved beyond measure by her mother and is beautiful just as she is.
Oh they are going to be drug down alright...and sooner than we think...hang in there. As my son said in his song/video he called "Burn in Hell Jezebel"...."the anger has boiled to the top". Vengeance is the Lord's....and we are about to see it manifest....hang in their and prayers to all going through this. It is just surreal....everything right now...
Yes, God, guide her home again. Guide each of our children home again.🙏🏻
Thank you for sharing your beautiful poem.
I’m so sorry; please don’t lose hope because I’m not. My daughter is entrenched in this social contagion and cult but I painfully hope and pray everyday for her desistance. Her dad and I refuse to accept that she’s lost to us. We believe in the higher power and that God does not make mistakes.
I’m praying for all of us, loving parents and for our lost children; that they will find their way back sooner or later🙏❤️
That is the most appropriate use of that verse for today. 🙏
What if they never come back? What if they never change their mind? I lost all hope that we could go back to who or how we were before.
You have to hope, you have to pray or just spend some time each day thinking about the good times. I did this for 16 years, but my trans husband and then ex-husband never had doubts.... until the very end when his prostate swelled up with a vengence. In the last year of his life he began to have doubts, but it was too late after castration and 16 years of taking estrogen with all the metabolic disorders that brings. He committed suicide by falling out of a third floor window. I knew for some time that it would end this way. The trans delusion is utterly destructive. It is evil.
Thank you for sharing your experience. There is almost no acknowledgement of what happens ten to twenty years down the road from transition. People need to know this information, to refute the lies that so called doctors and counsellors and teachers are spreading like a plague. Let the truth give us strength and courage to stand against the onslaught. With hope in the Lord. The evil we can fight we must fight, and the Lord will fight evil that is beyond us to fight ourselves. He hears our cry.
I'm so sorry. That's horrible