Mine is 32. It never gets easier. I try to keep things as uncomplicated as possible by practicing radical honesty. It takes some practice, but it’s worth nurturing.
Mine is 32. It never gets easier. I try to keep things as uncomplicated as possible by practicing radical honesty. It takes some practice, but it’s worth nurturing.
Mine is 30 & it's only been six months. I am not coping at all. It's the last thing I think about at night & the first thing I think of in the morning. My life is dark & I can't see any light in the future without my baby girl. I live in hope of her seeing the light so we can see it together. Her name might dead but my love for her is forever.
That’s where I was six months post estrangement as well. A few months later, I joined a support group for estranged parents, and it has been a lifesaver for me. It’s been a year and a half for us, and I’ve finally found some peace with what is. It was hard won, but worth the effort. TBH, I was suffering from passive suicidal thoughts because I felt like my whole life was a waste, and I couldn’t imagine ever pouring my heart into anyone or anything like I have into my children, or to any extent really, ever again. I don’t feel that way anymore, I feel blessed and grateful, in spite of the pain that remains. It still hurts like hell, but I can breathe and smile again.
Thank you for the support & encouragement! I am lucky to have a very supportive husband who has no idea what to do or say! My girlfriends are amazingly supportive but aren't able to help me move forward & I don't expect them to. This platform has been a real life raft but also makes me realize the incredible amount or damage, hurt & the extent of the cults reach into our families & our world! I don't feel comfortable contacting local groups because I know how it's a no go topic &Australia is even more woke, left & trans crazy than anywhere else. It is easier that my girl lives in Canada so I am able to deal with the estrangement on a practical level. Christmas was melt down level but it passed. I love all of you wonderful people who are willing to share & be vulnerable on here! Please know that you are all in my heart & I may your life be full of love and happiness!
I’m glad you have your husband and supportive friends. That really helps. If you ever feel like you might want more support from a small, private community, or to join a coaching course to help navigate the grief and the depression, you might want to check out https://estrangedparents.me
Mine is 32. It never gets easier. I try to keep things as uncomplicated as possible by practicing radical honesty. It takes some practice, but it’s worth nurturing.
Mine is 30 & it's only been six months. I am not coping at all. It's the last thing I think about at night & the first thing I think of in the morning. My life is dark & I can't see any light in the future without my baby girl. I live in hope of her seeing the light so we can see it together. Her name might dead but my love for her is forever.
That’s where I was six months post estrangement as well. A few months later, I joined a support group for estranged parents, and it has been a lifesaver for me. It’s been a year and a half for us, and I’ve finally found some peace with what is. It was hard won, but worth the effort. TBH, I was suffering from passive suicidal thoughts because I felt like my whole life was a waste, and I couldn’t imagine ever pouring my heart into anyone or anything like I have into my children, or to any extent really, ever again. I don’t feel that way anymore, I feel blessed and grateful, in spite of the pain that remains. It still hurts like hell, but I can breathe and smile again.
Thank you for the support & encouragement! I am lucky to have a very supportive husband who has no idea what to do or say! My girlfriends are amazingly supportive but aren't able to help me move forward & I don't expect them to. This platform has been a real life raft but also makes me realize the incredible amount or damage, hurt & the extent of the cults reach into our families & our world! I don't feel comfortable contacting local groups because I know how it's a no go topic &Australia is even more woke, left & trans crazy than anywhere else. It is easier that my girl lives in Canada so I am able to deal with the estrangement on a practical level. Christmas was melt down level but it passed. I love all of you wonderful people who are willing to share & be vulnerable on here! Please know that you are all in my heart & I may your life be full of love and happiness!
I’m glad you have your husband and supportive friends. That really helps. If you ever feel like you might want more support from a small, private community, or to join a coaching course to help navigate the grief and the depression, you might want to check out https://estrangedparents.me
Also on YT: https://youtube.com/@estrangedparents?si=LTIGG6R62lxO-e1O
She developed a 6 week course that I found immensely helpful, and she just started a new session this week.
In any case, be good to yourself, and to your spouse. It’s a rocky road for sure. ❤️
Bless you & thanks for the links.