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Nikolai Pavlov's avatar

I grew up in Soviet Russia and even was a member of a youth communist party wing for a few years before the USSR collapsed. You need to keep you mind sane and wait. We ended up in a delusional time when every radio, paper and tv talking lies pretending that everything is fine while nobody believes in it and country deteriorates. We just need to wait and fight for every sane mind.

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We had a similar experience with my husband’s family. It amazes me that our siblings can possibly think that they understand the situation better than us, the parents! It is an awful feeling to be gaslit by your own siblings, who have accompanied you through the journey of raising children and caretaking for elderly parents. On this one issue they will not back you up? On this issue alone, they are unwilling to listen or learn… Only to judge?! Why, at the mention of trans, do otherwise reasonable people become slack-jawed cult followers and instant experts? The feeling of betrayal is immense, and our relationship has been changed forever.

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