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Alice Rose-McDonald's avatar

To the parents, it’s an Orwellian nightmare. Once you know the “science” was crap from the start and is being maintained by doctors doubling down on weak and contradictory evidence you know it’s just insane. Causing irreparable harm with medications and removing the healthy body parts of young people for an ideology, while so many uninformed people chant and wave flags as it happens is truly dystopian.

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Melody Glazer's avatar

I had the talk with four of my closest people. Two listen compassionately knowing and caring how my heart is broken. They tell me there is nothing that I can do right now. Maybe someday she will be back, maybe she won't but all that I can do is let her know I am always there and let it go. That I'm driving her further away for various reasons.i have to let go for now.

Another, who happens to be gay, wants to argue with me and tell me that if I can't affirm my daughter, that I am against gay people. I am not, but there is no convincing her that the two are not even related. This person has her own battle that she wants to wage. I love her but there are subjects that I have to avoid with her to maybe keep our relationship. The break if it happens will be her choice because she is more important to me than simple idealogy, politics.

The forth listened and then told her children who told me I am wrong. I barely know her children. So with this person I know what ever I say to her will go further. When she asks, I tell her the truth but I don't really think of her as one of my closest anymore.

I don't feel close to other people, I don't want my daughter to be vulnerable to people who don't know her. I want the door open for my daughter, with the minimum of problems for her, if she ever returns. I keep a journal, which is just a long letter to my daughter. She will probably never receive it. It doesn't even matter, it's for me.

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