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Alison's avatar

Powerful. I feel your rage. Unfortunately too late for my daughter. She waited to start T until after she left for college, she was 19. We begged, pleaded for more time before she started medicalizing, as a result she disowned us. She hasn’t spoken to us in close to 5 years. Unending grief.😢

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Emily Ann's avatar

Wow. This is painful and such a vividly accurate description of what is happening with theater girls.

I'm the mom of a trans-identified theater girl. I've been in that audience, seen the girls ruining their lives, hiding their natural features behind dyed, unwashed, mulletized hair and piercings, read the program full of he/him pronouns, seen the girls slouching, had parents tell me how brave and stunning my daughter is. All I can feel is anger inside. Now that my daughter is in college, I've stopped attending her plays. I can't do it anymore. Mine cried her senior year because she wasn't given the part of the male romantic lead. The same girl who played the title role in Annie. No other way to describe that than "theater of the absurd." I've used that phrase numerous times on Twitter to describe what this ideology is.

It's brought ruin to a whole cohort of creative, artsy, talented, beautiful girls.

Thank you for this searing verse. I'm going to save it and reflect on it for a very long time. And OP, if you wish to connect privately, I'd love to. Sounds like we have similar children.

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