This May Be Happening
I like to think that things are changing in quiet ways. A doctor hears about the lawsuits and decides it is just too risky to perform a mastectomy on a young woman with healthy breasts. He comes up with a reason to delay it. He feels safer, so he declines the surgery for the next young woman requesting it.
Another doctor is about to tell a six-foot-four young man that he can pass as a woman but decides that would not sound good in court. He says, “Well, I can remove your Adam’s apple if you don’t like it.” The young man doesn’t get the affirmation he craves and so doesn’t show up for his next appointment. After a couple more patients miss appointments, the doctor decides maybe this type of surgery is really not profitable.
An insurance company executive decides to routinely deny all cross-sex hormone treatments due to changing regulations. A physician’s assistant notices a pattern and tells the parent of a confused 18-year-old, “Your insurance probably won’t pay for this.” The parent, who wanted an excuse to stop medicalizing their child, tells their spouse, “We can’t afford it.”
The leader of a high school LGBT group quits teaching because things were not going her way. No other teacher was willing to replace her.
The parents of a young boy who claims to be a girl decides to sign him up for the boys’ soccer team. They don’t want the girls’ parents to dislike them.
A man dressed as a woman is fearful of being called out, so he waits until almost everyone has left the building before enjoying a trip into the ladies’ room. He realises that being in a room without urinals is just not that thrilling.


Insurance coverage needs to stop for cross hormones and surgery 🙏🙏
Real change rarely comes with headlines and victory laps. It happens quietly, through risk calculations, second thoughts, and people deciding the old script no longer feels safe, profitable, or even believable.
Friction is creeping back into a system that depended on momentum and compliance. Delayed procedures. Missed appointments. Insurance denials. Subtle social pressure restoring ordinary boundaries. None of it looks dramatic on its own, but together it shifts the landscape.
Movements don’t always collapse in public. Sometimes they just lose energy, lose incentives, and quietly stop sustaining themselves. That’s usually how real correction happens.