Mother’s Day has come and gone. Father’s Day is fast approaching. The thought of any mother or father having to wake up on either of these days with a child caught in the clutches of transgender ideology breaks my heart. My own sister had to suffer through several Mother’s Day celebrations without her son. The same goes for my brother-in-law who had to endure last year’s Father’s Day with no acknowledgment from his son. Soon it will be Father’s Day again, and again it will pass without word from his son. Any mother or father with a child who has estranged themselves from the family understands this pain. Transgender’s lies are tearing families apart and the parent suffers most.
The world is a mess... we now allow the marginalised victimised delusional to run the world. Kids woth learning difficulties and mental health issues now hold lovong parents ransom to their ideologies. Children run the world and parents pushed aside. Madness is in full swing and the sane are mocked and spat on.
Thank you! Your words encouraged me today. My son is having top surgery tomorrow and I can barely wrap my head around this. I pray for him everyday many times a day and beg God to remove him from the LGBTQ+ cult and drag cult he has been captured by.
In the UK, just as some are realizing this was some sort of collective madness,(Cass report etc) there are still rainbow flags and decals stuck over every major chain in our high streets for the June "celebrations". I used to try and avoid shops that overtly were "champions" but its so widespread that is impossible. At my gp's office rainbow lanyards and pronouns are still the order of the day. ("Order" be
ing the right word as most staff have to go along with it despite personal beliefs to keep their jobs). I have a God daughter lost in this quagmire . Her parents affirm her and have blocked me. I am so sad for all of you and praying for this madness to end.
Thanks for the encouragement. Ten hard years have come and gone since my now 28 year old son got caught up in this ideology and medicalized (we could not stop it because of his age at the time). He estranged himself completely from us 6 months ago, so Christmas, my birthday and Mother's Day have all come and gone without a word. I homeschooled him from age 6 on to address the struggle he was having in traditional school because of his ADHD and to avoid the pressure from school administrators and teachers to medicalize him for his inattentiveness. Recently, I was cleaning out a cupboard with his old homeschool work and fondly remembered how close we were then, and how much I did to make his academic outcome a success. And it was--until the day he started college. He crashed and burned not 2 weeks after. Among those papers I found an old Mother's Day card he made for me, with "I love you, Mom" scrawled in his handwriting and plastered with hearts. I took the card and placed it in the little basket where we keep recently received cards and greetings, right up front where I could see it. You may think me foolishly sentimental but nothing can change the past--both the good things, as well as the bad. My son loved me at that time, no matter what he feels now. And, for my part, I once more acknowledged (to myself) that I did the very best that I could. This really did make me feel just a little better and I am going to remind my husband of the same when Father's Day rolls around this weekend.
I am glad you found that sweet card. Cherish it. Yes, your son did love you and you need to remember the good. This evil cult is trying to destroy all of our sweet memories. I am not giving in and will continue to cling to my memories.
"No child has the capacity or capability to make these profound life changing judgments on their own behalf. And, quite frankly, no parent should have the right to make a decision to allow children to chop off healthy body parts in a vain quest to ease mental discomfort that may only be temporary." https://lucyleader.substack.com/p/there-is-no-way-to-live-a-life-without
Thank you so much. Thank you especially for the prayers. I agree, having those around you that understand the grief is comforting although you hate to see yet another family taken down this horrific path. ❤️🙏🏼❤️
Their coldness to us parents is a total heart destroyer. I just saw mine the other night for the first time in over 2 months (she lives 5 minutes away) and she looked at me like a stranger, went into the MENs bathroom for 5-10 minutes 😭, and didn't want to linger after eating. And I can only PRAY and PRAY and PRAY for her... my sweet and only baby girl. God, help me to stay sane and to go on... give me strength!
Praying with you. I have an alarm on my phone to get me through the day that says “Obey your Lord in the darkness and dare to believe that He will bring the dawn.” -Scott Hubbard He hears your prayers. He knows the pain. He won’t let go of them. 🙏🏼
Thank you for these timely words. I went to attempt a visit with my son just this past week. He tried to call the cops on me because he felt he was in danger by seeing me face-to-face. (they never showed up). He also sent me a 23 point document stating that I needed to agree 100% on all 23 points before he would acknowlege me again. Wow! This all happened with a 6 month period of time. He is 24 years old, with no other big disagreements in our entire relationship. He has always been the perfect, most loving son. He came out in January as trans (no previous history of any gender dysphoria), and now he is a totally different personality. It is definitely a cult--in every sense of the word. It is helpful to hear that we are not alone going through this experience.
So heartbreaking. Same story except a daughter. We were so close. Now she is the opposite of who she was. Why would any healthcare provider think it’s a good idea to cause hormonal problems. I’m so sorry. You’re not alone. Surely the world will wake up very soon.
At least we are in this as an ever growing(sadly) group. I am intending to write yet another letter to his dean and instructors(in a PhD program at University in Seattle—incidentally home of the largest number of trans folk according to their website). I am sending a copy of the 23 point document, specific information related to my son, and specific information and resources related to cults. Incidentally the dean is the dean of medicine and my son is in a biomedical program. I have already sent these folks copies of the CASS review, the WPATH files, and now that I know there is another transgender medicine review funded by WPATH, but not published, I will send a copy of that too! We are in a battle and we need to start fighting back! We need to have more and more lawsuits agains these academic and medical influencers, too! The more angry parents, the better! It is time for them to wake up, and now that we have these documents, we need to put them in front of the people who can make the changes that need to happen. The only voices they are hearing is the voices of the transgender medicalized community.
Thank you for your words of wisdom. They help a lot. I also beg for God’s help every moment I can; praying for a miracle and I will not stop until my last breath. My child needs all the love, help and patience that we can give her. I’m
not losing hope even if sometimes I feel like giving up and just let it be BUT my faith sustains me. I know God is right here with us; in God’s time; Hope does not disappoint.
The world is a mess... we now allow the marginalised victimised delusional to run the world. Kids woth learning difficulties and mental health issues now hold lovong parents ransom to their ideologies. Children run the world and parents pushed aside. Madness is in full swing and the sane are mocked and spat on.
Down the drain we go
Thank you! Your words encouraged me today. My son is having top surgery tomorrow and I can barely wrap my head around this. I pray for him everyday many times a day and beg God to remove him from the LGBTQ+ cult and drag cult he has been captured by.
In the UK, just as some are realizing this was some sort of collective madness,(Cass report etc) there are still rainbow flags and decals stuck over every major chain in our high streets for the June "celebrations". I used to try and avoid shops that overtly were "champions" but its so widespread that is impossible. At my gp's office rainbow lanyards and pronouns are still the order of the day. ("Order" be
ing the right word as most staff have to go along with it despite personal beliefs to keep their jobs). I have a God daughter lost in this quagmire . Her parents affirm her and have blocked me. I am so sad for all of you and praying for this madness to end.
Thanks for the encouragement. Ten hard years have come and gone since my now 28 year old son got caught up in this ideology and medicalized (we could not stop it because of his age at the time). He estranged himself completely from us 6 months ago, so Christmas, my birthday and Mother's Day have all come and gone without a word. I homeschooled him from age 6 on to address the struggle he was having in traditional school because of his ADHD and to avoid the pressure from school administrators and teachers to medicalize him for his inattentiveness. Recently, I was cleaning out a cupboard with his old homeschool work and fondly remembered how close we were then, and how much I did to make his academic outcome a success. And it was--until the day he started college. He crashed and burned not 2 weeks after. Among those papers I found an old Mother's Day card he made for me, with "I love you, Mom" scrawled in his handwriting and plastered with hearts. I took the card and placed it in the little basket where we keep recently received cards and greetings, right up front where I could see it. You may think me foolishly sentimental but nothing can change the past--both the good things, as well as the bad. My son loved me at that time, no matter what he feels now. And, for my part, I once more acknowledged (to myself) that I did the very best that I could. This really did make me feel just a little better and I am going to remind my husband of the same when Father's Day rolls around this weekend.
I am glad you found that sweet card. Cherish it. Yes, your son did love you and you need to remember the good. This evil cult is trying to destroy all of our sweet memories. I am not giving in and will continue to cling to my memories.
"No child has the capacity or capability to make these profound life changing judgments on their own behalf. And, quite frankly, no parent should have the right to make a decision to allow children to chop off healthy body parts in a vain quest to ease mental discomfort that may only be temporary." https://lucyleader.substack.com/p/there-is-no-way-to-live-a-life-without
Beautifully written.
Praying along with you and all the heartbroken family members who are suffering from this evil cult. 🙏🏼❤️
Dear Friend,
Thank you for this wonderful writing and thank you most of all for your prayers.
This is a hard time of year.
Times are shifting, more eyes are being opened, and we have a God who sees
each one of us and listens to each prayer.
Love, Indio
Thank you so much. Thank you especially for the prayers. I agree, having those around you that understand the grief is comforting although you hate to see yet another family taken down this horrific path. ❤️🙏🏼❤️
It is so nice to hear from an aunt who really understands - thank you for these kind words.
Well said!
The whole thing is so unnecessary.
True patriotism, in the form of comfort for grieving parents. Bravo!
Thank you. ❤️🙏🙏🙏
Their coldness to us parents is a total heart destroyer. I just saw mine the other night for the first time in over 2 months (she lives 5 minutes away) and she looked at me like a stranger, went into the MENs bathroom for 5-10 minutes 😭, and didn't want to linger after eating. And I can only PRAY and PRAY and PRAY for her... my sweet and only baby girl. God, help me to stay sane and to go on... give me strength!
ALL of us!! 🙏🙏🙏
Praying with you. I have an alarm on my phone to get me through the day that says “Obey your Lord in the darkness and dare to believe that He will bring the dawn.” -Scott Hubbard He hears your prayers. He knows the pain. He won’t let go of them. 🙏🏼
I am copying that to a note. Thank you.
Thank you for these timely words. I went to attempt a visit with my son just this past week. He tried to call the cops on me because he felt he was in danger by seeing me face-to-face. (they never showed up). He also sent me a 23 point document stating that I needed to agree 100% on all 23 points before he would acknowlege me again. Wow! This all happened with a 6 month period of time. He is 24 years old, with no other big disagreements in our entire relationship. He has always been the perfect, most loving son. He came out in January as trans (no previous history of any gender dysphoria), and now he is a totally different personality. It is definitely a cult--in every sense of the word. It is helpful to hear that we are not alone going through this experience.
So heartbreaking. Same story except a daughter. We were so close. Now she is the opposite of who she was. Why would any healthcare provider think it’s a good idea to cause hormonal problems. I’m so sorry. You’re not alone. Surely the world will wake up very soon.
you are not alone
At least we are in this as an ever growing(sadly) group. I am intending to write yet another letter to his dean and instructors(in a PhD program at University in Seattle—incidentally home of the largest number of trans folk according to their website). I am sending a copy of the 23 point document, specific information related to my son, and specific information and resources related to cults. Incidentally the dean is the dean of medicine and my son is in a biomedical program. I have already sent these folks copies of the CASS review, the WPATH files, and now that I know there is another transgender medicine review funded by WPATH, but not published, I will send a copy of that too! We are in a battle and we need to start fighting back! We need to have more and more lawsuits agains these academic and medical influencers, too! The more angry parents, the better! It is time for them to wake up, and now that we have these documents, we need to put them in front of the people who can make the changes that need to happen. The only voices they are hearing is the voices of the transgender medicalized community.
It is a war. I feel that often, as Average Dad said above “this road to hell” reminds me of world wars. Our voices are growing. Keep fighting.
This doctor is fighting the good fight in Texas. Let’s support his go fund me https://givesendgo.com/texas_whistleblower?utm_source=sharelink&utm_medium=copy_link&utm_campaign=texas_whistleblower
Thanks for the info! Donated! I am now officially a social justice warrior fighting for the cause. (hahaha) 😊
Thank you for your words of wisdom. They help a lot. I also beg for God’s help every moment I can; praying for a miracle and I will not stop until my last breath. My child needs all the love, help and patience that we can give her. I’m
not losing hope even if sometimes I feel like giving up and just let it be BUT my faith sustains me. I know God is right here with us; in God’s time; Hope does not disappoint.
As long as we have hope we have a glimmer of light.
“... and hope does not disappoint” I love that small phrase in that verse so much. Amen.
Yes; forgot to quote Romans 5:5.
“and hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us”.
Thank you so much for this!! God bless us all!