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KB Cooper's avatar

My best friend/husband of 30+ years accused me of being a toxic non-supportive parent of this trans ideology, then he went off and found a new affirming mate ("glitter mom) to align with the social contagion narrative. They do not see reality and the absurdity of it all, they just go along like sheep to be slaughtered. In doing so, I have been gaslighted, thrown under the bus, and had my heart and soul carved out of me - all because I know my child clearly and know this is a disingenuous indoctrination that promises an escape from real life maturation into the lies of fantasy. To be honest I don't know how I could survive without the validation from Littman, Shrier, BBoyce, Genspect, Kellie-Jay, etc. plus the detransitioners and the secret underground suffering parent FB supports. The harm, grief, and PTSD that this has done to estrange and determinate families is pure evil.

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Andrea D.'s avatar

All of this. Losing myself is the worst part of this whole thing. I don't have the stamina to be the "good mother" and do what I need to do to help pull my kid out of this. I am numb and paralyzed and in deep deep pain at the same time. And the loneliness of it all is unbearable. I cried myself to sleep again last night and I am crying again now. Thank you so much for this post. You have given words to exactly how I am feeling at this moment. Thank God every single day is not this bad. But so much seems permanently dead in me now. I am so angry at the world. I just want to run away from my family and from this country and start my life alone in a foreign land. That always feels just outside of my grasp.

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