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Adri Mans's avatar

Your story is a sad one. I am guessing there is not a dad in the picture. The art of growing. a family is an art never completely mastered by a couple and very much harder for only one. Transgenderism overcomes us but it is a trend, a malice of our nihilist times, a time without aim, path, morals, normalization of evil at a societal level. What we can teach our children when the world outside tell them is all wrong and desauthenticated us. Children with broken families are more vulnerable as never been right now, the ones who have families are merely surviving because families are being attacked and their rights canceled. Also many parents can't teach much when they lost authority and credibility in front of their own children when they prioritize vain things and support non-sense causes exposing their children to confusion. I am talking in general because in all my experiences first hand with families with transgender kids all share many things in common as to go with the flow and don't give this issue the importance that is due and don't act sooner, instead of be assertive and tell their children the truth-you cannot be a girl because you are a boy and you can't change that- or ask them-who told you that? Who is the one who is feeding you with lies and nonsense-they did not want to "look"like "cruel" parents. They did not want to go to extremes as take the children out of that school or out of that circle of friends, or out of Social Media, or stop working so hard and stay at home to watch over their kids or homeschooling them. Now, they are living the extreme they did not want to face before. Is not losing a child bc of transgenderism an extreme? Parents: Make the changes are needed it to protect your children, there are not a more important thing, a comfortable lifestyle neither a good job are worthy if your children's well being is at peril, they will pay the ultime price of a society that is more focus in riches, materialism and consumerism than in its members' spirit, souls and physical beings. They are more than the sheep, they are the sacrificial lambs.

I am not blaming the parents totally but I had suggested it in the past to move away to protect their children and my advice have been accused of being extreme. Transgenderism is extreme and it takes extreme measures and it is mainly a rich and decadent country problem, this is not a problem in other more poor countries or Eastern European countries or Asian countries (I travel a lot and I observed those things). If families do that it would be for few years and the cases I know that done that, all have overcame the gender confusion of the family's member who was affected by it, because in other countries will not have that support, of course the enemy reach our kids still through the internet so still that has to be watched as hawks. Of course we have to change things here, make it illegal and some states had laws now that make it illegal in the case of children only, but 18 years old also are teen agers, they cannot smoke or drink but still butcher their bodies? So, 18 is not adulthood in these times, and after all, a person who decide to do that, not matter their age, are not right in their minds so they shouldn't have the power of doing a such extreme thing as many detransitioners are openly and publicly talking about, that they shouldn't have been allowed to do something like that but the doctors pushed them and really they didn't know what they were doing and the price they payed specially boys into girls. Those doctors should be accountable and be in jail!!!

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Kathleen's avatar

Mon Dieu. I cannot imagine. How insidious and diabolical this is. My heart goes out to you. I can't imagine.

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Anon's avatar

This is unbelievably tragic, almost impossible to believe it’s true. And even more devastating to know that it is. How has your son’s voice changed…I thought that wasn’t possible for boys. Did he have surgery or is it through voice training?

I hope it’s some consolation that this whole ideology is about to collapse. I haven’t given up on that hope. For many of us it is too late with our sons & daughters but it will be something that this never happens to a soul again

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Grandma Eileen's avatar

What a crushing story. Shame on your older son! And the therapist's point in encouraging his return to you was to accomplish what, exactly? To prove to you that he was a female, that he was thriving, or that he was now happy? His returning did more harm than good. I am so sad to hear, yet another story of a broken family in turmoil because of this cult. Your youngest son was indeed preyed upon, as if he were a lost sheep because your older son is now a devil in woman's clothing. I hope your wishes come true and your youngest son returns to you, but what about future generations? What if your youngest son has children? Then they will fall prey to your oldest son. The cycle does not seem to stop. I hate Transgender!

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Alexander Joseph Hamburger's avatar

Call me a conspiracy theorist, I don’t care. But my suspicion is the therapist sent Romulus back home specifically to recruit Remus. I am suspicious because Romulus did not make peace with his mother, so he did not come back to re-establish relationship with his mother. He came back to recruit his brother. I feel sure of it.

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Natalia's avatar

I agree. Therapists don’t give a damn about parents. They are the ones fuelling the estrangement epidemic

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Grandma Eileen's avatar

You are probably spot on! Pure Evil. I hate this cult!

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Lisa Geraghty's avatar

Wow, I can relate. I hear you and I feel your pain- you’re not alone.

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Mark Patrick's avatar

This is how terribly bad this is. Thank you for your courage in sharing, how terribly bad this is. For what it's worth, I am with you

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Jason's avatar

That’s painful to read. I wonder if sometimes a mother has to make the impossible choice of telling a trans kid to stay away from his siblings.

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Alexander Joseph Hamburger's avatar

I think it is very possible and very prudent to keep a trans kid away from siblings. There are many families dealing with serious abusers among their relatives, whether it be trans or other types of abuse, such as alcohol or drugs or porn or thievery or wreckless behaviour such as street racing cars. Often the best course of action is tough love. Send the abuser away, keep yourself and remaining family safe.

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Natalia's avatar

This is a very good point

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Average Dad's avatar

Everyone knows that the gay lifestyle perpetuates the onboarding of the young and naive by the old and experienced. It sickens me to see old men/women with young men/women and I find homosexuality gross, I really don't want to see it, holding hands, kissing, any of it, I am sorry but it is true. I don't hate anyone but I don't like such blatant sin thrust in my face. Is it OK if I don't like homosexual activities and would never approve of them including gay marriage, it should be.

"Humans, too, are social animals. We hunted in packs, when we hunted. Younger humans follow older humans, and believe what they are told by these adults, even if the adults are just using them to justify their own lost selves. This is the case with my children."

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Natalia's avatar

I actually think that sexual orientation towards homosexuality is also the result of social contagion. There may be a few genuine homosexuals but the ridiculous alphabet explosion in the west just can’t be real.

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Average Dad's avatar

agreed, it is sick and highly porn fueled. The amount of mental instability in the homosexual community is way above average. we all have homosexual friends, family and coworkers, that is fine, I just don't want homosexual activities forced on me to watch or agree with. I miss the days of the closets and don't ask don't tell. Would love to bring that back and especially some shame.

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Natalia's avatar

Yes, I wish there were closets now because the alphabet thinks they can now parade naked in front of people. I absolutely hate the alphabet with all my soul.

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Average Dad's avatar

yes, and it's worse than that, naked, acting out explicit homosexual activities, in front of children, in front of willing parents who bring their children, and the cities allow such permits, they allow this behavior. And a whole month of it! Every time I see one of these rainbow or trans flags I want to ask these people what that flag represents to them because in other nations it means who you have been conquered by, who you feel you owe your allegiance to. So with that logic these people have been conquered by homosexuality, conquered by sodomy. Truly unbelievable. Wait till they have even more power it will get way worse. We are Lot, in Sodom and Gomorrah.

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Natalia's avatar

I pray for a huge financial crisis that will affect the whole western world. I pray for the predators that corrupted our children to go bankrupt and lose it all

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Average Dad's avatar

the poor would be most devastated causing untold misery on the rest, any one of us would likely do absolute terrible things when hungry enough (history proves), the rich will survive sadly. sometimes I think we need a good old fashioned war to clear the air and bring back conservative thought and values. when college/high school/elementary biology professors and labs and science and government and corporations never stand up and say men cannot be women and vice versa, what are the choices?

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Natalia's avatar

The choice is to remove their sources of funding. We must follow the money and cut it.

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Alexander Joseph Hamburger's avatar

I agree. The western world may indeed come to ruin, but we don’t know for sure. Regardless whether or not we fall into a new dark ages, we are still obligated right now to hope, to struggle, to actively fix things within whatever limited scope we have, whatever strength and ability we can muster.

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Natalia's avatar

Yes, even a small candle can destroy darkness and there is so much darkness everywhere. We may be a small candle for now but God will deal with these monsters one day and they will wish they never mess with God’s Law

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Average Dad's avatar

we can't even cut Big Bird, or any PBS funding, they want to cut police officers, cutting government spending is like fixing a leaky damn with colanders. let's add cutting funding to the multiprong approach. something diabolical has happened in western worlds where crime is not punished, yet truth is, we have rape gangs in Britain covered up, the covid tyranny where people who were pro covid vaxxed would have gladly killed the un covid vaxed, in America our Gov just prints trillions of dollars of money, why should citizens pay taxes, just print it, on and on and on, cut funding, that's like throwing rocks at the sun. We citizens must stand up for truth and be brave. Like Gad Saad, Tommy Robinson, Riley Gaines, and so many others.

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Alexander Joseph Hamburger's avatar

Some say Britain has passed the point of no return. I certainly would not choose to be there now, even though my grandparents lived there and I used to spend summer months visiting.

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Natalia's avatar

Yes but it’s clear there will be a financial crisis. All that printing points to the west approaching the end game. Hyper inflation and degeneracy go together. We’re going to fall like the Roman Empire, the Barbarians are already in the country

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Alexander Joseph Hamburger's avatar

Germany between the first and second world war had hyper inflation and degeneracy. But after 1945 the United States rehabilitated western Europe. In turn, maybe even now there is some part of the world, that will pick up the ruins of the United States. I believe there are good people living in the world, and for their sake, though I don’t know where they are, we rise from our ruin.

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Average Dad's avatar

yes that is true and homosexuality runs rampant we are Sodom and Gomorrah, this is why the very rich have been buying islands and building doomsday bunkers, Bill Gates owns tons of land in Montana and Idaho. The man with supposedly the highest IQ in the world has professed his belief in Jesus recently and predicts the end is near (the return of Jesus), I think we all feel that way in some form or another I have for a while.

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Alexander Joseph Hamburger's avatar

It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.

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Christy's avatar

Eloquent, accurate & heartbreaking 💔 I'll pray for your boys, my boys & all of the kids caught up in the gender cult. Hugs ✌️

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Patrick J's avatar

My heart hurts for you. Praying for God's intervention and peace and safety for all!!

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