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Technically Catholic's avatar

I think your post is spot-on. To extend your direction a little bit: the red team needs to do some work too.

First, use language carefully. In addition, to not following the trans cult, don’t use “grooming.” It is not precise enough because grooming has meant recruiting for the personal abuse by the groomer/groomer’s boss. Instead, perhaps use recruiting.

Second, use moderation in proposing legislation. Don’t threaten to send parents to jail for following the best advice they could get in the past. Instead say that after a future date those who take action x will be punished. Focus on those who make money.

Third, recognize allies when you find them. If you must blame someone for the mess we are in, blame yourself. You be more kind, more compassionate, more clear and honest in your speech. Only sinless people can “cast the first stone” according to Jesus.

That is not to say that you have to make nice with people acting evilly. But limit yourself to stating truth, not assigning yourself the jobs of judge, jury and executioner. A bit of humility goes a long way.

Finally, have compassion for everyone regardless of their views. Have compassion for liberal parents. Have compassion for those who are deluded- even if they hate you.

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Cary Cotterman's avatar

I begin with language. I will not, under any circumstances, refer to anyone who was born with XX chromosomes and a vagina as "he/him", or anyone who was born with XY chromosomes and a penis as "she/her". There are people who are angered about this--that's their problem. They don't like me--I don't care. I live in the world of biology and reality, and there is no way in hell I'm going to participate in their lunatic game.

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