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AD's avatar

I think what Tom Hanks and Hollywood is missing altogether (maybe on purpose or out of lack of real interest) is the devastation that this trans movement is causing on the families of these kids, from the moment one comes out. It's like the real problem is the lack of acceptance from society and parents. No, the real problem is the harm done to young minds and bodies and the estrangement that is forced on these kids and the constant portrayal of parents as being the enemy. I read the book, I loved the book, I saw the movie and I cried. Because I have one of these kids and I would hate the idea of her ever being in the position of asking for shelter from a grumpy old man. I would never kick my self-identfied ROGD trans kid out of my house. I am doing my best to hang on to her. But no, the problem is not the lack of acceptance, cause I accept my kid with good and bad, I just have to deal with myheartache, my mental health, my fear, my devastation at the thought that now that she's 18, she has the "opportunity" to maim her body and make herself steryle. That is the real problem and I hope one day someone will tell THAT story.

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J Vee's avatar

I was such a fan if the book and the excellent Swedish film. I was so disappointed. In my mind Otto would find it utterly ridiculous that someone thought they could change sex.

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