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Pamela Garfield-Jaeger's avatar

Wow, this is a very interesting story and shows how our much culture and politics have been destructive on teens over the last 5-6 years. In 2021, worked at a PHP for teens in San Mateo, California (Sutter Health) and that's where I saw the madness first hand. I was the only non-affirming therapist, but I didn't confront them. I asked them questions. The kids intentionally used their mental health issues as identities and free passes to get away with bad behaviors. (They admitted it to me!) I'm glad ketamine helped your daughter. I've seen it help some people. it looks like you are on the right path. As the culture shifts, your relationship deepens and she matures, I think there is a lot of hope.

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Evelyn Ball, LMFT's avatar

Your relationship with your daughter sounds incredibly strong. She’s also matured now, and is in a much stronger position to understand and internalize the features of a healthy relationship with herself and with others, due to the way you’ve attuned to her needs and the way the situation for your daughter has evolved - she doesn’t appear likely to return to the confused and dark place of the past.

As a depth psychotherapist rooted in attachment theory and developmental psychology, I have been very skeptical of leaning on any psychiatric drug treatment, including Ketamine. However, of course I’m thrilled it helped your daughter and family.

It is important to note the way your daughter’s Ketamine treatment was scheduled and planned, with a very specific and short treatment protocol that decreased the dosing dramatically over a short period, and that it was paired along with your closeness and communicative relationship, and with careful and thoughtful therapy, initially at least (if I have the history right). These are likely critical pieces of its therapeutic effect, without causing undue harm.

Thank you for detailing your family’s journey. How incredibly traumatic for all of you. And how inspiring to hear and see the way you’ve managed to extricate her from the depths of despair and ideological captivity.

I believe you’re in a very promising place and can truly exhale now. I suspect your daughter could even handle a conversation about the identity crisis she was temporarily indoctrinated into.

My heart goes out to you and your family. What a world we live in…

Wishing you continued health, peace and connection.

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