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Brian Villanueva's avatar

The importance of telos -- the sense that your life has purpose -- can not be understated. It doesn't have to come from the Bible, but in the West it usually has and does.

Even Nietzsche realized the importance of telos. Everyone knows his "God is dead" line but few know the meaning. It's not "great, that killjoy God is dead so let's go party!" It's more like, "how will we know how to live since we killed God?"

Susan D's avatar

Daily Prayer for Our Children

O Mary, Immaculate Virgin and Sorrowful Mother, commend our beloved children to The Most Sacred Heart of Jesus, Who refuses nothing to His Mother.

Holy Guardian Angels, pray for them

St. Joseph, powerful patron, pray for them

St. John, beloved disciple of the Heart of Jesus,

pray for them

St. Augustine, pray for them

St. Anthony, pray for them

St. Aloysius, pray for them

St. Anne, Mother of Mary, pray for them

St. Elizabeth, pray for them

St. Monica, pray for them

Let us pray

O God, Who have given us some of the Blessed in heaven as special patrons, grant in Your mercy that we and our children, through the merits of the same and of all Your saints, may receive the help of which we stand in need and practice the virtues taught us by their example.

May we, O Lord, through the honor we pay them, become worthy of Your good pleasure and share in their powerful intercession.

Through Christ our Lord. Amen

Adri Mans's avatar

Thanks! Blessings for you too! But God will take all this evil and used for good, no doubts. People need to awake and see what is going on in this society that is a result of materialism and consumerism, and secular. Not only in the states also in Europe we are seeing this. Only strong countries where Faith is strong like the muslim countries can keep all this madness at bay, we used to be like that. Probably that is the reason why we are fighting them. And we as society reject everything that is Godly, for instance Hungary is criticized as an "alt right" nation because its PM had said that all these progressive agendas will not enter the country and Hungary will dedicated to the Lord, I think Poland also consecrated itself to Mother Mary or the Lord. It is nothing wrong with that, all what comes from the Creator is good in nature but people who professed to be atheists or consider religion a superstition of the old ages, also are indignant and accuse everybody of being "alt right or fanatic". Why do they care? They care because this is not just what it seems to be. They care because they hate the God they assure you they don't believe, there is not love in their hearts. But also because it is an evil agenda sustained by evil politicians who are pushing and indoctrinating people into believe that God doesn't exist or have any power or any inherence in the world today, when it is exactly the opposite. The world alike the whole universe belongs to the Creator and we also belong to Him, the faster we accept that the faster He will heal us. No person who believes and loves God has any confusion about their identity because they know who they are, creatures of God and they know their purpose in this life, to know God and do His will because He always has the best plan for us, our happiness and our joy. Creation is a love's story and we are part of it. We don't exist and nothing exists outside God, of course He gives us free will but free doesn't mean that we can do whatever. Freedom means big power so it entitles a big responsibility and teaching this would be one of the ways to counter the lazy and spoiled society of today in which we find humans who feel entitled in thinking that they have the right to change biology, nature, and that God got it wrong when He formed them in their mothers' wombs, somehow. The audacity only can come from a lack of spiritual transcendence.

Carla N's avatar

Every week parents gather virtually to pray for our kids to exit this madness. Please visit pittprayer(dot)com for the schedule and to register. It has been an incredible encouragement to know we are not alone, this is not all our fault, and we have hope in God to redirect our children to the Truth.

Liz's avatar

💔💞🌹

Theresa's avatar

My son so similar. I have to keep praying. God is in charge. I’ll pray for yours.

Mom First's avatar

Like many I’ve been through some really hard times and asked “Why God why?” It wasn’t until many years later that I was able to see the why. And I’m thankful. For the last 3/4 years I’ve asked why God why?” And I’ve learned As some very important things about why and how this entered our family. And I have seen perhaps some why’s, things that I truly did need to learn. And I am grateful for that.

However I’m kinda done, “God can we end this now?” Please, too many people are being hurt. Can we get it escalated? Rush order? I don’t know how much longer we can all hang in here. 🥺 It’s kinda a big problem and we need so big help.

Indio's avatar

Dear One, thank you for this beautiful encouragement to never give up. As things change around us, sometimes so fast we cannot seem to catch our breath with the pain of it all, one fact remains. Our Eternal God, our Heavenly Father, our Savior Jesus Christ will never change. Blessed be the Name of the Lord. Amen.

Love, Indio

Anti-Trans mom's avatar

I was an atheist before. Sometimes I wonder if it was because my heart was so hard that God used my daughter to soften me and make me turn to Him? 😭

Laurel Grams's avatar

God may not have caused it to happen but he can take pain and hurt and use it for his purpose which is bringing you to him.

Catherine Dubuque's avatar

Thank you for this beautiful post. It's not necessary to be religious to reject the entire trans movement as objectively false and very dangerous. My own religious beliefs are something I keep private (or would outside of this space). I worry when I see mentions of religion as something others can easily reject, calling them religious nonsense. Like the author, I had so little knowledge of this issue, and can't recall when I really learned about it. I do recall a tech conference in 2019, where I was one of perhaps three women in a heavily dominated male industry. I recall using the restroom and thinking "thank God there's not a man in here" so I must of had some awareness, but really didn't understand the true enormity and scope of this pernicious social contagion until much, much later. I wouldn't have had any idea how to proceed, despite having been very proactive, like the writer, in educating my children to ward off very real and actionable concerns. I hope the writer and other parents won't blame themselves for not anticipating such a horrifying thing could ever come to pass, how could we have known? While this hasn't touched me personally, I did lose an important friend of over 20 years to the madness (a very strong, sensible mid-Western woman). Occasionally, too much time spent advocating gets me very anxious, I've told myself to just leave it alone...but we can't leave it alone. As long as there are active and repeated attempts to change centuries-held beliefs about the immutability of sex, none of us are safe. We have to find strength to continue to help children, and adults who were children.

Anon's avatar

This is encouraging to me, that although your family has not been personally affected by this issue you cannot leave it alone. This gives me hope

B. M.'s avatar

I agree. Thank you. If people see themselves as Jesus does, and truly understand their infinite value, I think most of this deceit about gender ideology would be flushed to where the goblins go. The rest would go due to the truth that God created humans as male and female. People will still have their insecurities, but a lot of this deception is from following human teachings instead of the Truth.

Heather Boersma's avatar

It comforts me to see so many parents with faith. The one blessing with this tsunami is that it really shows how we have allowed the enemy to erode our social values. I thought being tolerant was kind, but allowing the enemy to plant lies is dangerous. Now these lies about how we can create ourselves have grown into hideous weeds. A small wave can be overlooked, but a tsunami makes our need for God very obvious.

Bill Bradford's avatar

Let us HONOR them....by EXPOSING the whole, entire "trans ideology" as the global-scale, top-down, billionaire-backed, "fake news" PSY OP which it truly is. So-called "trans ideology" was 100% fabricated as a means of ushering in TRANSHUMANISM, and TECHNOCRACY. Melding "IOT", or the "Internet of Things" with the "IOB", or "Internet of Bodies", thus making us all digital slaves. Think about it, - if the "trans agenda" was real, was Natural, was genetic, or fate, or destiny, somehow, then wouldn't it come even easier, with less friction? I will NEVER believe that a man can become a woman, or that a woman can become a man. We are NOT born "into" a body. We are BORN AS A BODY....which is almost always either male or female.... Do you agree with what I'm saying here"

If you agree, please "like", and share....

I_tried's avatar

"We are NOT born "into" a body. We are BORN AS A BODY" - You phrased it perfectly.

Bill Bradford's avatar

Thank-you. Also: "So-called "trans rights" are not human rights. They are trans-human rights." ...&... "Trans persons" are not human, they are TRANS-human. That's the whole point, isn't it?".... What we're doing here, "I_tried", is exposing the whole "trans agenda"/"trans ideology" as being the fabricated global-scale PSY Op which it truly is.... If "trans" was REAL, then it wouldn't be so confusing!....right?....

Linda Grajewski's avatar

Just like that for us only our son was 41 and married.. was in 23 after covid...I think that pushed him over the edge of reality...they live several states away from us

Margo's avatar

Absolutely right. God be close to the broken hearted and return our sons and daughters from afar

Melissa R.'s avatar

Yes, this:

"Sometimes I think of it like a tsunami that came without warning. We prepare for problems we have seen before. We prepare for mistakes we already know."

What did I worry about when my daughter was a teen? Drugs, texting while driving, an unexpected pregnancy, getting in with the wrong crowd...Well, the wrong crowd happened. I couldn't have imagined the faceless crowd on the internet. Transgender wasn't on my radar. Someone like Bruce/Caitlyn was a cultural aberration. I was aware of male transexuals, and drag shows at nightclubs.

I couldn't have imagined this "trans thing" would impact girls, or a large swath of young people of both sexes.