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I feel your pain. Apparently if you do not believe a man cannot be a woman and a woman cannot be a man, they feel you cannot possibly love or respect them. You are required to believe everything they believe with all your heart and have no questions or doubts. Discarding their actual family in favor of their chosen family is a badge of honor and courage; so is re writing history. Logic,reason and critical thinking disappear. Broken hearts litter this path..........

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MHT's avatar

I’m so sorry. The fact that though it is your younger son who is the trans identified male, your older son chose not to invite you to his wedding, is particularly tough to take imo. You may not have gone if invited, but he and his fiancé didn’t give you that choice. I would be alternating between grief, hurt and rage. Women/Mothers in particular do so very much for our children as we raise them with unconditional love. There’s no guarantee that they will care about us unfortunately. We are expected to compromise our beliefs, the truth and biology. I hope you are able to engage with like-minded women in private online groups for support and camaraderie.

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