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The 21st Century Salonnière's avatar

This sounds like a good bunch of advice and of course it can be modified / tweaked to fit others’ situation (other people for example might not find that food is such an issue for them, but might have a different family issue to work on instead).

The bit of advice about practicing what you preach re: not changing your appearance is a good one. I knew a parent whose trans-identified child was obsessed with her “hypocrisy” because the parent was leery of hormones and surgeries, and yet dyed her own hair to cover the gray. At first she laughed it off — “that’s totally different!” — but ultimately decided to stop dyeing her hair. I’m not sure if that made a difference in her family’s situation, but it’s just interesting that this was perceived as hypocrisy so she changed it.

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LovingMother's avatar

Wow, NY Post Article:

"Anguished parents of trans kids fight back against ‘gender cult’ trying to silence them"

https://nypost.com/2022/05/11/meet-the-parents-of-trans-kids-fighting-gender-cult/

It begins with 4thwavenow and then "Since then, a number of activist and parent support groups have sprung up, including GenSpect, Partners for Ethical Care, Our Duty, Transgender Trend and Parents With Inconvenient Truths About Trans or PITT." I don't like how it says "trans kids" but the general public is learning...

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