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StoicMom's avatar

I appreciate this piece. From my perspective, we've been groomed for this for years--pathologizing and treating every possible discomfort. I think my own skepticism and distrust of allopathic medicine might be one of the reasons my daughter embraced this belief system during her individuation--it was as far from my own values as it gets. Her journey and the awareness it brought me of just how off the rails the medical markets had gone has just reinforced and deepened my reverence for Life. Another area where I focus on " different world views" and don't push mine right now--I'm in her head, as Patrick Ryan would say. She knows what I think and demonstrates this often. I can be curious about hers even as I stand strong on my own values. It's hard but not impossible to convey neutrality; important, I believe, depending on the age of your child. Mine is approaching 18. I believe she needs to know that I trust she'll make decisions in the best interest of her health.

I also think it's time we re-examine our relationship with death. Our intense fear of death drives the markets. We are all stardust and if we allowed it, our bodies would return to the Earth to nourish more Life. It's a beautiful "design" that's evolved over billions of years. Our hubris to think we understand it and can do better never ceases to astonish me.

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LovingMother's avatar

"BioPhobia" is perfect. I do not want to hear another sentence with the word "trans" or "transphobia". We can take back reality with real language. These gender pushers are promoting biophobia.

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