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Runemasque's avatar

It is somewhat relieving that it would be unlikely for a grown child to find the pathway back to accepting their sex through the parent, unless the adult child does not recognize saps influence. At least in their own subjective estimation, they are more likely to find that they themselves are changing their definitions of male and female and they way they think about it.

I often think that the likely existence of ambivalence in them needs to be allowed to walk its own self through resolution. If your parental influence upon that ambivalence inspires pushback, I worry that it will strengthen adherence to the ideology and the choices.

Paving the Way's avatar

The psychotherapist holds the key. If she coddles, affirms, and supports the victimization narrative , it gets ugly. If the therapist is LGBT herself, the likelihood of the above is high. Parents should do all they can to avoid LGBT therapists even if they present themselves as experts in this area.

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