AWWFL's will always be the ones to cause the heartbreak, to play along with the delusions, to break up families. I used to be one - so I know - when I finally realized just how toxic this cohort of society is. They're the counsellors, the teachers, the academia, the doctors, the social workers who pushed the Gender Cult into mainstream & continue to fight to sterilize & mutilate young people. Sorry if this truth hurts, but once you see it, you can't unsee it.
#AWWFLs
#AffluentWokeWhiteFemaleLiberals
Orwell was accurate only, it's not just the young females that are dangerous, it's the boomers now too.
I am terrified this is my future.. this is our first Christmas since my son announced he was transitioning… He used to come home for the week… enjoyed being with us.. Now he is coming for 2 days and leaving… When I questioned him.. I used his name only to be told that’s no this name.. that I’m being disrespectful… but I can’t.. I just can’t.. and if I can’t… a Priest told me to prepare that my son may stop talking
To me.. that it’s a part of the playbook these groups tell them to employ… my anxiety going to into Christmas is high… and I’m scared.
If you all have an android phone there is a new app called our path for people to connect with each other. The app isn’t yet ready for Apple. It was developed by someone in the group advocates protecting children from gender ideology.
I share this Christmas with all of you fighting against the thing that destroys a family like nothing I’ve seen before. I hope, I pray. Our voices are heard one day. The pain we endure for loving is unbearable and unacceptable.
My parents are deceased, my son is in NM living this nightmare. Im a church musician and wanted to fly out to see him - hes working Christmas week. 2 years ago, I had breast cancer, had 2 lumpectomies. He wouldn't come home cause I didn't pay for his bottom surgery. The past 3 years, he went North - to his girlfriends parents. They eloped last Dec - i received a text. Now thankfully they are divorcing. Its hard being alone. Friends invited me for brunch. Two of my cousins I always had supper with - one died suddenly, the other two months later.
This post is sad, like every PITT post. It truly is hard being a non believer, I feel for everyone in this space. But we’re here because we care, regardless of what our kids or anyone else thinks.
May the God of love and peace fill you with his loving and healing touch during the difficult times of the holidays. And may God heal the nation of this scourge that has been inflicted on the young people in our nation. Please God, heal these kids and place a millstone on those who have perpetuated this outrage against you, because that is who this is ultimately against. Restore these people to who you created them to be in the name of Jesus
Though there may be many similarities in our stories, I am aware that everyone experiences trauma and grief differently. And holidays tend to magnify that pain. For 12 years, my husband and I have been estranged from our young, adult daughter who suddenly announced she was born in the wrong body and was transitioning. I can think of nothing more damaging than to affirm that belief in someone. And yet all our family members chose to do so. For my husband and I, expressing our love, concern, and the truth earned us outcast status. Not a day goes by that I don’t think of her and miss all the joy and laughter she brought to our lives. For many years, the holidays seemed unbearable. But I’ve learned to tune out the commercials, carols, & jingles—which only seemed to mock our sadness. They don’t portray the true magnitude, grace and beauty of Christmas anyway. Don’t give up. Even if they don’t want us, our children need us. Keep praying. Keep hoping.
Similar for us. Most of our relatives 'affirm' and we are outcasts. It's hard to go be with people who seem so intent on destroying my son's future, our family, our future ... they don't seem to care - as long as they get their Christmas. This year we decided to begin the process of rebuild and create some new traditions. I couldn't go through another lonely and upsetting Christmas again. It will never be the same - but it doesn't have to be the end either.
So very true... but, hope springs eternal that one day they will realize the error of their ways and return to the ones that truly loved them all along... We must always leave room for the Prodigal Sons and Daughters to try again... It requires actual repentance, from their hearts as our hearts remain lovingly open. Like our Father does for each one of us... Blessings be upon you all.
The holidays are really difficult because my adult son who transitioned 6 years ago is very hateful towards his family so he chooses to be alone. I don’t see any sign of detransitioning in the future. I’ve lost hope.
I’m sorry for your losses - both your son and your hope. I’m there with you on the running out of hope. May we all find some peace this holiday season.
Standing for the truth is painful sometimes, but the truth is bigger than any one of us, or our children and grandchildren. And we have to believe that eventually, the truth will and must prevail. It will only do so if there are souls brave enough to stand for it. You're one of those souls. I wish you peace and healing this Christmas. It sounds like you have the right attitude. Hugs to you.
This malignant movement hates no one so much as mothers--and alas, grandmothers now too.
Our bodies conceived of and grew their bodies inside us. Our bodies gave birth to these wayward children. We carry deep, instinctive knowledge about each one of them. This should be a comfort and a blessing to them--but this movement says that strangers are family, that evil is good, that harm is care, so of course we must be discarded too.
I sometimes consider affirming mothers and wonder: how can you be so alienated from your children and from the truth?
Thank you. This had been true until 3 years ago: "Christmas is a time when families come together. For just a day, maybe only part of a day, everyone sets aside their differences and focuses instead on what makes them a family."
This is my third solo Christmas. I hope and pray it is my last Christmas alone. May 2026 be a year of healing and reconnecting in my family but also for so many other families who read this PITT Substack and find themselves without a beloved child's presence in their lives during the holidays.
This will be Christmas no. 5 without my son who declared he was transgender in 2021 and refuses any contact with me. I sent a card wishing him peace, having no idea if he will even receive it. I pray and I wish him a Merry Christmas in my heart. His absence is palpable to me but so is all the joy and love from my other son and my extended family. Prayers for you. Merry Christmas!
AWWFL's will always be the ones to cause the heartbreak, to play along with the delusions, to break up families. I used to be one - so I know - when I finally realized just how toxic this cohort of society is. They're the counsellors, the teachers, the academia, the doctors, the social workers who pushed the Gender Cult into mainstream & continue to fight to sterilize & mutilate young people. Sorry if this truth hurts, but once you see it, you can't unsee it.
#AWWFLs
#AffluentWokeWhiteFemaleLiberals
Orwell was accurate only, it's not just the young females that are dangerous, it's the boomers now too.
I am terrified this is my future.. this is our first Christmas since my son announced he was transitioning… He used to come home for the week… enjoyed being with us.. Now he is coming for 2 days and leaving… When I questioned him.. I used his name only to be told that’s no this name.. that I’m being disrespectful… but I can’t.. I just can’t.. and if I can’t… a Priest told me to prepare that my son may stop talking
To me.. that it’s a part of the playbook these groups tell them to employ… my anxiety going to into Christmas is high… and I’m scared.
If you all have an android phone there is a new app called our path for people to connect with each other. The app isn’t yet ready for Apple. It was developed by someone in the group advocates protecting children from gender ideology.
I share this Christmas with all of you fighting against the thing that destroys a family like nothing I’ve seen before. I hope, I pray. Our voices are heard one day. The pain we endure for loving is unbearable and unacceptable.
My parents are deceased, my son is in NM living this nightmare. Im a church musician and wanted to fly out to see him - hes working Christmas week. 2 years ago, I had breast cancer, had 2 lumpectomies. He wouldn't come home cause I didn't pay for his bottom surgery. The past 3 years, he went North - to his girlfriends parents. They eloped last Dec - i received a text. Now thankfully they are divorcing. Its hard being alone. Friends invited me for brunch. Two of my cousins I always had supper with - one died suddenly, the other two months later.
This post is sad, like every PITT post. It truly is hard being a non believer, I feel for everyone in this space. But we’re here because we care, regardless of what our kids or anyone else thinks.
May the God of love and peace fill you with his loving and healing touch during the difficult times of the holidays. And may God heal the nation of this scourge that has been inflicted on the young people in our nation. Please God, heal these kids and place a millstone on those who have perpetuated this outrage against you, because that is who this is ultimately against. Restore these people to who you created them to be in the name of Jesus
Though there may be many similarities in our stories, I am aware that everyone experiences trauma and grief differently. And holidays tend to magnify that pain. For 12 years, my husband and I have been estranged from our young, adult daughter who suddenly announced she was born in the wrong body and was transitioning. I can think of nothing more damaging than to affirm that belief in someone. And yet all our family members chose to do so. For my husband and I, expressing our love, concern, and the truth earned us outcast status. Not a day goes by that I don’t think of her and miss all the joy and laughter she brought to our lives. For many years, the holidays seemed unbearable. But I’ve learned to tune out the commercials, carols, & jingles—which only seemed to mock our sadness. They don’t portray the true magnitude, grace and beauty of Christmas anyway. Don’t give up. Even if they don’t want us, our children need us. Keep praying. Keep hoping.
Similar for us. Most of our relatives 'affirm' and we are outcasts. It's hard to go be with people who seem so intent on destroying my son's future, our family, our future ... they don't seem to care - as long as they get their Christmas. This year we decided to begin the process of rebuild and create some new traditions. I couldn't go through another lonely and upsetting Christmas again. It will never be the same - but it doesn't have to be the end either.
Today I read the term "Big Harma" to describe Big Pharma.
So very true... but, hope springs eternal that one day they will realize the error of their ways and return to the ones that truly loved them all along... We must always leave room for the Prodigal Sons and Daughters to try again... It requires actual repentance, from their hearts as our hearts remain lovingly open. Like our Father does for each one of us... Blessings be upon you all.
The holidays are really difficult because my adult son who transitioned 6 years ago is very hateful towards his family so he chooses to be alone. I don’t see any sign of detransitioning in the future. I’ve lost hope.
I’m sorry for your losses - both your son and your hope. I’m there with you on the running out of hope. May we all find some peace this holiday season.
Maybe this holiday season will bring your son a message of peace and good will. May his heart repent.
Standing for the truth is painful sometimes, but the truth is bigger than any one of us, or our children and grandchildren. And we have to believe that eventually, the truth will and must prevail. It will only do so if there are souls brave enough to stand for it. You're one of those souls. I wish you peace and healing this Christmas. It sounds like you have the right attitude. Hugs to you.
This malignant movement hates no one so much as mothers--and alas, grandmothers now too.
Our bodies conceived of and grew their bodies inside us. Our bodies gave birth to these wayward children. We carry deep, instinctive knowledge about each one of them. This should be a comfort and a blessing to them--but this movement says that strangers are family, that evil is good, that harm is care, so of course we must be discarded too.
I sometimes consider affirming mothers and wonder: how can you be so alienated from your children and from the truth?
“Only God can heal it”-yes, and amen💜🙏💚
Thank you. This had been true until 3 years ago: "Christmas is a time when families come together. For just a day, maybe only part of a day, everyone sets aside their differences and focuses instead on what makes them a family."
This is my third solo Christmas. I hope and pray it is my last Christmas alone. May 2026 be a year of healing and reconnecting in my family but also for so many other families who read this PITT Substack and find themselves without a beloved child's presence in their lives during the holidays.
Wishing you peace. Enough of destroying ourselves, we breathe deeply
Peace on earth.
This will be Christmas no. 5 without my son who declared he was transgender in 2021 and refuses any contact with me. I sent a card wishing him peace, having no idea if he will even receive it. I pray and I wish him a Merry Christmas in my heart. His absence is palpable to me but so is all the joy and love from my other son and my extended family. Prayers for you. Merry Christmas!
I'm sorry for your loss. I've been cut off as well.