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Kris's avatar

But what do we do about it now? We need to do something, don't we? This made me feel dizzy reading it. We are all victims, and living with victims. The children deserve restitution, but we can't give them their innocence back. What can we do to show them they are not forgotten, and that we see what happened, and this won't happen to kids ever again?

Sweet Caroline's avatar

Your question sits in my soul. I need to connect the dots if it’s the last thing I do.

Obviously teachers but teaching colleges. Before that gender studies classes. This students now teach our kids.

Parallel to that but also intersecting (haha) would be social media influencers who make it their mission to find and groom the right kids. Through out a net see what they catch.

Med schools. Who is running the schools. The money the get $$$$$$ comes with strings attached from the creeps pushing this.

Indeed. Who wrote the F-ing script. And how did our kids become ZOMBIE followers????? It’s insane.

Un-silent's avatar

You are totally correct, this was all part of the plan, in fact, it was a complete "plandemic". If people cannot see the writing on the wall yet, I have no hope that they will ever wake up. Malevolent characters run this world and their currency is what we hold near and dear. Put on the armor of God and pray like you have never prayed before, we are in a battle, a battle for our souls and the souls of our children.

Anna Van Zee's avatar

I would strongly suggest that parents limit internet time, and become much more supervisory of what kids are engaged in when they are online, if that's possible. This "hours of gaming" thing is no bueno, for a multitude of reasons.

No, they won't like it. That's okay.

I'm sorry that it's too late for the covid era kids, whose childhoods were so negatively impacted. That whole snafu was so, so wrong.

Bonnie's avatar

You've described my son. He's highly intelligent, a straight-A student, introverted, sensitive, and had never had a girlfriend and loves video games. This started during covid. When I took him to the psych ward at our hospital I was told that I'm the problem and given some paperwork to educate myself. The notes told me to think about my gender and perhaps I'm not what I was born as. If I were to find out I'm not my original gender then my next steps were to become an activist.

The healthcare system isn't helping us at all.

I cried to my GP about this issue with my son and right away, he switched pronouns as we spoke. I said not to bother since it's just the two of us in the office but he said it's important to get the pronouns right for when we're with him/her etc.

GenderRealistMom's avatar

It sure IS important to get the pronouns right - and you used the right ones. I hope your son is doing better.

anpanman2's avatar

My trans daughter's friend (boyfriend? That is such a pre-trans era concept...) corrected me when I called my daughter "she". It should be be "they", he said. No it shouldn't, she changed her passport and now it says "male", so if he's going that route I should call her "he" - which this non-binary friend apparently cannot do himself - he is in love with her. I felt insulted and thought about why I felt so offended. The next time he corrects me I will agree to use imaginary pronouns: "him" for my daughter, "they" for him (the friend) and he should call me "they" as well, as I 100% fit the definition of non-binary: I refuse to stick to the stereotypes for feminine and masculine, I do what I like to do, I look the way I like to look and no gender bs will change that behaviour. I expect my reaction will confuse the poor guy: as a hetero female terf I'm not allowed to claim the "non-binary" identity. That is how it would feel, but actually hetero female non-binaries exist and there is lots of them, a whole generation maybe: the brave punk, new wave crowd that is now in their sixties. We were young in the eighties, depressed, had no future but at least we had gotten rid of gender stereotypes.

GenderRealistMom's avatar

The nerve of the boyfriend...

Vanessa's avatar

Agreed, sadly. It's almost like someone planned it that way.

Eleganta's avatar

Someone did.

Jennifer Bilek has followed the money: https://www.the11thhourblog.com/

Donna's avatar

It was happening a long long time before Covid. Covid was just when Liberal parents began paying attention and figured out that Conservatives weren't just conspiracy theorists.

Dee's avatar

There seem to be multiple avenues that are used to suck kids in and indoctrinate them. For many boys it’s online gaming communities, or porn. For many girls, Tumblr or TikTok. Both boys and girls may see content on YouTube, and for kids who are less online, GSA clubs in schools can play that role.

I certainly believe that there are multiple groups who have engineered this indoctrination intentionally. Some very wealthy men with autogynephilia seem to be the primary drivers who have funded the movement and spearheaded legal activity. In order to convince the world that they should be allowed to gratify their fetish in public and force everyone to participate, they need to convince everyone that it’s not a fetish and instead is an inborn characteristic. This requires the existence of trans kids and girls, so they’ve created propaganda and infiltrated communities where vulnerable kids hang out, and are using knowledge of human psychology to indoctrinate kids in order to support their “born this way” narrative.

The medical industry probably didn’t initiate it but obviously has a motive to support it.

People who advocate for population reduction or selective reproduction are also supportive. It’s unethical to practice eugenics but if you can convince autistic and/or socially awkward kids to voluntarily sterilize themselves you get the same effect.

And I really do believe that enemies of western nations have played a part. Anything they can do to make our young people weaker, less resilient, less productive, hating their own countries and cultures (this to me is the tell that this is coming from foreign influence), and less likely to reproduce allows them to bring down the west without ever needing to fire a shot.

Mom First's avatar

After viewing the state board of education guidelines on social transition which contains a list of definitions and the school must protect the trans child and not tell the parents, I traced that back to a state task force report which included the same definitions and verbiage.

You can find the list of definitions and “rules” to follow is school guidance well before Covid lockdowns began.

Lots for action items took place during school lockdowns just right before March of 2020 and then fully implemented in schools while they were locked down. I’ve even contemplated if Trans activists and those who could profit create the pandemic to trans all these children?

steph's avatar

My daughter told me just 2 weeks ago that it happened during covid as well. She said she never felt like she belonged with girls or boys and found videos during the lockdown talking about trangenderism and that she felt like that sounded like her so she put a label on and put herself into that box. It was sudden too. She never showed any signs of gender dysphoria until she went back to school after the plandemic, where conveniently all her friends decided they were trans/non binary

Mark Patrick's avatar

"yes, their child was addicted to video games". Yes

Eleganta's avatar

"yes, their child was addicted to video games."

This has been glaringly clear for years.

My husband and both I worked in the computer tech industry. We were on the Internet back in the 1980s, before the world-wide web, before weblogs, long before social media.

In fact, in 1996 I co-authored the first book on Internet use by children--Children and the Internet--which came with a p*rn-blocker disc. It was about how parents and teachers could used the Internet as an educational tool. It was NOT about putting a child in front of a computer and leaving them to it.

We knew the power hiding inside that massive unfiltered global network, where you're among not only friends and family and creativity and factual deep dives into amazing knowledge--but also the very, very worst dregs of society, the pedophiles and haters and groomers in dark back alleys just waiting for you or your child to come along.

And the hypnotic power of that flickering screen.

So our son had no contact with it at all until he was sixteen and went to high school and his friends stayed connected over the summer through Facebook. But even then, I signed up for Facebook (which I loathe) along with him, so I could keep track of what he was doing.

And of course we put a p*rn-blocker on his computer.

But still we told him to stay away from video games. We got him outdoors, bought him a bike, sent him to hang out with other high school kids who liked to wander our tiny village as a gang in search of adventure. Even during covid-19, you could run around outdoors with your friends as long as you took sensible precautions. He and his friends biked everywhere.

When the other kids asked why he didn't carry a phone, he made it sound cool.

He didn't ever spent daytime alone in his room. He spent it in an open family room that we allowed him to fill up with model trains and dismantled RC cars and filming equipment. You couldn't walk across that floor without stepping on teeny-tiny model train screws and couplers. They were embedded in the carpet, which deeply bugged me, but whatever. It was his space. But we were there. And he was not online.

When he turned 18, we reluctantly removed the p*rn-blocker from his computer and told him he was now an adult and free to go on the Internet but to please, please protect himself. The p*rnographers found him IMMEDIATELY. I mean IMMEDIATELY. Because they trawl for victims in all the online spaces where young males hang out. He wound up putting the p*rn-blocker back on himself.

Yes, he is highly intelligent, very sensitive, an introvert and loner. He too would have been groomed into this Trans cult, no question--regardless of our family closeness, our beliefs, even our knowledge of predatory adults.

He would have.

SO KEEP YOUR KIDS OFF THE INTERNET.

KEEP THEM OUT OF GAMING.

KEEP THEM IN THE REAL WORLD.

Keep them away from those very, very worst dregs of society, the pedophiles and haters and groomers in dark back alleys just waiting for your child to come along.

Sweet Caroline's avatar

Agree. Hard to do when schools require and push one to one computing. That wasn’t an accident bak in 2012 or so.

My big push is to get tech out of schools.

Also hard to do when the lockdowns (criminal) forced kids to school and socialize online. “They” knew better.

David Stafford's avatar

"From there, he joined the Fighting Game Community. As many of you already know, these spaces are overwhelmingly LGBTQ-dominated."

News to me....what gives?

Eleganta's avatar

P*rnographers trawl for victims in online spaces where young males are known to hang out.

Those spaces are not LGB-dominated.

They are p*rnography- and TQ-dominated. Because those lobbies are predatory lobbies aimed at vulnerable teens.

Mothers Grim's avatar

Everything is connected. The countless number of eerily similar anecdotal accounts are evidence that the machinations behind this are anything but natural. I have written many posts on my substack exposing these connections. This thing called 'gender' has morphed and migrated. If I had to pinpoint how it moved through society in stages I would start with the sex addled males (mostly middle aged) who began to 'transition' after MTF Christine Jorgensen returned from Europe as female imposter. The streets of major cities that had lively LGB cultures seem to be seeded with cross sex hormones. The L's of this lifestyle in the late 70s and 80s noticed it and many were vocal against it . From it we got FTMS like Louis Sullivan, Jamison Green, Buck Angel, Aiden Key; by the early 2000s Google and YouTube joined forces and influencers went mainstream; the spread migrated to younger and younger generations; this happened as the universities were brought on board to 'treat this new phenomenon (some like Stanford and UCLA were already involved); campuses became the dispensaries of cross sex hormones, young women returned from college with beards, young men in dresses with budding breasts.... the educational component for children went live by the early 2000s when anti-bullying campaigns agains for LGB began to morph into LGBT ... The infrastructure of NGOs, brick and mortar clinics already existed because the AIDS agenda had constructed the whole thing. It was already taken over by the medical complex before the T came on board. All while this was happening a legal structure was built and the insurance arm grew to include artificial reproductive technologies, etc. It ends at transhumanism.

I leave one post to consider on YouTube influencers. I looked at female influencers but there are male ones. Consider writing one. Sunlight is the best disinfectant as they say.

https://margox.substack.com/p/digital-footprints-and-the-rise-of?r=1kuq0

Eduardo Cabrera's avatar

Conspiracies exist. Conspiracy thinking is the tendency to interpret certain events as the product of a conspiracy. When a conspiracy cannot be or has not been verified, it may fall into one of these categories:

1. **Conspiracy theory**: an explanation of an event or situation that invokes a sinister plot by powerful groups.

2. **Speculation or hypothesis**: if the idea arises from a reasonable doubt but still lacks evidence, it remains in the realm of speculation (a conspiracy theorist will say, “this is a truth they are hiding from us”).

3. **Urban legend or modern myth**.

4. **Disinformation or propaganda** (Disinformation: created to confuse the public. Propaganda: used to demonize a political opponent or social group).

**How can a real conspiracy be distinguished from a “theory”?**

For a conspiracy to move from being a “theory” to becoming a historical fact (as in the case of the Watergate scandal or the MKUltra program), it must be supported by documents, witnesses, and physical evidence. It usually involves small groups.

**Important note:** The fact that a conspiracy has not been proven does not automatically mean it is false, but as long as verifiable evidence is lacking, it remains in the realm of belief rather than knowledge.

In my opinion, we cannot claim that the trans epidemic is the result of a conspiracy.

It is the outcome of a combination of factors, including:

1. The existence of adult male fetishists (autogynephilic)

2. Narcissistic and irresponsible doctors and researchers

3. Children dissatisfied with their sex and with the gender norms associated with it

4. A society driven primarily by profit

5. The emergence of the internet and social media

6. Ideological and tribal conflicts

There are undoubtedly many shared characteristics among children and adolescents affected by trans ideation. However, the phenomenon is analogous to previous social epidemics, such as eating disorders, Emo culture, or self-harm. Certain segments of the population are more sensitive, less resilient, and more susceptible to being drawn into social trends. A conspiracy is not necessary to explain what is happening, and focusing on that type of explanation is not helpful. What is useful is to truly “connect the dots.”

What really matters is understanding why and how the trans epidemic emerged. See, for example:

* [https://cabrerae.substack.com/p/i-am-responding-to-benjamin-ryan](https://cabrerae.substack.com/p/i-am-responding-to-benjamin-ryan)

* [https://cabrerae.substack.com/p/transgender-ideation](https://cabrerae.substack.com/p/transgender-ideation)

* [https://cabrerae.substack.com/p/a-brief-critique-of-affirmative-medicine](https://cabrerae.substack.com/p/a-brief-critique-of-affirmative-medicine)

and deepen our understanding of all aspects of this issue.

Ann's avatar

I agree also. My daughter was only 10 years old during the Covid Pandemic and that was the tine I first began to see the changes in her language, behavior, hairstyle, and clothing choices. It has been turmoil ever since.