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SciMom's avatar

What a perfect description of this phenomenon.

I completely agree with everything here, but this really stands out:

"This teen predictably adopts whatever was offered to them as the current acceptable counterculture: punk, goth, emo, Trans. Markets were created in all these instances, but the Trans counterculture is the first to concretize a temporary and trendy identity with extreme and irreversible body modifications. "

This is what makes "Trans" so scary. It could have been harmless adolescent experimentation - children trying out different masks, as you say. This sort of "kid stuff" stayed amongst the kids, and never extended to the adults in the room. But now, the adults are using it to virtue signal and further their own agendas and (of course) make billions of dollars. THIS is what harms young people.

A 13 year old girl saying she wants to (look/act like/be seen as) a boy isn't a problem.

An adult taking that girl, blocking her puberty, putting her on hormone injections, and removing her breasts in some impossible attempt to actually turn her into a boy? THAT IS A PROBLEM.

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Elizabeth Hummel's avatar

This is a great article, thank you for introducing us to this substack. It articulates well many thoughts I have had about the kind of kid who would be vulnerable to trans ideology. 40 years ago, I was one of those kids. Like Helena, I know I would have been sucked in. To you parents who are struggling with how to navigate this painful lose-lose landscape, here is a tiny story that I hope is inspiring.

I moved to Olympia, WA with my family when I was 12. It was a terrible time for a kid to move and I had a very difficult adolescence. Olympia was (still is) home to the infamous Evergreen State College, an experimental college which over the decades has birthed many a queer theorist and social justice warrior. Of course, counter-culture (hippie-punk) Elizabeth wanted to go to Evergreen. My mother refused. I was so angry! I cried and screamed and stomped. It was where I felt I belonged. I KNEW I belonged there! But I got over it and pretty much forgot about it. Yesterday I was visiting with my mother, who is now 93. After what I have learned about the dangers playing out from post-modern theories so incubated at Evergreen, I casually said to Mom: "Mom, thank you for not letting me to go Evergreen!" Mom got tears in her beautiful blue eyes. She told me how much she agonized over that refusal, how worried she was I would disengage from her since I was over 18. I threatened to do so, and considered it, but realized I needed their financial support to go to college. Of course, Mom knew nothing about queer theory which had yet to take over academia, but she had a mother's instinct that this subculture would not be the best for her impressionable, highly sensitive and awkward daughter. And she was right. I had no idea of how much she agonized about that until yesterday. It meant the world to her to hear me say that, to help her heal the pain she felt about it too. Hold that faith in your heart: some day, maybe when they are senior citizens themselves (!) your children may thank you for doing your best to protect them.

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