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Tom in Denver's avatar

Medicalization is the only real fear I have. My son does have some autistic traits. He wears the same clothes everyday, can't eat properly with a fork and is socially awkward. Thanks for the advice. It will not fall on deaf ears.

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KB77's avatar

A lot of good stuff in this thoughtful essay - thanks for providing it.

“You may think your main goal is to stop it, but I would say it’s to protect them. You can’t do that if they cut you off. “ Although this is true, we did not affirm our adult child’s new belief, just as we would not blindly join a cult or religion that our child joined. We found that acknowledgment of the new belief was not enough for her - we had to participate or else. We can’t protect her if we pretend to agree with her beliefs, either, and watch her do something she may come to regret later.

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