NO ONE has the "right" in a phase of delusion and search for "identity" to mutilate their own body and corrupt their metabolism. Taking cross-sex hormones, having surgeries to "change sex" is OUTRAGEOUSLY WRONG, a corruption of nature. Immoral. Indefensible. I will never, never, never endorse this for ANYONE, man, woman or child of ANY AGE. People of any age who seek these treatments are insane.
Very well written. Perfectly states what we feel. Our daughter is my husbands only child by birth and now history falsely shows he had a son. She at least kept his last name. That history is now officially distorted. You make a good point that not every citizen can just go create new documents without some form of accountability. Also, in this entire time warp of the gender nightmare, parents and extended family have never been a consideration. It’s been quite the opposite in that we, our stories, our memories, our history is rubbish to their “ideology.” The truth is now “their truth” and the Frankenstein body & history is just part of the lies and the mess.
Sadly, we parents who bucked the system and held a standard have had our children taken prisoner. Locked away from us in a false reality realm that has now taken precedence over reality. We do need to push through the trauma of it all & resist this, do all we can to stop it. How will we take back our identity as loving, caring parents/family? My other children are very hurt by this too, as are her grandparents. We love our children and our concerns are LEGITIMATE.
This cult is heavily funded by big pharma. I'm so sorry that your daughter followed the worst path. Ours recently desisted and I am greatful but I will continue to fight for all of us and sprak up. It's gone on far too long but we are fighting with powerful $$. But people are waking up, I just wish it was faster. ❤️
Thank you for writing this and bringing attention to yet another topic affecting families by this movement. Could not agree more with everything you said. I have a copy of my child's birth certificate and plan to hold on to that copy and my sanity.
I am not ok with this. Our experience with this is not related to trans ideology but foreign adoption during which we were handed an official birth certificate with our names as mother and father. This did not sit well with me then or now for the reasons you provided. It simply isn’t the truth. Because many (really all) foreign adopted children have special needs of some sort or were developmentally delayed, we were aware of parents who sought to change the year of the child’s birth to mask this delay or be placed in a lower grade that actual age would dictate. That voice in my head still says, “but this is not true”. Thank you for writing this and encouraging others to look for and reinforce the actual truth.
Trans movement isn't just about being open minded and inclusive. It is also a one-side slaughter of parents love and rights. The parental rights are being suppressed and bullied. The parents' loves are being kidnapped and parents are being held as hostage because their love to theirs children and they are afraid to be estranged by the kids. The kids owe their parents for everything and they won't exist if there are not their parents, nor grow up healthily. The kids should pay back first before they can claim their fair rights
My trans son (beautiful girl we named Lucy) returned home for Christmas at age 25 and the hate on her face was so clear, as she had to look at pictures of her as a child hanging on the wall, framed artwork she made as a teenager, and many photos with loving family members. The one word I would use is contempt - for me, for her dad, for her sister. It is a destructive ideology akin to Scientology, where if you don't use their exacting language, ideas, you're seen as a suppressive person and must be cut out. I am disgusted beyond belief at how our government treated the Cass report. And I grieve the loss of my daughter.
To the person spamming the comments about an open mind. When the treatment guidelines are written in part by child castration fetishists, my open mind says this treatment is absolutely crap.
We're old enough to remember what life was like before this religion of "gender angels" - that's from Dianne Ehrensaft who lectures the world over on "trans kids" now that her gig of pushing the satanic panic of recovered memories gig have ended.
We see the graphs of the rate of increase in Trans ID since basically the iPhone was launched. We know what our kids were like before they got caught up in this. Children are not mislabeled cans of food. There is no "gender soul" they are not "born in the wrong body" To be one's true self is not to spend a fortune on drugs and cosmetic surgeries which are extremely dangerous, it's accepting oneself.
Trans is a religion based on a belief system in the mystical "gendered" soul.
You sweet summer child, we've done our research, you haven't done yours. And no the left handed thing is total bull shit. Can you say social contagion? Just like Dianne's previous claim to fame, the Satanic Panic at the Presidio? We're sterilizing thousands of kids, and killing others in the name of "affirming" a mental illness delusion.
Prove with scientific evidence that suddenly in the last 15 years, that there's been a divine creation of mystical gendered souls.
Thank you for writing this. I honestly was unaware that the legal document of a birth certificate could be changed. After reading your post, I ordered a copy of my daughter's birth certificate, and the register of deeds called me because she was struggling to find it. Yes, the name and gender had been changed, and I am crushed again.
In response to PITTparent's comment, it is erasing the child's "lived experience" as well as the family's. The child was born and lived decades as their correct, biological gender. That person does exist. They have not changed their sex, only cosmetically altered their appearance and changed their name. Therefore, the record of the actual lived experience should remain truthful. They can use a different name on the driver's license and live today as they want, but the legal records should not be changed. We all, at times, wish we were someone different, but truthfully it is fraud to create false documents saying we are someone that we are not.
It doesn't stop with the birth certificate. It moves into destroying the photos one by one, shredding all documents with the birth name, etc. particularly when the keeper of the truth dies, and often before. The act of changing the birth certificate did not include asking me, the mom, or the mom that you left the comment for. There was no permission, no consent. This decision lacks basic courtesy and respect. It was done without consulting the parents named on that birth certificate. If no lines exist, no truth, no facts, what is left? Just a fictional narrative that changes as the gender identity flows. My daughter's identity has changed since she filed for the change and will probably continue to change.
A birth certificate is a statement of fact, issued by an official authority, attesting to the truthfulness of the facts. One cannot just change the facts later. It is not okay.
Since when did someone decide that a birth certificate could be changed at any time for any reason such as for wishes that change regularly? How many times can it be changed as the feelings flow from year to year? If historical fact was honored, there wouldn't be a mess, disrespect or a fictional narrative that only expresses feelings during the year of 2024. They weren't there for decades prior and might not be the same in the decades to come.
I’m thankful that I didn’t see the other comments. It’s surreal to me that anyone can think it makes sense to change a legal, historical document. Especially one that involves other people.
Especially when so many are trying to trace their ancestors and searching for such historical documents now.
Will we allow changing of the date and place? Maybe choose a different set of parents to seek an inheritance? Erase felony records? Historical legal documents are created not based on really strong desires, but to record the facts.
Sometimes when I read these stories on this site I have to ponder - is this really happening? Is the transgender ideology really being affirmed around the world? Are teachers, doctors, therapists, and counselors really hiding information from parents? Are surgeons really performing these radical surgeries to healthy human beings? Are cross-sex hormones really being handed out like candy to anyone who wants to become the opposite sex? And now THIS - legally being able to change the sex on a birth certificate! It all seems too far-fetched for it to be true, but sadly it is all true. How did we get here as a society? How did this evil cult gain such momentum and trick adults and children into playing this dangerous pretend game? Having grown an actual human being inside of my body 33 years ago, giving birth to a beautiful daughter and falling in love with her tiny hands and toes... I cannot even imagine someone, anyone allowing her to change her sex (if she wanted to) on her birth certificate! My daughter's birth certificate from 33 years ago is a legal document (witnessed by the doctor that delivered her and declared her to be a female) was used to obtain a social security card, to enroll her in school, to obtain a passport, to obtain her driver's permit and then license. Thinking of all of the forms she has filled out over the last 33 years on job applications, on apartment leases, for college, on insurance forms, for student loans, when she had her gall bladder surgery that ALL asked for her "sex" and she marked "female" - how can our society just erase all of that? I am grateful that my daughter never got caught up in the trans-lies, but if she had, and then changed her birth certificate to the opposite sex would have broken my heart. Lies. All lies. I am sad that your daughter chose to erase her history - it is not fair and should not be allowed to happen.
I don't get why they call it "gender affirmation", to affirm means to assert to to be true. If they were affirming gender then they would go by the chromosomes which don't lie. All of this doublespeak and these word games they play are ridiculous in themselves. Truth will always be truth, they will never change that fact. No matter how many fake birth certificates they make or words they change, the truth will always be the truth. The devil (the father of lies) wants to destroy you, he wants you sad, depressed, defeated, and angry because it feeds him. Give it to the Lord, and He will see you through.
It’s a narcissistic selfish ideology that places the person at the center of a surreal universe. They care not who they harm through their own determination to harm themselves. This not a bug of this ideology. It’s a feature. It aims to destroy as much of family, society, and tradition as possible. If there is no objective reality and no shared experiences then we lose our communities and society to the post modernist mob.
YES! I was having this very same inner dialogue. We were not informed that our son petitioned the courts to change his name and gender. Though it has to be published somehow prior to the change for the purpose of objections; oddly enough we have to be aware these actions are occurring to object. Instead we are blindsided after the fact. Which brings me to my heartbreaking query-Are we as the birth parents even listed on this official record?! Do we even exist? I had to ask on our son’s birthday the first year after this approved lunacy if he in fact has the same birthday and if it’s celebrated or is there a new birthday which aligns with the official date of said new official record. I had to stifle my amusement when he says of course his birthday is the same. Oh the irony. There is still not a day I don’t want to fall apart. They call it deadname but for me it’s a daily wounding reminder of a murder/suicide of my once happy full of life hilarious son. And I am supposed to just accept this “alternate reality” joyously. Well guess what. My reality is far different. I am called transphobic, bigoted, and that my having feelings is not allowed to challenge their reality based on their feelings. I’m just so over it and want my son back.
I CRIED like a baby as I read this article. Thank you. The supporters of TRANS and all the other people around me have NO CLUE what I am going thru and they minimize it... they either say "live and let live" or else they are oblivious that this is SATAN coming to devour ALL our children! This is my world too! 😭 My 24yearold beautiful daughter has been brainwashed by this CULT and now she barely talks to me (and threatens to cut me off) because I will not "be happy" that she is destroying her beautiful girl body and her hair and her voice and her future health. And she wants me to FORGET she was my ONLY baby GIRL and a very GIRLY girl all her growing up years. I am supposed to DENY all of that and BE HAPPY for her. God, please help me... please help all of us... PLEASE GOD, GIVE US PEACE AND HOPE. 🙏🙏🙏
I agree with you. Satan has invaded my daughter’s world; I’ve never prayed so much in my whole life. I’m a very religious person and I pray a lot now more than ever - since learning of my kid’s GD. This IS a cult and a social contagion, I believe.
NO ONE has the "right" in a phase of delusion and search for "identity" to mutilate their own body and corrupt their metabolism. Taking cross-sex hormones, having surgeries to "change sex" is OUTRAGEOUSLY WRONG, a corruption of nature. Immoral. Indefensible. I will never, never, never endorse this for ANYONE, man, woman or child of ANY AGE. People of any age who seek these treatments are insane.
Very well written. Perfectly states what we feel. Our daughter is my husbands only child by birth and now history falsely shows he had a son. She at least kept his last name. That history is now officially distorted. You make a good point that not every citizen can just go create new documents without some form of accountability. Also, in this entire time warp of the gender nightmare, parents and extended family have never been a consideration. It’s been quite the opposite in that we, our stories, our memories, our history is rubbish to their “ideology.” The truth is now “their truth” and the Frankenstein body & history is just part of the lies and the mess.
Sadly, we parents who bucked the system and held a standard have had our children taken prisoner. Locked away from us in a false reality realm that has now taken precedence over reality. We do need to push through the trauma of it all & resist this, do all we can to stop it. How will we take back our identity as loving, caring parents/family? My other children are very hurt by this too, as are her grandparents. We love our children and our concerns are LEGITIMATE.
This cult is heavily funded by big pharma. I'm so sorry that your daughter followed the worst path. Ours recently desisted and I am greatful but I will continue to fight for all of us and sprak up. It's gone on far too long but we are fighting with powerful $$. But people are waking up, I just wish it was faster. ❤️
I agree, it’s absurd and it’s heartbreaking because my daughter did likewise.
I’m just praying for the hypnosis/media spirit to come off of her in Jesus name amen. God has beautifully and wonderfully made her a girl not a boy.
Thank you for writing this and bringing attention to yet another topic affecting families by this movement. Could not agree more with everything you said. I have a copy of my child's birth certificate and plan to hold on to that copy and my sanity.
I am not ok with this. Our experience with this is not related to trans ideology but foreign adoption during which we were handed an official birth certificate with our names as mother and father. This did not sit well with me then or now for the reasons you provided. It simply isn’t the truth. Because many (really all) foreign adopted children have special needs of some sort or were developmentally delayed, we were aware of parents who sought to change the year of the child’s birth to mask this delay or be placed in a lower grade that actual age would dictate. That voice in my head still says, “but this is not true”. Thank you for writing this and encouraging others to look for and reinforce the actual truth.
I identity as George Clooney. I want to change my birth certificate. Wait maybe I'm Mary Queen of Scotts, gotta change it again.
Trans movement isn't just about being open minded and inclusive. It is also a one-side slaughter of parents love and rights. The parental rights are being suppressed and bullied. The parents' loves are being kidnapped and parents are being held as hostage because their love to theirs children and they are afraid to be estranged by the kids. The kids owe their parents for everything and they won't exist if there are not their parents, nor grow up healthily. The kids should pay back first before they can claim their fair rights
My trans son (beautiful girl we named Lucy) returned home for Christmas at age 25 and the hate on her face was so clear, as she had to look at pictures of her as a child hanging on the wall, framed artwork she made as a teenager, and many photos with loving family members. The one word I would use is contempt - for me, for her dad, for her sister. It is a destructive ideology akin to Scientology, where if you don't use their exacting language, ideas, you're seen as a suppressive person and must be cut out. I am disgusted beyond belief at how our government treated the Cass report. And I grieve the loss of my daughter.
To the person spamming the comments about an open mind. When the treatment guidelines are written in part by child castration fetishists, my open mind says this treatment is absolutely crap.
https://reduxx.info/exclusive-dutch-pro-pedophile-academic-worked-with-leading-transgender-medical-authority/
https://reduxx.info/exclusive-california-gender-academic-inspired-pedophilic-fantasy-on-castrating-enslaving-young-boys/
These are the pedos proclaimed experts. Anyone who listens to them is a damn fool
We're old enough to remember what life was like before this religion of "gender angels" - that's from Dianne Ehrensaft who lectures the world over on "trans kids" now that her gig of pushing the satanic panic of recovered memories gig have ended.
We see the graphs of the rate of increase in Trans ID since basically the iPhone was launched. We know what our kids were like before they got caught up in this. Children are not mislabeled cans of food. There is no "gender soul" they are not "born in the wrong body" To be one's true self is not to spend a fortune on drugs and cosmetic surgeries which are extremely dangerous, it's accepting oneself.
Trans is a religion based on a belief system in the mystical "gendered" soul.
You sweet summer child, we've done our research, you haven't done yours. And no the left handed thing is total bull shit. Can you say social contagion? Just like Dianne's previous claim to fame, the Satanic Panic at the Presidio? We're sterilizing thousands of kids, and killing others in the name of "affirming" a mental illness delusion.
Prove with scientific evidence that suddenly in the last 15 years, that there's been a divine creation of mystical gendered souls.
I'm not the one with the "gender angel" belief selling puberty blockers. So why do you want kids to never grow up then?
Thank you for writing this. I honestly was unaware that the legal document of a birth certificate could be changed. After reading your post, I ordered a copy of my daughter's birth certificate, and the register of deeds called me because she was struggling to find it. Yes, the name and gender had been changed, and I am crushed again.
In response to PITTparent's comment, it is erasing the child's "lived experience" as well as the family's. The child was born and lived decades as their correct, biological gender. That person does exist. They have not changed their sex, only cosmetically altered their appearance and changed their name. Therefore, the record of the actual lived experience should remain truthful. They can use a different name on the driver's license and live today as they want, but the legal records should not be changed. We all, at times, wish we were someone different, but truthfully it is fraud to create false documents saying we are someone that we are not.
It doesn't stop with the birth certificate. It moves into destroying the photos one by one, shredding all documents with the birth name, etc. particularly when the keeper of the truth dies, and often before. The act of changing the birth certificate did not include asking me, the mom, or the mom that you left the comment for. There was no permission, no consent. This decision lacks basic courtesy and respect. It was done without consulting the parents named on that birth certificate. If no lines exist, no truth, no facts, what is left? Just a fictional narrative that changes as the gender identity flows. My daughter's identity has changed since she filed for the change and will probably continue to change.
A birth certificate is a statement of fact, issued by an official authority, attesting to the truthfulness of the facts. One cannot just change the facts later. It is not okay.
Since when did someone decide that a birth certificate could be changed at any time for any reason such as for wishes that change regularly? How many times can it be changed as the feelings flow from year to year? If historical fact was honored, there wouldn't be a mess, disrespect or a fictional narrative that only expresses feelings during the year of 2024. They weren't there for decades prior and might not be the same in the decades to come.
One bright spot in this was the employee at the Registrar’s office agreed with me.
I’ve gained courage from this group to finally speak up and humbly let people know what is happening. She was very compassionate and totally agreed.
I’m thankful that I didn’t see the other comments. It’s surreal to me that anyone can think it makes sense to change a legal, historical document. Especially one that involves other people.
Especially when so many are trying to trace their ancestors and searching for such historical documents now.
Will we allow changing of the date and place? Maybe choose a different set of parents to seek an inheritance? Erase felony records? Historical legal documents are created not based on really strong desires, but to record the facts.
Sometimes when I read these stories on this site I have to ponder - is this really happening? Is the transgender ideology really being affirmed around the world? Are teachers, doctors, therapists, and counselors really hiding information from parents? Are surgeons really performing these radical surgeries to healthy human beings? Are cross-sex hormones really being handed out like candy to anyone who wants to become the opposite sex? And now THIS - legally being able to change the sex on a birth certificate! It all seems too far-fetched for it to be true, but sadly it is all true. How did we get here as a society? How did this evil cult gain such momentum and trick adults and children into playing this dangerous pretend game? Having grown an actual human being inside of my body 33 years ago, giving birth to a beautiful daughter and falling in love with her tiny hands and toes... I cannot even imagine someone, anyone allowing her to change her sex (if she wanted to) on her birth certificate! My daughter's birth certificate from 33 years ago is a legal document (witnessed by the doctor that delivered her and declared her to be a female) was used to obtain a social security card, to enroll her in school, to obtain a passport, to obtain her driver's permit and then license. Thinking of all of the forms she has filled out over the last 33 years on job applications, on apartment leases, for college, on insurance forms, for student loans, when she had her gall bladder surgery that ALL asked for her "sex" and she marked "female" - how can our society just erase all of that? I am grateful that my daughter never got caught up in the trans-lies, but if she had, and then changed her birth certificate to the opposite sex would have broken my heart. Lies. All lies. I am sad that your daughter chose to erase her history - it is not fair and should not be allowed to happen.
I don't get why they call it "gender affirmation", to affirm means to assert to to be true. If they were affirming gender then they would go by the chromosomes which don't lie. All of this doublespeak and these word games they play are ridiculous in themselves. Truth will always be truth, they will never change that fact. No matter how many fake birth certificates they make or words they change, the truth will always be the truth. The devil (the father of lies) wants to destroy you, he wants you sad, depressed, defeated, and angry because it feeds him. Give it to the Lord, and He will see you through.
It’s a narcissistic selfish ideology that places the person at the center of a surreal universe. They care not who they harm through their own determination to harm themselves. This not a bug of this ideology. It’s a feature. It aims to destroy as much of family, society, and tradition as possible. If there is no objective reality and no shared experiences then we lose our communities and society to the post modernist mob.
YES! I was having this very same inner dialogue. We were not informed that our son petitioned the courts to change his name and gender. Though it has to be published somehow prior to the change for the purpose of objections; oddly enough we have to be aware these actions are occurring to object. Instead we are blindsided after the fact. Which brings me to my heartbreaking query-Are we as the birth parents even listed on this official record?! Do we even exist? I had to ask on our son’s birthday the first year after this approved lunacy if he in fact has the same birthday and if it’s celebrated or is there a new birthday which aligns with the official date of said new official record. I had to stifle my amusement when he says of course his birthday is the same. Oh the irony. There is still not a day I don’t want to fall apart. They call it deadname but for me it’s a daily wounding reminder of a murder/suicide of my once happy full of life hilarious son. And I am supposed to just accept this “alternate reality” joyously. Well guess what. My reality is far different. I am called transphobic, bigoted, and that my having feelings is not allowed to challenge their reality based on their feelings. I’m just so over it and want my son back.
I CRIED like a baby as I read this article. Thank you. The supporters of TRANS and all the other people around me have NO CLUE what I am going thru and they minimize it... they either say "live and let live" or else they are oblivious that this is SATAN coming to devour ALL our children! This is my world too! 😭 My 24yearold beautiful daughter has been brainwashed by this CULT and now she barely talks to me (and threatens to cut me off) because I will not "be happy" that she is destroying her beautiful girl body and her hair and her voice and her future health. And she wants me to FORGET she was my ONLY baby GIRL and a very GIRLY girl all her growing up years. I am supposed to DENY all of that and BE HAPPY for her. God, please help me... please help all of us... PLEASE GOD, GIVE US PEACE AND HOPE. 🙏🙏🙏
I agree with you. Satan has invaded my daughter’s world; I’ve never prayed so much in my whole life. I’m a very religious person and I pray a lot now more than ever - since learning of my kid’s GD. This IS a cult and a social contagion, I believe.
God bless us all🙏