This isnt a normal estrangement as well. Ones who are sane are watching the selfdistruction of the insane while being blamed to be insane themselves by those who were supposed to help.
I'm glad, to hear about "dehumanising". This is exact my thought as well. This isnt a normal estrangement based on mutial difficulties. All based on lies through brainwashing. This prevents the childreen from beeing sorry for us. No pity, no mercy.
Thank you for expressing my thoughts. I’m so tired of therapists who are trying to help not give thoughtful consideration to our predicament. It used to be “good enough” parenting would be fine. Attunement to our children. I’m tired of therapists hawking Gabor Matè - attachment parenting. There is nothing useful there. Don’t tell me to get on with my life - I have but every moment except a few have thoughts of my lost sons.
I think the only thing we can really do is group together and come up with ideas on our own. Culture got here because of sexologists, TRAS, bad therapy hawking ideas for likes and $$, SM and govt.
My heart goes out to all of the parents and families whose lives have been destroyed by the evilness of the transgender cult and all the people promoting it.
Amen! When my son first declared himself to be trans, I wanted to get him help in understanding why he felt so uncomfortable in his own body (or perhaps uncomfortable with same sex attraction). In my ignorance, I contacted a gender medicine clinic thinking they would have the expertise to help a young man on the spectrum who had been bullied for years for being perceived as gay. Exploration as opposed to immediate affirmation. The only thing immediately affirmed in that phone call was my being a transphobic monster. The more I looked for help, the more it became clear the majority of the mental health profession had been co-opted by trans ideology madness.
I know a lot of our young people have been badly affected by social circumstances - the covid pandemic, the social media storm that has made appearance and influence more important than real world concerns, a fractured uncertain world where chances for good jobs and education are declining, but maybe “estrangement experts” should be helping them grow up and deal with reality instead of telling us estranged families to cater to the victim mentality our young people are embracing so fiercely as they destroy their own bodies.
I know there are still good mental health professionals out there, but any “estrangement expert” who cannot acknowledge the devastation wreaked upon the families left behind - that expert is not worth my time.
Excellent article. Reading the responses I am reminded of the PFLAG Trans Support Group my husband and I attended on the heels of our daughter's announcement that she was starting testosterone. I also remember the restaurant, town (as we were traveling) and time she told us. The parent running the group said, after I expressed doubts and concerns for our daughter taking hormones, told me I couldn't feel that way, I just needed to accept it. I didn't know much at that early point but I knew the basics...feelings are never wrong, behavior can be but not feelings. We never went back. I do have a good, longstanding therapist as well as attendance in two groups-Genspect and 12 step and Stoic Mom's for support. I still have really hard days. I know now that I need my own rescue because, despite heroic efforts, our adult daughter has chosen the path of needing to rescue herself.
I'm in aftershock. Your article kept getting stronger. The ending was powerful:
"Fooling themselves that there is a therapeutic solution to ideological estrangement"
"... to the doctors, teachers, and therapists... to politicians and glitter families... to WPATH... to the Democrats... to the CEOs of Instagram, TikTok, Snapchat YouTube, and Discord. Take the weapons of indoctrination and mutilation out of their diabolical and depraved hands and advise them all- 5 times, 10 times, 10,000 times- to stop destroying our children and families."
We are going to have to accept that we live in a degenerate culture that has become genuinely evil extremely rapidly. We were not prepared for this. And now we need to fight it - financially. We need to bankrupt them all
Needed this today...as daughter's search history of 'narcisistic parents/mothers' popping up in our youtube. As a caring and loving parent who did their best for our undiagnosed autistic daughter, my first response is to examine what I did wrong. My second response was 'no' I am not doing that and instead understand the drivers leading my daughter to find answers for her continued unhappiness and being led by online algorithyms and unhelpful glitter family/friend.
This tsunami reminds me of our parents generation who were taken off guard by the 1960s sexual revolution (which was preceded by social influencers, many of whom created pseudoscience producing falsified data published in papers and books to support their pedophilia, fetishes and feelings).
1) dehumanizing people, we are animals, we have evolved from another species
2) the notion that children are ‘sexual’ from birth
3) we have no control over our desires and behaviors
4) sexual activity is completely separate from producing children.
5) you are only human and deserving of life if you are wanted (in that moment and time.)
6) ethics is a personal choice not an objective reality
So now we have euthanasia being passed in many states and countries as compassion.
We abort children in the name of compassion and have many pressured, coerced and forced abortions.
Our water supply is polluted with hormone disrupting chemicals and synthetic hormones which are not filtered out of the water supply for the rest of the population.
We have so-called comprehensive sex ed taught to youth which states that anything goes as long as it feels good to you, just make sure you pop pills and use condoms (sex with adults, sex in groups, sadistic behavior, non-relationship sex, encouraging sex without divulging your HIV status). In the Trans+ book you will see in the forward that the authors say, we are like ‘gods’.
"If you have five very important things to say, let them be said to the doctors, teachers, and therapists. Say them to politicians and glitter families. Say them to WPATH. Say them to the Democrats. Say them to the CEOs of Instagram, TikTok, Snapchat YouTube, and Discord. Take the weapons of indoctrination and mutilation out of their diabolical and depraved hands and advise them all- 5 times, 10 times, 10,000 times- to stop destroying our children and families."
Love it!. THIS is my experience. When it all went down for us -out of the blue, away at college - we pursued many avenues. The money invested went to those who were clueless, rude, unhelpful, finger pointed. And they were 'experts.' Experts in psychology and experts in cults who gave wretched advice. One (or more) believed in gender identity, informed me not to make parallels to the homosexual issue (you don't get to T without LGB), to go to dinner with my husband. Our daughter's breasts were gone within months. LGBTQ+ Inc is a science and technology cult and our children's bodies and used for the cause. Dinner?
I was told by the first "therapist" I saw, 10 years ago, that I should just go out and get my nails done to relax!. As if losing my 15 year old son to this horrible ideology is equivalent to getting a manicure. That's what these assholes think about parents.
WOW! What a horrific experience! I know a lady who was charged £900 for the privilege of being told to mutilate her daughter’s breasts. She sent her packing.
Yes and I already despised the psych industry for what it had done to others I know. This was our daughter and I felt like I had to speak these 'experts' in an attempt to understand what was happening. Most of even the critical ones are captured in some way. Lesson learned.
The harm of trans insanity never ends.
"Appealing to the humanity of a brainwashed child who has long ago dehumanized them." This does not get mentioned enough.
This isnt a normal estrangement as well. Ones who are sane are watching the selfdistruction of the insane while being blamed to be insane themselves by those who were supposed to help.
I'm glad, to hear about "dehumanising". This is exact my thought as well. This isnt a normal estrangement based on mutial difficulties. All based on lies through brainwashing. This prevents the childreen from beeing sorry for us. No pity, no mercy.
Thank you for expressing my thoughts. I’m so tired of therapists who are trying to help not give thoughtful consideration to our predicament. It used to be “good enough” parenting would be fine. Attunement to our children. I’m tired of therapists hawking Gabor Matè - attachment parenting. There is nothing useful there. Don’t tell me to get on with my life - I have but every moment except a few have thoughts of my lost sons.
I think the only thing we can really do is group together and come up with ideas on our own. Culture got here because of sexologists, TRAS, bad therapy hawking ideas for likes and $$, SM and govt.
My heart goes out to all of the parents and families whose lives have been destroyed by the evilness of the transgender cult and all the people promoting it.
Thank you
Amen! When my son first declared himself to be trans, I wanted to get him help in understanding why he felt so uncomfortable in his own body (or perhaps uncomfortable with same sex attraction). In my ignorance, I contacted a gender medicine clinic thinking they would have the expertise to help a young man on the spectrum who had been bullied for years for being perceived as gay. Exploration as opposed to immediate affirmation. The only thing immediately affirmed in that phone call was my being a transphobic monster. The more I looked for help, the more it became clear the majority of the mental health profession had been co-opted by trans ideology madness.
I know a lot of our young people have been badly affected by social circumstances - the covid pandemic, the social media storm that has made appearance and influence more important than real world concerns, a fractured uncertain world where chances for good jobs and education are declining, but maybe “estrangement experts” should be helping them grow up and deal with reality instead of telling us estranged families to cater to the victim mentality our young people are embracing so fiercely as they destroy their own bodies.
I know there are still good mental health professionals out there, but any “estrangement expert” who cannot acknowledge the devastation wreaked upon the families left behind - that expert is not worth my time.
Excellent article. Reading the responses I am reminded of the PFLAG Trans Support Group my husband and I attended on the heels of our daughter's announcement that she was starting testosterone. I also remember the restaurant, town (as we were traveling) and time she told us. The parent running the group said, after I expressed doubts and concerns for our daughter taking hormones, told me I couldn't feel that way, I just needed to accept it. I didn't know much at that early point but I knew the basics...feelings are never wrong, behavior can be but not feelings. We never went back. I do have a good, longstanding therapist as well as attendance in two groups-Genspect and 12 step and Stoic Mom's for support. I still have really hard days. I know now that I need my own rescue because, despite heroic efforts, our adult daughter has chosen the path of needing to rescue herself.
I'm in aftershock. Your article kept getting stronger. The ending was powerful:
"Fooling themselves that there is a therapeutic solution to ideological estrangement"
"... to the doctors, teachers, and therapists... to politicians and glitter families... to WPATH... to the Democrats... to the CEOs of Instagram, TikTok, Snapchat YouTube, and Discord. Take the weapons of indoctrination and mutilation out of their diabolical and depraved hands and advise them all- 5 times, 10 times, 10,000 times- to stop destroying our children and families."
We are going to have to accept that we live in a degenerate culture that has become genuinely evil extremely rapidly. We were not prepared for this. And now we need to fight it - financially. We need to bankrupt them all
Needed this today...as daughter's search history of 'narcisistic parents/mothers' popping up in our youtube. As a caring and loving parent who did their best for our undiagnosed autistic daughter, my first response is to examine what I did wrong. My second response was 'no' I am not doing that and instead understand the drivers leading my daughter to find answers for her continued unhappiness and being led by online algorithyms and unhelpful glitter family/friend.
This tsunami reminds me of our parents generation who were taken off guard by the 1960s sexual revolution (which was preceded by social influencers, many of whom created pseudoscience producing falsified data published in papers and books to support their pedophilia, fetishes and feelings).
1) dehumanizing people, we are animals, we have evolved from another species
2) the notion that children are ‘sexual’ from birth
3) we have no control over our desires and behaviors
4) sexual activity is completely separate from producing children.
5) you are only human and deserving of life if you are wanted (in that moment and time.)
6) ethics is a personal choice not an objective reality
So now we have euthanasia being passed in many states and countries as compassion.
We abort children in the name of compassion and have many pressured, coerced and forced abortions.
Our water supply is polluted with hormone disrupting chemicals and synthetic hormones which are not filtered out of the water supply for the rest of the population.
We have so-called comprehensive sex ed taught to youth which states that anything goes as long as it feels good to you, just make sure you pop pills and use condoms (sex with adults, sex in groups, sadistic behavior, non-relationship sex, encouraging sex without divulging your HIV status). In the Trans+ book you will see in the forward that the authors say, we are like ‘gods’.
"If you have five very important things to say, let them be said to the doctors, teachers, and therapists. Say them to politicians and glitter families. Say them to WPATH. Say them to the Democrats. Say them to the CEOs of Instagram, TikTok, Snapchat YouTube, and Discord. Take the weapons of indoctrination and mutilation out of their diabolical and depraved hands and advise them all- 5 times, 10 times, 10,000 times- to stop destroying our children and families."
1000% !!!!!!!!!!
Thank you for writing this
Yes, yes and yes. Best thing ever written on the subject ❤️
100% the most accurate description of our lives. I'll remember this tonight when I am up at 2 in the morning: I can't blame myself for the earthquake.
Love it!. THIS is my experience. When it all went down for us -out of the blue, away at college - we pursued many avenues. The money invested went to those who were clueless, rude, unhelpful, finger pointed. And they were 'experts.' Experts in psychology and experts in cults who gave wretched advice. One (or more) believed in gender identity, informed me not to make parallels to the homosexual issue (you don't get to T without LGB), to go to dinner with my husband. Our daughter's breasts were gone within months. LGBTQ+ Inc is a science and technology cult and our children's bodies and used for the cause. Dinner?
I was told by the first "therapist" I saw, 10 years ago, that I should just go out and get my nails done to relax!. As if losing my 15 year old son to this horrible ideology is equivalent to getting a manicure. That's what these assholes think about parents.
"LGBTQ+ Inc is a science and technology cult and our children's bodies and used for the cause. Dinner?" Spot on.
When we were first hit by the earthquake out of nowhere we went to someone - I recall being asked what I was going to do with the rest of my life?
'Uh, fight this ("trans" ideology, drugs, and mutilation), of course, (you jerk).'
WOW! What a horrific experience! I know a lady who was charged £900 for the privilege of being told to mutilate her daughter’s breasts. She sent her packing.
Yes and I already despised the psych industry for what it had done to others I know. This was our daughter and I felt like I had to speak these 'experts' in an attempt to understand what was happening. Most of even the critical ones are captured in some way. Lesson learned.
Thank you! I needed this reminder.