. Told my now adult child who is still I believe persisting and going through hormone treatment that I don't think is helpful to him. That when I was in high school there were times I wished I was a girl because girls at least got treated nice by the guys cuz some of them will be interested in them . They didn't seem to be bullied publicly like I was bullied or ostracized because of how short I was. I know I flaunted with the idea that if I was a girl I would have been the top Athlete on a particular team at my school. And I wrestled with that idea. But here's the thing I was able to recognize that I wasn't born a girl I was in fact male, and on top of that it wasn't that I was actually questioning gender at all but I was questioning the world that was extremely hostile to me as a outsider, Who not by choice was often a loner, and trying to figure out how to fit in in a culture that seems to just hate me. I think in the middle of all this I have not heard very people talk about how Society often sends messages that make young people think they need to be X or Y when that's not a true for everybody. How I wish my adult progeny would realize this and stop hurting himself because it makes me cry.
❤️ thank you so much for sharing this and great work!
Please know some of us like your parents also saw there was something else… something wasn’t right. Please know I’m trying to speak out where ever I can. I’m sorry so many adults failed you, I’m so happy to see you write and get that out. I’d like to scream it out loud for the world to hear.
If you haven’t already seen this series of posts by Wesley Yang on X they are among the most informative that I have seen on this vital issue:
1/29/2025
“There are no "anti-trans extremists."
“There is a political party and professional apparatus that put male rapists and murderers in women's prisons, propagandized kindergartners that any of them could change sex, forced taxpayers and insurance customers to fund electrolysis and facial feminization surgeries, put any boy or man who claimed to be female into changing rooms with your daughters, forced you to declare the gender identity of your toddler at the doctor's office, deceived parents about the social transition of their children at school, banned psychological exploration of the mental health comorbidities that manifest as trans-ideation in the midst of an online social contagion generating 5000 percent increases in trans identification among youth, fined all-female nude spas run by immigrants for excluding men with penises who claimed to be women for violating the human rights of those men, imposed men on the athletic playing fields with your daughters, told thousands of parents to submit to the chemical castration of their children to avert imminent suicide risk for which no evidence has ever existed, subjected thousands of children to macabre sex changes procedures while lying about the existence of an evidence base where none ever existed while claiming on the basis of no evidence that the procedures were life-saving, investigated parents who refused to put their children on a pipeline to a lifetime of medicalized self-harm by pretending they had changed sex and sought to seize custody of them, and threatened to unperson you, attack your livelihood and leave you ostracized if you resisted it in any way with the aid of the monopolistic tech platforms that control the circulation of speech and money around the globe in a new surveillance and censorship regime that sought to dismantle biological reality in the name of narcissistic fantasies that it intended to entrench as the only truth while corrupting the truth-seeking apparatus of science itself -- and there is a majority of normal people in both parties who oppose this nonsense and want it stopped.”
6/20/2025
“Transgenderism must revert to being a form of private eccentricity. Recognition as one's preferred gender can be privately negotiated but with no coercion by any entity private or public. We all have an absolute right to affirm or not affirm, believe or not believe, that gender identity exists, that no one can infringe.
Sex segregated spaces and activities remain segregated by sex, not "gender identity."
Adults are free to inflict bodily self-harm on themselves in pursuit of an appearance they like but outside of any pretense of a medical protocol -- these are cosmetic procedures that come with no promises to relieve dysphoria or unlock an authentic self and the cost is borne solely by the person seeking them. Any such promises constitute consumer fraud. Children are of course unable to consent to such procedures.
The state has no role in affirming any aspect of cross-gender ideation, avoids proselytizing to children in schools or to anyone else in any interface it has with the public. The person who has inflicted bodily self-harm on his sex traits is no more a distinct class of person to whom special privileges or protections can be conferred than a person who has covered his face in tattoos. The person who believes with all his heart that he is a woman at heart and would die if others don't recognize him as such imposes no duty on any other person to share in that belief or to pretend to share in it. That person must develop resiliency about living in a pluralistic, liberal, democratic society where every person has a right to belief and a corollary right to unbelief that no one may legitimately infringe.
Any and all deviations from this resolution are morally illegitimate and practically untenable.
The attempt to turn a private eccentricity into a social cause that justified the remaking of society was a ghastly and destructive mistake. It was made inevitable by certain facets of the culture and certain aspects of our politics. We must learn the lesson that experience has now taught us.”
My understanding is that Obamacare included changes to HIPAA authorizing coverage for dependents up to 26 yrs old (& older in some circumstances). It also made certain pharmaceuticals (psychiatric, hormonal, gender-affirming, etc.) private for dependents 18+. Many of the young people swept up in this transgender craze are also on psychiatric medications which can be very expensive. Unfortunately, the parents who are paying for this insurance coverage cannot access relevant information unless their dependent opts in for family sharing.
What a wonderful testimony of returning to reality and self-acceptance. Thank you so very much for sharing your life with us. Please keep writing, your voice is being heard, and it is lovely. You are so important to your family and to the world. Wishing you all the very best and praying for you! Love, Indio
Who would not want to become one of the group with more power, respect, money, and be safer? Even someone as rich and loved and worshipped as Michael Jackson kept trying to make himself look like the race who has power over his people. What if there was no racism or sexism? What if girls really had equal rights and were not caricatured and pornified in the media and in constant danger of assault? How many would get sucked into the trans cult?
The pharmaceutical companies get ONE LESS girl sacrificed on their "trans" mutilation altar because your parents didn't go for it and they were able to protect you.
Enjoy that healthy body, Woman!
Loved this regarding the fakeness of all that "happiness" of the ones who fall for it:
"They seemed a lot happier,
Or at least that’s what they showed to me".
And loved how you encourage people to SPEAK OUT. That's what I am doing in the "belly-of-the-beast" in NYC. If you want to watch, in the approximately 5 minute recent Video, I am doing just that at the monthly NYC school community meetings, and I call out the NYC Department of Education for being in bed with the body-ruining corruption of the pharmaceutical industry:
I pray all our children return to sanity and come home and get put back together again. Nature wins, good luck beating her because you won't. Come home to your families who love you.
. Told my now adult child who is still I believe persisting and going through hormone treatment that I don't think is helpful to him. That when I was in high school there were times I wished I was a girl because girls at least got treated nice by the guys cuz some of them will be interested in them . They didn't seem to be bullied publicly like I was bullied or ostracized because of how short I was. I know I flaunted with the idea that if I was a girl I would have been the top Athlete on a particular team at my school. And I wrestled with that idea. But here's the thing I was able to recognize that I wasn't born a girl I was in fact male, and on top of that it wasn't that I was actually questioning gender at all but I was questioning the world that was extremely hostile to me as a outsider, Who not by choice was often a loner, and trying to figure out how to fit in in a culture that seems to just hate me. I think in the middle of all this I have not heard very people talk about how Society often sends messages that make young people think they need to be X or Y when that's not a true for everybody. How I wish my adult progeny would realize this and stop hurting himself because it makes me cry.
❤️ thank you so much for sharing this and great work!
Please know some of us like your parents also saw there was something else… something wasn’t right. Please know I’m trying to speak out where ever I can. I’m sorry so many adults failed you, I’m so happy to see you write and get that out. I’d like to scream it out loud for the world to hear.
I thank your parents as well.
If you haven’t already seen this series of posts by Wesley Yang on X they are among the most informative that I have seen on this vital issue:
1/29/2025
“There are no "anti-trans extremists."
“There is a political party and professional apparatus that put male rapists and murderers in women's prisons, propagandized kindergartners that any of them could change sex, forced taxpayers and insurance customers to fund electrolysis and facial feminization surgeries, put any boy or man who claimed to be female into changing rooms with your daughters, forced you to declare the gender identity of your toddler at the doctor's office, deceived parents about the social transition of their children at school, banned psychological exploration of the mental health comorbidities that manifest as trans-ideation in the midst of an online social contagion generating 5000 percent increases in trans identification among youth, fined all-female nude spas run by immigrants for excluding men with penises who claimed to be women for violating the human rights of those men, imposed men on the athletic playing fields with your daughters, told thousands of parents to submit to the chemical castration of their children to avert imminent suicide risk for which no evidence has ever existed, subjected thousands of children to macabre sex changes procedures while lying about the existence of an evidence base where none ever existed while claiming on the basis of no evidence that the procedures were life-saving, investigated parents who refused to put their children on a pipeline to a lifetime of medicalized self-harm by pretending they had changed sex and sought to seize custody of them, and threatened to unperson you, attack your livelihood and leave you ostracized if you resisted it in any way with the aid of the monopolistic tech platforms that control the circulation of speech and money around the globe in a new surveillance and censorship regime that sought to dismantle biological reality in the name of narcissistic fantasies that it intended to entrench as the only truth while corrupting the truth-seeking apparatus of science itself -- and there is a majority of normal people in both parties who oppose this nonsense and want it stopped.”
6/20/2025
“Transgenderism must revert to being a form of private eccentricity. Recognition as one's preferred gender can be privately negotiated but with no coercion by any entity private or public. We all have an absolute right to affirm or not affirm, believe or not believe, that gender identity exists, that no one can infringe.
Sex segregated spaces and activities remain segregated by sex, not "gender identity."
Adults are free to inflict bodily self-harm on themselves in pursuit of an appearance they like but outside of any pretense of a medical protocol -- these are cosmetic procedures that come with no promises to relieve dysphoria or unlock an authentic self and the cost is borne solely by the person seeking them. Any such promises constitute consumer fraud. Children are of course unable to consent to such procedures.
The state has no role in affirming any aspect of cross-gender ideation, avoids proselytizing to children in schools or to anyone else in any interface it has with the public. The person who has inflicted bodily self-harm on his sex traits is no more a distinct class of person to whom special privileges or protections can be conferred than a person who has covered his face in tattoos. The person who believes with all his heart that he is a woman at heart and would die if others don't recognize him as such imposes no duty on any other person to share in that belief or to pretend to share in it. That person must develop resiliency about living in a pluralistic, liberal, democratic society where every person has a right to belief and a corollary right to unbelief that no one may legitimately infringe.
Any and all deviations from this resolution are morally illegitimate and practically untenable.
The attempt to turn a private eccentricity into a social cause that justified the remaking of society was a ghastly and destructive mistake. It was made inevitable by certain facets of the culture and certain aspects of our politics. We must learn the lesson that experience has now taught us.”
You were one of the rare smart ones who saw the light.
Unfortunately, the groomers target the stupid who stay stupid.
From a wrecked parent who knows.
Groomers target the vulnerable.
Agreed. A huge cohort are gifted, quirky & vulnerable
My understanding is that Obamacare included changes to HIPAA authorizing coverage for dependents up to 26 yrs old (& older in some circumstances). It also made certain pharmaceuticals (psychiatric, hormonal, gender-affirming, etc.) private for dependents 18+. Many of the young people swept up in this transgender craze are also on psychiatric medications which can be very expensive. Unfortunately, the parents who are paying for this insurance coverage cannot access relevant information unless their dependent opts in for family sharing.
What a wonderful testimony of returning to reality and self-acceptance. Thank you so very much for sharing your life with us. Please keep writing, your voice is being heard, and it is lovely. You are so important to your family and to the world. Wishing you all the very best and praying for you! Love, Indio
So very glad that you found your way out of this! My teen years were the worst of my long life. Growing out of it is liberating.
Who would not want to become one of the group with more power, respect, money, and be safer? Even someone as rich and loved and worshipped as Michael Jackson kept trying to make himself look like the race who has power over his people. What if there was no racism or sexism? What if girls really had equal rights and were not caricatured and pornified in the media and in constant danger of assault? How many would get sucked into the trans cult?
YES! RESTACKED.
The pharmaceutical companies get ONE LESS girl sacrificed on their "trans" mutilation altar because your parents didn't go for it and they were able to protect you.
Enjoy that healthy body, Woman!
Loved this regarding the fakeness of all that "happiness" of the ones who fall for it:
"They seemed a lot happier,
Or at least that’s what they showed to me".
And loved how you encourage people to SPEAK OUT. That's what I am doing in the "belly-of-the-beast" in NYC. If you want to watch, in the approximately 5 minute recent Video, I am doing just that at the monthly NYC school community meetings, and I call out the NYC Department of Education for being in bed with the body-ruining corruption of the pharmaceutical industry:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EluKBYxKrsM
Thank you for your bravery and clarity, speaking out in the "belly-of-the-beast".
Bold and beautiful! Thank you for inspiring us as parents NEVER to lose hope!
We need more stories of hope and change like this. Thank you for sharing it.
This is so good! Thank you for writing it and sharing it with us! May God bless you and continue to shower you with His light and grace.
Thank you for sharing this!
Oh, dear... You are so brave to share your story with us! And there are so many parents who will feel addressed while reading it. Myself included....
The 56K must get louder, louder than those who propagate this madness!
You are the heroes of a terrible war between good and evil!
You must be supported!
So happy you came out of the dark...into the LIGHT !
God bless you and your parents!
Standing with you and Praying for others
I pray all our children return to sanity and come home and get put back together again. Nature wins, good luck beating her because you won't. Come home to your families who love you.