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I cried listening to this. Thank you for sharing it. I’m also the mother of an adult daughter who decided to “transition.” My husband and I were devoted, loving parents. Our child always seemed to return our love. We have not seen or spoken to her in over three years because she refuses all interaction with us. Up until the onset of ROGD, we had no idea that she was planning to cut us off. To make certain I’m not hallucinating, I’ve saved all the affectionate emails, voicemails and texts I received from her up until the day she went “no contact.” My husband is in his 80s and has come to terms with never seeing her again. I live haunted by memories of the kind and loving child and woman she was - or I thought she was. Apparently allegiance to her tribe matters more than basic human decency. Truman Capote wrote that the only unpardonable sin was deliberate cruelty. I can’t decide if that’s true in our case. Again thank you for sharing this lovely prayer-song. Take comfort that you are still seeing your child. She has not cut all ties. She may come back to you. I’ll pray for both our children.

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Mama Ain't Playin''s avatar

I'm weeping. How can you sing this without breaking into sobs? Thank you for sharing your art with us.

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