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Judy Crane's avatar

I could have written this two stormy years ago. My daughter is now a sophomore in college. Our relationship is not great but it’s better. She is still referred to as “he” by friends but has stopped testosterone. I see her slowly improving as time passes and she matures a little. I offer this just to provide a little hope to those in the midst of the storm. I didn’t think it was possible even a year ago but she is the daughter I raised deep down inside the mess and I think she is slowly returning.

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BrownEyed Girl's avatar

Me too. My daughter isn’t herself right now because she is so deep into this narrative. She did take a gap year, but has no interest in any of her previous interests, she did not go to graduation, did not go to prom, never had senior pictures. I am pissed! This cult has literally stolen her from us and stolen our lives away. The constant state of being frozen is exhausting, just waiting for the tide to turn all the while deflecting her from more social transition than has already occurred and from medicalization. So for what it’s worth, I’m so glad to have found you all. Thank you!!

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