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BowWow's avatar

It's the same situation in my household. I come from a family of staunch Democrats and my husband is a lone Democrat in a family of Trumpy Republicans. When our kid announced, at first we said "How brave," etc., and then changed our minds almost immediately after doing some research. Our kid has estranged us and is old enough to pursue surgery without our permission, so we live with constant dread. I see my husband spontaneously break out in tears several times a week, and he sees me do the same. But I spend much more time reading about all this and listening to podcasts than he does, and if I use words like "cancel," "woke," or "groomer," my husband gets squeamish, as if I've gone over to the "other side." It's difficult to reconcile having always had Liberal politics with the current cowardice of leaders on the Left. They fear the transactivists more than they fear voters, and that simply has to change!

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Brian Villanueva's avatar

What a great post. I often presume that both parents are in agreement about the trans lunacy, but (men and women being different) that's probably not the case most of the time. I'm sure my wife and I would not agree completely were we in this position. I would be ready to relocate to another state, take away my daughter's Internet access, and live off grid for a year. My wife would call that an overreaction.

As to the question asked... why do you do it? Why do you keep arguing?

Because truth matters.

Because reality matters.

Alexander Solzhenitsyn put it best: Lying in order to survive makes you unfree. Only truth can set you free. Live not by lies.

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