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Your essay resonates with the suppressed scream I walk around with every day. My son also signed "informed consent" at evil Planned Parenthood during his freshman year at college. I struggle not to lose my reality of my lived experience of raising my son. You have a daughter. I have a son. Even if our children have lost their way about the difference between fantasy and reality, us parents need to hold onto reality. And I hold onto my thimble of hope. Too many confused, vulnerable children and young adults are being preyed upon by a truly malavelent zietgeist and financial greed.

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I’ve been reading posts like this for years and I’ve felt the same pain. I feel as though I’ve lost my child, but instead of mourning them, I have to live with a stranger and hope that some day my child will come back to our family.

But when, instead of just sharing our pain, do we act? As a teacher and a parent of a trans child, I can’t escape this nightmare of affirmation without questioning - I’ve never experienced any medical condition, or heard of any illness, where encouraging someone to get a second opinion is not only discouraged, but considered an act of hate.

When, and how, can we take action that is respectful and fact- driven? What organizations are doing this work and what can we all do to embrace the challenge of fighting back against our children maiming themselves and destroying their ability to bring children into this world? Everyone has a day, week, or month of pride and celebration for their identities - is there a day to raise awareness of detransitioners or a national organization that can support families of trans kids who are ready to act to draw attention to children who are caught up in an inappropriate medical diagnosis that will impact the test of their lives? I am not transphobic - I do not fear trans individuals or hate them - I feel sorry for the path they have chosen and would like to find a way to help them get back to who they were before they got sucked into believing they were “in the wrong body” and in need of a new identity.

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