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Jennifer Bond Baker's avatar

Our son did this at age 23 and is nearly 27 so I understand the great heartache of having no say, no control, no voice in an adult son's life. He has damaged his body beyond repair in all the ways you described. My only comfort (if I can call it that) is that I do not see it, as he is estranged from us all these years now. I only had one friend who rejoiced over our son's "transformation", and I can't say she still is, or ever really was, a friend. I didn't have a letter to respond to but a conversation in which I was so shocked and dumbfounded all I could do was hold back tears, my mind reeling. I didn't have words at that moment. I think you've expressed yourself perfectly. You certainly have the support of your fellow distressed parents who more than anything want this madness to stop. God have mercy on us and our children....

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Linda KG's avatar

« You’re either with me, or you’re not ». The straightforwardness is powerful, and so is the whole letter. Thank you for sharing. I am with you.

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