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I'm glad coaching is helping you. However, that you are no longer watching anti woke videos or deleting any exposure to "negativity" is not connected with your son perhaps beginning to desist and moving home.

You were lucky.

My young adult son remains deep into his trans fantasy. And there is no "opportunity to ask him questions" about his terrible choices, as any pushback has him threatening to cease contact. if I could wave a magic wand, I would take away his "opportunity to find his own solutions" in the sense that wrong sex hormones for children and young adults would be illegal to prescribe along with any form of enabling this horrid ideology in colleges and other institutions from primary schools to heinous surgeons.

I do agree that pursuing positive activites that help restore whatever well-being might be possible amidst my grief. But part of how I cope is watching and reading stuff that highlights the negativity of this horrible ideology that has stolen my son. Doing so, helps me to feel sane in an insane world that is maligning parents who actually love their child and want to extricate HIM or HER (yes these delineations are REAL) from the trans cult.

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I am very happy for you and glad good things are happening for you. However I feel a huge responsibility and urge to speak up against this evil ideology to save our kids and others. It has and is destroying so many lives. I think we can try to have a balance by being detached and also actively fighting this ideology. If we don’t speak up and fight who will? Thank you.

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