For a bit of background, please read My Sweet Baby Boy, the first essay I wrote. I’m not going to talk about any of that in this essay. I’m going to share with you the wisdom that I have discovered and the positive effects it’s having on our family.
This is such a wonderful, amazing story. It paints a picture of the despair and hope that parents have throughout the process of trying to protect children. As the states begin to protect children, they also need to protect young adults who have been groomed as children into believing there is something wrong with their bodies. Surgeons make so much money off of the surgeries. If states want to protect kids, they should outlaw any surgeries being done to patients that have been groomed by a gender clinic staff member into believing that being transgender is real. It's all a fantasy and so happy for you that your child was able to see that.
Hello, my beautiful America. This is President Eden, and it's time we had a talk. It's time we discussed something rather important. The issue at hand is, well, my presidency. The question has been raised, I know, as to just how I came to be elected to this most illustrious office. Or whether or not I had been elected at all. To that I must answer; of course. Of course I was elected, sweet America, of course. Isn't the right to vote the very foundation of a democracy? Unfortunately, in the interest of national security, I am not at liberty to discuss the details of the election, you understand. But rest assured, I am your president because the appropriate people of this great nation decided I should be. I am your duly elected representative. Of course, when the time comes, when my term is up, America will be free to elect a new president. And that person will have our full faith and confidence, and carry our collective values forward into the future. Democracy, dear America. Democracy now, and forever. We've got to part now, you and I, but don't be sad America. The Enclave is working tirelessly, to rebuild this great nation, so you don't have to. Until we meet again, this is John Henry Eden, signing off.
This looks too much like the advice our gender confused teens are given by their therapists and the community at large--remove all negativity, such as your family and friends; focus on the here and now instead of the long term goals--you can always get a pair of fake boobs / you can always adopt / who needs sexual pleasure anyway, aren't you asexual; focus on yourself only as you are the most important person; Gd forbid you are uncomfortable or someone disagreed with you, that's a trauma; avoid anything triggering, seek safe places only. The OP is feeling great and positive, as there is always some level of euphoria in the beginning of every big change, just like our kids get "gender euphoria" when they start transitioning. Is this sustainable? Is this a long term strategy? How long can we pretend that we can be "safe" in our little pocket of artificially constructed reality?
I was hesitant to Share my updates but I cant SHUT UP!
Losing 1 child per minute to OUR GOVERNMENT!
This is my updates
In regards to my situation
My daughter Mia has been the State of Texas hands since October of last year. Here is what they have done.
I have court papers that tell of the mistakes they made with Mia.
She is now David.
In a Charter School.
Not with her sister but in a facility.
She is on two drugs I havent had a chance to look them up yet.
They brough her biological donnor into her life who is deffinately NOT HELPING.
Asking me to pay child support.
And Mia is not any better.
I will be meeting with the cps case worker Jamika Banks tomorrow morning for the first time. As always I will have it all recorded.
Her bio donnor left a week after I told hom I was pregnant.
I sold cars through my pregnancy 12 to 14 hours 6 days a week until my water broke on the showroom floor.
I will be sharing those court papers soon.
If I disappear LOOK FOR ME...kinda not kidding
After SB 14 passed on Monday. I pointed the CPS worker towards my story on Substack. We made an appointment to meet at my house. I walked down the street and next thing I know there were cops and the CPS worker at the door. I didnt go home we were supposed to be meeting alone. So why would she show up with 3 cops?
No one is Talking about how our children were indoctrinated in PUBLIC SCHOOLS!
WHY WONT THESE REPS HELP ME?
BECAUSE THEY ALLOWED THIS BS TO INFILTRATE OUR SCHOOLS!
This is highly edited because I havent gone to court yet.
A reporter from Epoch Times was writting my story until he became a voice of compliance. Complying doesnt matter they still take our children Away from us.
I am so happy for you and your family. Point taken about negativity, but I have two objections when it comes to applying your steps to my own life: 1) the parents of ROGD kids parent self-support group that I attend has done me SO much good in terms of putting things in perspective, staying positive, and being there for my daughter when and if she turns to me; 2) I want to be aware of and support legitimate organizations that are fighting the fight against trans surgeries and hormones for children, and for preserving fairness and opportunity in girls' and women's sports. If I unplug from it all, this evil agenda will continue to run rampant across our society.
I hope this substack doesn't become a place to advertise services. I get it that we all want to share what helped us in this hellish journey, but I think a link to a particular life coach is advertising and doesn't belong in a resource like this.
Well.. since Substack does allow us to have click-through ads for sponsors, I think personal 'ads' like this one are fine. They're certainly better than @LillianSheriff astroturfing the Comments section of this post with links and bullshit.
As long as they are clearly marked as persoal ads. What prevents a life coach from writing her own anonymous essays written from the perspective of a RoGD mom who was helped by this coach? And no one will know, not even the PITT. I am with you re LilianSheriff. Not just this post--every post...
Well... I suppose at some point Substack needs to police itself. They do allow comments to be reported, though I admittedly know nothing about the thresholds they have instituted -- when the number of reports equals comment removal or user ban. For the author, though, I'd be more comfortable supporting the link if it was a link to a Substack, rather than outside the site. I don't want this site to be all spammy, either. Tough line to draw.
The thing is, parents here are all very much vulnerable and are easy to take an advantage of by a life coach who might not even have experience or qualifications other than not being affirming. There was a time when I was desperate, scared and depressed and there were no non-affirming options except one. I got very lucky I wasn't taken andvantage of and it all ended well. But what would happen if a mom like me hires a life coach "on PITT's recommendation", basically, and this person ends up a charlatan draining her of money and mental health?
The timing of the author's son contacting her makes me wonder if he was following her on social media all along and came back as soon as she left what he considered "transphobic" circles on social media. It's a hard balance between our children's needs/trust and the urgency to fight this cult.
BRAVO for you!! Letting go is not easy by any means! As mothers, we are ready to fight to the death for our children. But yes, at some point we have to let go and this issue has cause so much unnecessary pain for families that it is unreal! I have stated before, I truly believe there are trans people, I KNOW trans people that are truly trans, but this aim and attach at children is something else! I just keep hoping parents keep speaking up! Otherwise, this is never end and it has to!
I respectfully disagree there are people who are truly "trans". I believe this opinion feeds the trans cult's horrid agenda duping vulnerable people and shattering families."Truly trans" is tantamount to truly a unicorn
Gender dysphoria is real but has nothing to do with the "trans" cult. It appers in childhood, in one in 65,000 people (three times as many boys as girls). The "late onset" shit we are seeing now is a fad. a victimization cult.
This is how we lose. He's still on the drugs. She's just given up. Life coaches are a distraction. Maybe feeling better isn't the be all and end all. What's right and wrong, truth and lies are. Where's the father would be my question. It's a lot to dump on one parent. I can understand the temptation to escape. You don't have to become an activist or a twitter clicktavist. But thrusting ur head in the sand is no answer. And this shouldn't be a place to shill life coaches, or cults
I agree with IceSkater40. I think we can take a step back. The shift for me happened by the true realization that I have no control over my son's life. He is delusional and a member of a cult right now. And he has no clue of either of those facts. Nothing I say or do will wake him up to that. He has to figure it out on his own. And unfortunately with the current state of the world - he has access to hormones and surgeries that can and will do permanent damage. I can just hope its minimal damage when he finally wakes up. As far as myself and seeking help from a life coach... I feel as though that was a necessary move on my part. I was in a really bad place. And I couldn't stay there. I have a life to live. I have a husband and other children. I have a granddaughter. I have a mother, father, brothers, a sister and lots of other people I love and love me back. I talk about this issue to everyone. I don't care who knows my story. People are unaware of what is really going on. That young kids and teens have access to puberty blockers, hormones, surgeries. So in my daily life - out in the real world... I tell them my story. That's how I fight this fight. I have not escaped. I still cry. I still feel sad and scared for my baby boy. But we need to take care of ourselves too.
"and" is a helpful word. "I am telling my story; supporting others suffering from this ideology; and sometimes taking a step back to care for self and others. One of the many problems with this sexual ideology is it doesn't use "and" . It's heavy on the "or": "Affirm me or I will cut you off; give me blockers or I will go to California!" It is also so narcissistic, keeping us 24/7 focused on it, so ignoring health, others, and self.
I don’t think she’s given up, she needs help and this life coach is filling that space. It’s impossible to find safe therapists when they’re guided by destructive policies and beliefs, the medical and psychological industries have betrayed all of us. So it’s no surprise that a seductive cult / life coach with a tribe (other cult members now devoted to the teachings?) fills in the vacuum of guidance for traumatized parents.
I disagree with you. Our kids need to find their own spaces and learn their own lessons, particularly adult children. Supporting a child while they work through things, isn't supporting a cult or shilling for it. Getting sucked into anger and acting like everything is a fight is soul-sucking and life-destroying. We get back what we put out and if it's anger and fear that we're putting out, well, that's where our life focus is going to become.
This is such a wonderful, amazing story. It paints a picture of the despair and hope that parents have throughout the process of trying to protect children. As the states begin to protect children, they also need to protect young adults who have been groomed as children into believing there is something wrong with their bodies. Surgeons make so much money off of the surgeries. If states want to protect kids, they should outlaw any surgeries being done to patients that have been groomed by a gender clinic staff member into believing that being transgender is real. It's all a fantasy and so happy for you that your child was able to see that.
Hello, my beautiful America. This is President Eden, and it's time we had a talk. It's time we discussed something rather important. The issue at hand is, well, my presidency. The question has been raised, I know, as to just how I came to be elected to this most illustrious office. Or whether or not I had been elected at all. To that I must answer; of course. Of course I was elected, sweet America, of course. Isn't the right to vote the very foundation of a democracy? Unfortunately, in the interest of national security, I am not at liberty to discuss the details of the election, you understand. But rest assured, I am your president because the appropriate people of this great nation decided I should be. I am your duly elected representative. Of course, when the time comes, when my term is up, America will be free to elect a new president. And that person will have our full faith and confidence, and carry our collective values forward into the future. Democracy, dear America. Democracy now, and forever. We've got to part now, you and I, but don't be sad America. The Enclave is working tirelessly, to rebuild this great nation, so you don't have to. Until we meet again, this is John Henry Eden, signing off.
How its being Promoted, The New American Education System!
I say Hell No!
https://wesleyyang.substack.com/p/queer-normative-elementary-schooling?utm_medium=reader2
ok
This looks too much like the advice our gender confused teens are given by their therapists and the community at large--remove all negativity, such as your family and friends; focus on the here and now instead of the long term goals--you can always get a pair of fake boobs / you can always adopt / who needs sexual pleasure anyway, aren't you asexual; focus on yourself only as you are the most important person; Gd forbid you are uncomfortable or someone disagreed with you, that's a trauma; avoid anything triggering, seek safe places only. The OP is feeling great and positive, as there is always some level of euphoria in the beginning of every big change, just like our kids get "gender euphoria" when they start transitioning. Is this sustainable? Is this a long term strategy? How long can we pretend that we can be "safe" in our little pocket of artificially constructed reality?
I was hesitant to Share my updates but I cant SHUT UP!
Losing 1 child per minute to OUR GOVERNMENT!
This is my updates
In regards to my situation
My daughter Mia has been the State of Texas hands since October of last year. Here is what they have done.
I have court papers that tell of the mistakes they made with Mia.
She is now David.
In a Charter School.
Not with her sister but in a facility.
She is on two drugs I havent had a chance to look them up yet.
They brough her biological donnor into her life who is deffinately NOT HELPING.
Asking me to pay child support.
And Mia is not any better.
I will be meeting with the cps case worker Jamika Banks tomorrow morning for the first time. As always I will have it all recorded.
Her bio donnor left a week after I told hom I was pregnant.
I sold cars through my pregnancy 12 to 14 hours 6 days a week until my water broke on the showroom floor.
I will be sharing those court papers soon.
If I disappear LOOK FOR ME...kinda not kidding
After SB 14 passed on Monday. I pointed the CPS worker towards my story on Substack. We made an appointment to meet at my house. I walked down the street and next thing I know there were cops and the CPS worker at the door. I didnt go home we were supposed to be meeting alone. So why would she show up with 3 cops?
No one is Talking about how our children were indoctrinated in PUBLIC SCHOOLS!
WHY WONT THESE REPS HELP ME?
BECAUSE THEY ALLOWED THIS BS TO INFILTRATE OUR SCHOOLS!
My Story publish on PITT PARENT SUBSTACK
https://pitt.substack.com/p/tick-tick-boom
This is highly edited because I havent gone to court yet.
A reporter from Epoch Times was writting my story until he became a voice of compliance. Complying doesnt matter they still take our children Away from us.
I found a lawyer but he wants 6k to start.
wowzers, if you are losing one child a minute, you must be losing a lot of kids AND have a lot of kids!!
FROM JENNA ELLIS ON PARENTS RIGHTS. THEY ARE MAKING BILLIONS OFF TRANSING OUR CHILDREN!!!
LISTEN HERE. GOVERNMENT USING CPS AS A WEAPON TO TAKE OIR CHILDREN!
https://streamer1.afa.net/afr-aod/JennaEllisInTheMorning/je_20230519.mp3
Here is a Great Audio Episode from I Don't Have Enough Faith to Be an Atheist.
On The Transgender Issues we Are facing Today! I hope it helps. I reccomend everyone listen to this believer and Non. God Bless!
https://content.blubrry.com/cross_examined/Frank_Solo_5-19-2023.mp3
I am so happy for you and your family. Point taken about negativity, but I have two objections when it comes to applying your steps to my own life: 1) the parents of ROGD kids parent self-support group that I attend has done me SO much good in terms of putting things in perspective, staying positive, and being there for my daughter when and if she turns to me; 2) I want to be aware of and support legitimate organizations that are fighting the fight against trans surgeries and hormones for children, and for preserving fairness and opportunity in girls' and women's sports. If I unplug from it all, this evil agenda will continue to run rampant across our society.
Never underestimate the power of manifesting, truth! This was a wonderful work, thanks for sharing.
The videos I shared from Deb below really need tobe seen by THE TEXAS HOUSE OF REPRESENTATIVES ASAP!
IF SOMEONE CAN HELP IT WILL BE APRECIATED!
https://www.youtube.com/live/KLRx2SBI2EM?feature=share
THE GAME THATS BEING PLAYED 2HILE OUR CHILDREN ARE ABUSED!
I hope this substack doesn't become a place to advertise services. I get it that we all want to share what helped us in this hellish journey, but I think a link to a particular life coach is advertising and doesn't belong in a resource like this.
Well.. since Substack does allow us to have click-through ads for sponsors, I think personal 'ads' like this one are fine. They're certainly better than @LillianSheriff astroturfing the Comments section of this post with links and bullshit.
As long as they are clearly marked as persoal ads. What prevents a life coach from writing her own anonymous essays written from the perspective of a RoGD mom who was helped by this coach? And no one will know, not even the PITT. I am with you re LilianSheriff. Not just this post--every post...
Well... I suppose at some point Substack needs to police itself. They do allow comments to be reported, though I admittedly know nothing about the thresholds they have instituted -- when the number of reports equals comment removal or user ban. For the author, though, I'd be more comfortable supporting the link if it was a link to a Substack, rather than outside the site. I don't want this site to be all spammy, either. Tough line to draw.
The thing is, parents here are all very much vulnerable and are easy to take an advantage of by a life coach who might not even have experience or qualifications other than not being affirming. There was a time when I was desperate, scared and depressed and there were no non-affirming options except one. I got very lucky I wasn't taken andvantage of and it all ended well. But what would happen if a mom like me hires a life coach "on PITT's recommendation", basically, and this person ends up a charlatan draining her of money and mental health?
The timing of the author's son contacting her makes me wonder if he was following her on social media all along and came back as soon as she left what he considered "transphobic" circles on social media. It's a hard balance between our children's needs/trust and the urgency to fight this cult.
Deb Shares a Part 2 Also!
https://www.youtube.com/live/iTyDC5Sg0GE?feature=share
Parents here is some great information from Deb Filman on Mental Health changes in their manuals!
https://www.youtube.com/live/KLRx2SBI2EM?feature=share
BRAVO for you!! Letting go is not easy by any means! As mothers, we are ready to fight to the death for our children. But yes, at some point we have to let go and this issue has cause so much unnecessary pain for families that it is unreal! I have stated before, I truly believe there are trans people, I KNOW trans people that are truly trans, but this aim and attach at children is something else! I just keep hoping parents keep speaking up! Otherwise, this is never end and it has to!
I respectfully disagree there are people who are truly "trans". I believe this opinion feeds the trans cult's horrid agenda duping vulnerable people and shattering families."Truly trans" is tantamount to truly a unicorn
Gender dysphoria is real but has nothing to do with the "trans" cult. It appers in childhood, in one in 65,000 people (three times as many boys as girls). The "late onset" shit we are seeing now is a fad. a victimization cult.
yes, this
This is how we lose. He's still on the drugs. She's just given up. Life coaches are a distraction. Maybe feeling better isn't the be all and end all. What's right and wrong, truth and lies are. Where's the father would be my question. It's a lot to dump on one parent. I can understand the temptation to escape. You don't have to become an activist or a twitter clicktavist. But thrusting ur head in the sand is no answer. And this shouldn't be a place to shill life coaches, or cults
I agree with IceSkater40. I think we can take a step back. The shift for me happened by the true realization that I have no control over my son's life. He is delusional and a member of a cult right now. And he has no clue of either of those facts. Nothing I say or do will wake him up to that. He has to figure it out on his own. And unfortunately with the current state of the world - he has access to hormones and surgeries that can and will do permanent damage. I can just hope its minimal damage when he finally wakes up. As far as myself and seeking help from a life coach... I feel as though that was a necessary move on my part. I was in a really bad place. And I couldn't stay there. I have a life to live. I have a husband and other children. I have a granddaughter. I have a mother, father, brothers, a sister and lots of other people I love and love me back. I talk about this issue to everyone. I don't care who knows my story. People are unaware of what is really going on. That young kids and teens have access to puberty blockers, hormones, surgeries. So in my daily life - out in the real world... I tell them my story. That's how I fight this fight. I have not escaped. I still cry. I still feel sad and scared for my baby boy. But we need to take care of ourselves too.
A girl with BIID blinded herself.
Her family disowned her.
"and" is a helpful word. "I am telling my story; supporting others suffering from this ideology; and sometimes taking a step back to care for self and others. One of the many problems with this sexual ideology is it doesn't use "and" . It's heavy on the "or": "Affirm me or I will cut you off; give me blockers or I will go to California!" It is also so narcissistic, keeping us 24/7 focused on it, so ignoring health, others, and self.
I don’t think she’s given up, she needs help and this life coach is filling that space. It’s impossible to find safe therapists when they’re guided by destructive policies and beliefs, the medical and psychological industries have betrayed all of us. So it’s no surprise that a seductive cult / life coach with a tribe (other cult members now devoted to the teachings?) fills in the vacuum of guidance for traumatized parents.
I disagree with you. Our kids need to find their own spaces and learn their own lessons, particularly adult children. Supporting a child while they work through things, isn't supporting a cult or shilling for it. Getting sucked into anger and acting like everything is a fight is soul-sucking and life-destroying. We get back what we put out and if it's anger and fear that we're putting out, well, that's where our life focus is going to become.
The truth needs to be told to our children by the ones who originated the lies so our kids will trust us again.