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Melody Rich's avatar

So relieved and pleased by the optimistic ending, and by Ellie’s recognition of the value of the constant emotional support she received during a dark time of confusion and pain.

Not to pour cold water on that hopeful ending, but the voting patterns of good-hearted Democrats have enabled this in California, where I’ve lived since 1992. I remember in the 90s being told to shut up and sit down by my colleagues in entertainment, who scoffed at my “outlandish fears” when I expressed indignation that policies were being promoted (by Democrats) allowing school children younger than 14 to be taken for abortions without parental consent OR KNOWLEDGE.

I was literally told that would “never happen.” It did.

The point? This has not been a quick and sudden and unpredictable slide into the usurping of parental rights. Democrats, leftists and self-styled progressives took us here on purpose, and those of us who sounded the alarm 30 years ago were mocked. It grieved me then, and the suffering I see grieves me more now.

I hope and trust Ellie will remain confident and strong in her identity as a young woman. Thank you for sharing this.

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George Q Tyrebyter's avatar

What a discouraging story!! I have always been a very involved father. I coached my daughter's soccer team. I worked with my son's soccer team. I cooked for the family for 8 years as my wife had a longer commute than did I. As I was able to take free time off from my academic position, I often did the physician visits. I found this to be enriching and positive.

I cannot understand men who do not involve themselves in the lives and activities of their children.

Now we have a grandchild, and my daughter is happy to have us involved in her life. My heart is full because I put time in for the kids. By no means was I perfect. I often think of the things we did not do with the children. But the balance is on the positive side.

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